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*help me please*im depressed*
ok heres the deal. ive posted questions before about this but i seriously am hurting. im 17 female a lil over a year ago i met this guy that i fell completely in love with..*dont tell me its not love please* it is.. but umm i moved away from him about 4months and havent seen him since i barely talk to him only every now and then. but i get so depressed knowing that some other girl can be with him and have him hold them like he held me and kissed me. just like b4 i moved he told me how in love with me was and like that he had never felt this way for another girl in his life. but after i moved all that went down the shitter idk what happened he didnt stick around with me for very long either. it hurts i really need somehow to control these emotions till i can see him again which prob wont be for atleast one year or longer.. i really love him and it is causing me to not be able to like-love any other guys like im holding back i dont want to get hurt again..* please any help would be nice ill rate you if ya want...! thx in advance!
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there is no doubt that love hurts ... its totally understandable that this is hurting you ...and the more you think about it the more it diggs deeper into you ...maybe you can control your emotions by keeping your mind off of them ... dont think about him all the time and kill your self wondering about what he could be doing at that very moment ...try new things and even try to date around ...meet some other guys hang out with your friends and have fun because they say time flys when ur having fun so that one year or longer will go by fast just live life ...if its fate remember youll meet up again sometime in the future but maybe while your there youll meet another guy u like alot who will help take you mind off of him ..thats all i got for now i helped a lil and i hope everything goes well
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Answer: If this guy truly loved you, he would not leave you just because of the distance. I have been in a long-distance relationship before, and we were both committed to each other even though we were 10,000 miles apart!
I know it hurts to have your heart broken, but you need to let go. Cherish all the memories you had together, but you are in love with a guy from the past. Do you really love him now, knowing how easily he left you?
Dwelling on this one guy will only imprison yourself from experiencing happiness. It's okay not to like any other guys at the moment because you are afraid of being hurt. The heart takes time to heal. Don't focus on guys! Focus on your friends, your passions, and your family. In time, things will get better and you'll be fine.
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