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hi my name is sarah. some say im good at giving advise, but i think that it an opinionated thing. if you have any qeustions at all, about anything, feel free to ask me. i cant promise that i can give you the right answer, but i will try my best! you can also im me on aim anytime that i am on..my sn is DrkLilScrt.

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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.

Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

i think that you should follow your heart. age is just a number, love will never end. dont worry as much about what other people think of you. they're not with him, so they dont have to worry about it. besides you are 19 and he is 30. thats really not all that bad. my sister is 21 and her husband is in his mid 40's. my mom is 38 and her husband is in his mid 50's. ((everyone still loves them just the same)) i personally dont enjoy being with older guys but its not age that matters...just follow your heart and dont worry about what other people think of u. its none of their buisness. i hope that helped! :) much

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i feel that im being abused by words.. is that possibal?

and im 13/f and would i be able to call a abuse line? and get my mom taken away from me?

it is very possible. its called verbal abuse and is very common..especially with teenagers. sometimes parents feel as though they have to control everything their children do and this often results in 'verbal' abuse. they may cuss at you a lot or shout at you, call you names, etc. if its bad enough, you can get something done about it! you can call HRS or you could call social services or an abuse hotline. im not sure if theyd take you away from your mom, but they would prolly come an kinda 'supervise' to see that she didnt do it any more. i hope this helped an that every thing works out ok.

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ok this is a riddle that most of my friends dont get, i do know the awncer and ill give it to you o the feed back! easy 5!

What get's wetter,
The more it dries?

towel

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wow, i babysat for my neighbors daughter just to help out at the last min. well i babysat for 2hrs and 30 min and i got payed 22$... is that too much for a 12 year old girl?

for a 12 year old girl...no, that wouldnt be too much. especially if thats wut her mother/parent/gaurdian gave you. and you did do it on a last min. notice so they may have decided to give you a good tip. all i can say is have fun with the money and you have a good job! :)

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HELP PLEASE..WILL RATE HIGH

here's the background information:::

last night..i went to the homecomming game with my friends. i hung out with a group of my really close guy friends for a while. i recientally broke up with my boyfriend..and my close friend (( im just going to use letters )) D asked me to take a walk with him. so i said alright, and we talked about y i broke up with my bf E. after a few min..he held my hand and he told me that he respectes my decision about what i did. also that night..i hung out with my friend C..we were fooling around..he said something random or stupid, and i'd kick him cause it was so annoying..but thats the way we are...anyways...today, my friend D imed me and told me that i shuld go out with C...i found this totally random and asked him y he thought i should. he told me that me and C look good together...which..i dont really kno for sure.....my other friend ( a guy ) told me that he thinks D likes me and tried using the whole " C && me makes a good couple" to distract me....


my question is....is it ture that he could be saying that i look good with someone else to hide his feelings for me?

yes it is very true! guys and girls do this often. in a guys case, they feel that if they tell you that you'd look good with someone else, it will give you respect for them because 'they want you to be happy'. it happens often, but its not always to be considered 'reverse pshycology' although thats what it really is. guys often do this because they are too shy or emberrassed to actually tell you that they like you, in fear that you might not feel the same way. well, i hope that helped, if it didnt, im sorry. :)

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I'm really confused about a lot of things. I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex, but I've talked to people about bisexuality and I think about it a lot. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". Thanks in advance, any serious answers will be helpful.

i am a bisexual. bisexuality is something that many girls think about but never admit to being. if you often think about girls in a sexual way (such as body parts, sexual intercourse, or relationship-wise) then you are more than likely bi. but, remember that being bi is a feeling, its not something that you just go around saying trying to be cool or jus because you thought once about a girl. and if your not completly sure that your bi, dont go around telling people that you are because if you eventually realize that it was just a phaze and meant nothing, you will more than likely get teased from peers.(and thats not always fun nor is it easy to deal with) :) hope that helped.

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okay well i have a bf and we have nothing at all in commin i mean we barly talk and now hes gone 4 2 weeks on a cruse and theres a dance coming up this weekend. adn theres this kid ((boy w/e)) that i kinda in a way just met and he told me he liked me and well he was flirting w/ me at the last dance and i just think hes cute i mean i dont think i like him. but hes a grade unger than me and i dont realli think age matters but i do have a bf and idk what to do i mean wen im single i barrley like anyone but now i have a bf i think i like alot of people ((well no everyone)) but i tend to flirt more or notice that i do. srry its so long. im just so confused about this hole thing.

i think that its normal that you would flirt more when u you have a bf than when you dont. but before you go and do anyting that would qualify as cheating on your bf you should ask yourself, "is he a good bf?" "do you think that if you were gone on a cruise and he was left with a girl that liked him he would cheat on you?" dont cheat yourself out of a good relationship that is, or could come. ((but if you do something with this kid at the dance, its also normal for you to feel kinda guilty afterwards and possibly break up with your bf))

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