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I have a close friend who I usually get on well with. However, yesterday evening he told me that he is homophobic because he believes homosexual people mess up the whole cycle of life and they are selfish. I told him that people have the right to be who they want to be but he disagreed. Eventually I said that we could just forget it and agree to disagree but he wouldn't leave it. I told him I didn't want homosexual friends and refused to speak to him. I badly want to be his friend but he refuses to just forget our disagreement and not talk about it again. He just keeps saying that he is right and wont accept that it is a matter of opinion. I don't want to lose him as a friend, what should I do?
maybe you should try agreeing with him to see if he doesnt talk about it but that doesnt mean you should friend with them just beacause of your freind
Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx
Try talking to him on the phone after school see what up maybe he doesnt want to give the wrong message (that you like him) because your such great friends
i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?
maybe he likes you... but watch out for the gf you dont want her saying thing about you around the school or your other friends but if anything he'll come to the resscue
i dont no whats going on with me i thinking about cutting nd running away.do i have problems? should i see some1? anyone no ne more?
i rate high
I understand i sometimes about thinking about running away... no you dont have prblems its just that your probly going through a lot and dont know how to express your anger or feelings in a way...but its normal
what can drugs do to u?
omg well put it this way you shouldnt be taking drugs bc 1.they can kill you 2.get you relli sick and kill you 3.get you reli sick 4.harm your bodi reli badly
well...tomorrow me n some of my friends might make a movie. well what are some ideas we could do for a movie? thanks ill rate 5!!!
comdey or action! like white chicks that was a great movie haha and your friends can get all in for the parts!!!
The boy i like might just be going with this girl i know and was friends with .See, this boy used to be my BFF , and he used to like me in the past. I'm not sure if he still does like me..Now, he wont talk to me.. What should i do ? my heart is broken!
try becominf friends with the girl or try talking to him or try talking to one of the girls friends maybe he'll talk to you but what ever the reason you shouldnt be crying over any guy!
Last year I was on the track team on the four by 100 meter relay. It was awesome and I loved it. This year was not the same. I was absent for a few days and missed my chance to be on the relay team. Another girl, who I happen to not really like, got on the team. This is her first year to be in sports and she honestly thinks she's better than everyone. She's one of those girl's whose egos are bigger than their wardrobe. I was upset, yes, because I wanted to be on the team not her. I was mad and her and I got in a little fight. I got over it quickly because I realized that it was stupid of me to be upset, but she got her "BFF" involved. A few days after the last track meet her BFF posted this in her xanga hope you did great at the track meet w/ YOUR relay team..and showed kristin whos relay team that really is..! (because we ALL know its not hers)... I'm upset, but I don't know what to do? Am i right to be upset?
dont pay attention to her. when you act like you dont care shell stop its always the same thing with my lil sis she thinks she can get away with everything!
hi im 15 and i have long hair, like every other guy at school. but it looks really bad, like its always messed up when i wake up. it looks good with a hat on, but without nething..*twitch* ne ideas to what i can do to make it look good in like 5-10 minutes? thx
get it cut them spike it up in the morning!
ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!
o my god i totally understand what your going through... well i know it gets annying and everything but if you feel like its geting to much into your privcy dont answer them because it really isnt any of there business
ok, i have a really good friend of another race that i had no doubt at all was gay. he was always checking out other guys and stuff so of course..duh, i thot he way gay. so we were really good friends and then all of a sudden he told me the DAY BEFORE april fools that he had had a really bad crush on me since the beguinning of last year. k, it TOTALLY threw me by suprise b/c i thot he was GAY!! so ne ways i though he was joking cos the next day was april fools but he wasn't kidding at all!!! so he kept stalking me and wouldn't leave me alone. he would always be like "have you though about it yet, you're taking FOREVER!!" but my mom just got home from the hospital from a really stressful and long-recovery surgery and she JUST now started walking. so i've been distracted obviously with my mom. so ne ways i was doing this filming project for school and he was stalking me the entire time. we were filming and he'd just be standing there looking around doing nothing, watching what we were doing when we all asked him to leave like 30 minutes ago, but he wouldn't leave. so finally we finished the project and i needed to change out of this crazy costume i was in so i told him "hey, i need to change into my regular clothes." an he just tood there starring at me, then he goes "well then?" like i was ACCTUALLY going to do it in front of him! so i told him he needed to go outside and he was all pissy about it. so then while i was changing i saw him STARRING AT ME THROUGH THE WINDOW WHILE I WAS CHANGING MY TOP!! oh my gosh it was so horrible! i felt so violated! and he's still been stalking me and saying "hey, how's your day?" to me in the hallway like we're going out even though it should be pretty clear to him that we're NOT!! so how do i tell this guy to get lost and leave me alone? i don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again he was starring at me while i was changing so i kind of do. ne suggestions? what should i say? i rate high
well you should tell him to give you your space you know? You should still talk to him but not to much to give him the idea of the point for when you say "leave me alone" but since you mom and everything dont take this really hard you dont want to put more stress on yourself!