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E-mail: victoria1992@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: rhode island
Age: 15
AIM: young nd insanex
Member Since: November 6, 2005
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my mom says that she gives me lots of priveleges, which i highly disagree with. just today i had a friend over -a girl- -im a guy- and we went to my room and my mom yelled at me and told me that im too old to have girls in my room even if we're just friends -btw im 15-. do you agree with this? if you do then why?! if you dont then how do i tell my mom that i am mature enough to control myself around my friends...sheesh (link)
its true that parents give us priveleges but ..there not always the ones we want them to give us ...i agree with you 100 percent i think you should just straight up tell her that you can control your self around your friends ...tell her that your mature enough to behave with them ..be completly honest with her and get your point across ... infact they say actions sspeak louder then words so show her that your mature enough to control your self let her see for her self

hope i helped ..

- v


I'm looking for a product(shampoo) that tames poufy hair, makes your hair sleek and shiny, and helps to make your hair somewhat thinner. I've already tried the product Pantene Pro-v has. I think it's called sleek and shine. I've also tried Garnier Fructis's sleek and shine products. Many other brands don't have specific types made to make your hair thinner and sleeker. I don't want to buy Matrix products because I don't need to spend like 25 bucks on shampoo. If anyone has had good experiences with brands that aren't outrageously prced I would like to know!! I also would like you to give me the SPECIFIC name of the product...not just the brand!


Thanks in advance, i could use some help! (link)
3 minute miricle works realy realy good i have the same problem with my hair thats what i use its by assuie its good thats what i recomend because ive used most of them n that one seems to really help the poufyness and its not priced really high


hey you know who this is lol..well victoria..this isnt REALLY bad..but it can lead into a bad thing..but i hope not..

okay..(ill call myself bob and the kid that i likes' name bobby)..
bob and bobby have liked eachother for at least two weeks ( or maybe more ) and we also liked eachother like a month befor this..and bobby lead bob on and then went and asked someone else out so bob just stopped liking bobby. so then when bobby dumped his gf a month later..bobby like bob again ( and bobby liked bob all during his other relationship too for that last month) so now bobby and bob like eachother again and bobby told bobs sister that hes going to ask bob out...whenever..but this time might be serious now..but bob's just afraid that bobbys going to blow her off again..what should i do?

i love youuuu (link)
hello bob ha ...ok well ..personally i think that bobby in a way an ass for leading you on then just goin out with someone else ..dont take that in the wrong way i just think its mean to do that to some one when you do not plan on following through ..you sed he Might be seriouse about asking bob out bob better check into that because it makes me sad to think that bobby wud do that to bob again ...but if bob likes bobby that much and bob is willing to take a chance then go for it ...and if bobby hurts bob ill hurt bobby =] haha ..but seriously bob and bobby have been waiting to actuly go out with one another for quite some time so they should go for it thats what they both think is best ..over i think that bob dont devote your self totaly to bobby because if something happens you will be crushed so take it slow just wait it out and remain the same with bobby if something was ment to happen it will be patient



Does discharge mean your close to your period? (link)
not really i know a friend n she had it like 2 years before she actuly got her period


hope i was helped


hey v!! im so0 happy yu have an advice colum...but any way...i have this problem...my freind...(we will call her bob)...well bob doesnt like this other freind of mine (we will call her sam). but i like both of them...and then i think bob gets mad at me when i hang out wit her...but then sam gets mad when hang out wit someone else rather then her! and i want bob to see wut i see in sam,cause there really is so0me one nice in sam but bob doesnt see it lmao!! but any way help me out!!!

love...cj buddy...well no longer cj! lmao (link)
ok cj buddy ..well not really cj buddy but what ever ...haha ..im not sure if this is a real problem or u made one up to let me give advice in my collumn but ok i had the same problem some time ago ...actuly a very long time ago but none the less one of my friends ..wanted me to become friends with one of her friends so we could all be friends together but i thought that her friend did not like me so we stayed away from eachother until we realized we just dint like eachother because we thought the other person dint like us confusing but still...maybe sam and bob have a history of not likeing eachother ...if thats the case and they have always had problems with eachother maybe its best they stay away so they dont cause any more pain and problems for you ..but if they just dont like echother for a stupid reason then you should tell them how important it is to you that they become friends so that all you guys can hang out if sam gets madd when u hang out wit anyone else other then her she is gonna have some problems because you can not constantly be with one friend maybe bob doesnt see what you see in sam because you generally see the good in people over all i suggest you talk to them indavidualy about y they do not like one another and tell each of them how important it is to you ...but be prepaired because being in a friends really good friendship with more then one person takes time n its a bumpy road ...u should kno because uve seen plenty of them go down the drain or survive after troublesome times ...just a warning tho ..good luck cj buddy n e more problems you know were to find me xO


okay what would you do if this "friend" always ditches u for someone else and only hangs around you when she aint got nobody else? i mean we use to be really good friends but now she only wants to hang with this other friend and is beiong really mean? please help!!! thanks buh bye!! (link)
well then shes not really a good friend is she if a friend at all ... be nice to her when u see her but dont let her use you when she has no one else to hang with ...even when shes being mean to try to keep ur cool i think that will prove that you a "bigger" person you kno


ok heres the deal. ive posted questions before about this but i seriously am hurting. im 17 female a lil over a year ago i met this guy that i fell completely in love with..*dont tell me its not love please* it is.. but umm i moved away from him about 4months and havent seen him since i barely talk to him only every now and then. but i get so depressed knowing that some other girl can be with him and have him hold them like he held me and kissed me. just like b4 i moved he told me how in love with me was and like that he had never felt this way for another girl in his life. but after i moved all that went down the shitter idk what happened he didnt stick around with me for very long either. it hurts i really need somehow to control these emotions till i can see him again which prob wont be for atleast one year or longer.. i really love him and it is causing me to not be able to like-love any other guys like im holding back i dont want to get hurt again..* please any help would be nice ill rate you if ya want...! thx in advance! (link)
there is no doubt that love hurts ... its totally understandable that this is hurting you ...and the more you think about it the more it diggs deeper into you ...maybe you can control your emotions by keeping your mind off of them ... dont think about him all the time and kill your self wondering about what he could be doing at that very moment ...try new things and even try to date around ...meet some other guys hang out with your friends and have fun because they say time flys when ur having fun so that one year or longer will go by fast just live life ...if its fate remember youll meet up again sometime in the future but maybe while your there youll meet another guy u like alot who will help take you mind off of him ..thats all i got for now i helped a lil and i hope everything goes well




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