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Location: tennessee
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Age: 15
Member Since: May 11, 2006
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15/f does nayone know how to loose weight? i'm already eating only 1000 calories a day, runing for 40 mins everyday, not eating fast food, all that kind of stuff, and there aren't any weight problems in my family, but i'm just so fat and i 'm trying really hard to loose weight (i've been doing the running and the not eating as much for 6 months now) and i've only lost 2 pounds, can anyone help?

iF i WAS Y00U i W0UlDNT D0 THE CAl0RiE DiET i W0UlD D0 THE CH0lESTERAl DiET.
Y00U l00SE M0RE WEiGHT && FASTER.i'VE HAD EXPERiANCE.

G00DlUCK iN UR WEiGHT.

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OKay im moving in like 2 months and i want a new bedroom set matching sheets quilt picture frames rugs picture frames and all. Does anyone know a good site? Or a good theme idea for my room all will help thanksss

i W0UlD TRY BED BATH && BEY0ND 0R liNN0NS && THiNGS [SP].
THEY HAVE Al0T 0F THiNGS T0 MATCH.
BUT iF Y00U WANT T0 G0 CHEAP 0N A BUDGET WAlMART iS G00D T00.

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14/f theres this girl at school and we used to be best friends. then 2 years ago we split up, not because of a fight but because we were sick of eachother. last year i joined her "clique" and shes really pissed that i'm in her "group" now so shes trying to do everything to get back at me. she spills drinks all over my pants on purpose so it looks like i peed my pants, she offered to buy me a soda and shook it and it went all over the place. every day when i sit at the same lunch table as her she says "no every seat is taken" and ill say "yea nice try" and ill sit down and she'll move tables. she talks about me behind my back, well actually she talks about everyone, but especially me. whenever i go to talk to someone in the "clique" since im in it too, she pushes them away so i cant talk to them. sometimes shes really nice to me, but i think shes just super jealous because her friends let me in the clique. after all shes done to me this year and a half, i wanna get back at her. let her know whose boss. i dont wanna make her cry, i dont wanna be a bitch. i just need to say something really good or do something that will just let her know that shes messing with me and she needs to back off.i normally dont do revenge but i feel like if im going to be hanging out with her clique and shes going to try to embarrass me or stop me from talking to them, i need to do something good. please help me with ideas to say or do to her. NOTHING THAT WILL GET ME SUSPENDED TO IN TROUBLE.

KK WiLL FiRST OF ALL LET ME SAY SHE AN ASSWHOLE AND SHE NEED TO GET HER SHiT STRAiGHT i MEAN DAMN iS SHE THE LEADER OF THE PACK COME ON NOW. OK WELL DONT LET HER BUG YOU.NEXT TiME SHE TRiES TO BE A SMART AZZ. BE LiKE "WHAT THE HELL iS WRONG WiTH YOU i HAVE NO CLUE WHAT i DiD TO YOU BUT iM GETTiNG TiRED OF YOU TRYiNG TO iMPRESS EVERYBODY BY MAKEiNG ME LOOK STUPiD AND iM SRRY iF YOU DONT WANT ME HANGiNG WiTH THE "CLiQUE" BUT LAST TiME i CHECKED YOU WASNT MY DAMN MOM. AND iF YOU REALLY HAVE A PROBLEM WiTH ME THEN STOP OBSESSiNG OVER ME AND TALK ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE THAX GOOD DAY!!" (SRRY BOUT THE LANGUAGE BUT THAT GOT ME TWiSTED LOL)
HOPE i HELPED

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whats a really good foundation? that stays on for a long time? i had clinique.. but i didn't like it. what other kinds are there?

TRY EliZABETH ARDEN.
iT TURNS 0UT AS A G00D MAKEUP && STAYS 0N F0R A l0NG TiME.
VERY G00D STUFF.
:]

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so my friend wants me to get help. i guess i may just need help. i just stopped cutting about a few weeks ago, because my mother found out. I have family issues, like my father. i used to hate the world. sometimes i feel all depressed because of my family.. i dont know, advice?

i W0UlD l00K iNT0 A SYCYATRiST 0R A SYC0l0GiST.
ASK UR M0THER iF Y00U D0NT KN0W WHAT iT iS.
CUTTiNG Y00URSElF iSNT THE BEST CH0iCE.
Y00U C0UlD DiE iF Y00U l00SE T0 MUCH Bl00D.
Y00UR PUTTiNG Y00UR B0DY iN DANGER && PAiN && G0D D0ESNT liKE THAT && Y00UR FRiENDS && FAMilY W0UlDNT liKE iT EiTHER BUT Y00U ST0PPED && THATS A G00D THiNG BUT iF Y00U EVER ARE MAD 0R SAD D0NT CUT Y00URSElF JUST TAlK iT 0VER WiTH S0ME0NE THAT Y00U CANT TRUST.

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how come my left boob is killing me and my right is just fine? my left has a little ball in the front and it hurts bad.

Y00UR B00B C0UlD BE GR0WiNG && iT C0UlD BE GR0WiNG PAiNS 0R iT C0UlD BE BREAST CANCER && i W0UlD GET iT CHECKED 0UT AS S00N AS P0SSiBlE.

H0PE EVERYTHiNG GETS BETTER,
TAYl0R.

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so my school just recently got a pool and a swim team. I joined the swim team beacuse i thought it would be a good work out.

i was just wondering if there are any of peices of equipment i might need, could use...besides the obvious swimsuit, cap and goggles?

YES.
SOoO Y00U W0NT GET Cl0RiNE iN Y00UR HAiR USE EARPlUGS.
&& THERES M0RE.

-FliPFl0PS.
-HAiRTiE.
-T0WEl.
-BRUSH.
-SHAMP00.
-C0NDiTi0NAR.
-S0AP 0R B0DYWASH.
-M0NEY.
-A DRiNK.

G00DlUCK,

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if i bought a box of cheerios and like everyday brought a little baggy of them to school as a snack if i get hungry is that healthy? or would it be bad?

THAT W0UlD BE HEAlTHY BECAUSE THERE iS N0 CHl0ESTERAl iN CHERi0S.CHl0ESTERAl iS VERY iMP0RTANT BECAUSE iF Y00U EAT BAD F00DS iN ST0PS UP Y00UR CH0lESTERAl WHiCH CAN GiVE Y00U A HEART ATTACK S0 Y00UR D0iNG Y00UR B0DY A FAV0R.CHERi0S ARE G00D F0R Y00U.SOoO Y00U MAY EAT THEM AT SCH00l && H0ME;

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I don't want to like anyone, but I cannot seem to help being attracted to certain guys and flirting too much with them.

I don't like leading people on, any advice on how to keep my hormones under control?

KK WiLL YOU REALLY JUST CANT STOP LIKEING PEOPLE I MEAN YOU CANT REALLY CONTROL WHO YOU LIKE. BUT IF YOU WANT TO WAIT THEN JUST CATCH YOURSELF WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR LEADING SOMEONE ON. IT COULD BE TEMPTING TO FLIRT AND DONT FEEL BAD IF YOU DO CAUSE EVERYONE DOES. JUST KNOW WHEN TO START AND WHEN TO STOP BEFORE YOU MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE YOUR REALLY INTERESTED. HOPE I HELPED
TAYLOR

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my bf is coming home from job corp after several months of not seeing eachother at all. im so fucking excited. but my mom don't like him too much, and he can't be in my town. he lives in a town half an hour away, but i don't know if i could see him, cuz i have to work too. how can i see him and still do everything i need to, and how do i have a good time with him... ALONE. LOL

AT W0RK CAll iN SiCK.
iF THEY GiVE U A SiCK DAYY DRiVE 0UT T0 THE 0THER T0WN T0 SEE Y00UR B0YFRiEND;

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okay. so i'll wash my hair in the morning and about half way through the day it'll start to get oily and nasty. and it makes me look dirty and like i don't wash my hair. is there anything i can do to prevent my hair from getting oily? a certain shampoo or something? thankss

USE SUNSilK SHAMP00 && C0NDiTi0NAR.
USE THE KiND WHERE iTS F0R N0RMAl HAiR.
iT SH0UlD HElP iT.
0R iF THAT D0ESNT W0RK.
i W0UlD G0 T0 A SAl0N && ASK THEM.
G00DlUCK :]]

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can someone give me ideas on what to wear with red converse? like what color clothes would look with them. thanks!!

i W0UlD WEAR A RED 0R A BlACK SHiRT && S0ME JEANS.
:]]

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theres this guy and ive been with him twice but it didnt work out. he is one of them guys that everyone is after and he has a girl friend but he flirts with everyone and he leads people on and he cheats i know how bad he is but for some reason i cant stop thinking about h i dont know why i cant stop thinking about him. i mean he is an asswhole. i really need your help. can you help me?

WEll THERE ARE l0TS 0F TH0SE KiNDA GUYS.JUST D0NT EVER G0 BACK 0UT WiTH HiM S0 Y00U W0NT GET HURT && WH0EVER HE G0ES 0UT WiTH Y0U SH0UlD TEll THEM HE CHEATS && FliRTS && lEADS 0THERS 0N S0 THEY W0NT GET HURT.S0 TRY T0 FiND AN0THER GUY THAT iSNT liKE THAT && WHEN UR WiTH HiM,THE NEW GUY,Y00U W0NT THiNK 0F THiS GUY THAT CHEATS,lEADS 0THERS 0N,&& FliRTS.

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my boyfriend is a super sweetie. but, there's one problem.his grades r kinda sucky. he most the time dosn't have his book report, homework, and things like that. he's really sweet. i mean, he's super cute, nice, funny, polite, and he likes me a lot. i also like him A LOT. i mean like, "crush on him since fourth grade" a lot.i DO NOT want to dump him. i want this relationship to last a loooong time.

ok i really dont think you should dump him i mean he hasnt done nothing bad to you. but i do think you should talk to him don be pushy or nothing just be like " why dont you do your homework and stuff? you really need to cause i dont want you to fail." make him feel important to you and just let him know that you really want him to pass and that you care bout him.
i hope i helped
TAYLOR

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I`m only 13 and my parents treat me like I`m 18 and they won't buy me ANYTHING! They make me pay for my clothes, my food when I go out to eat, staying at hotels for a family vacation, and basically everything. They won't even buy me a pack of gum! I'm only 13 and I can't really have a well-paying job and I already walk dogs but that can't pay for everything.. I can't even shop anymore because I don't have enough money for more then 2 shirts and as soon as I buy 2 shirts I have to save up for another 3 months until I have any money again.

It really annoys me because my friends always brag about how their mom took them to the mall and bought them 9 bags of clothes and they didn't have to pay. My parents haven't bought me any clothes since I was 11. My mom never takes me to the mall because she says "I don't like to drive and it's too far away." Yeah, the mall is literally 10 minutes away. I still have all winter clothes to survive in this summer because I have NO money to buy anything and my birthday has already passed.

Don't you think it's harsh to make a 13 year old pay for EVERYTHING including like gum and stuff?! The most I can do is walk dogs and it's not like they are punishing me for being a bad kid because I get straight A's and I'm never in trouble so it's not a punishment.. I think they are so harsh because clothes are a necessity and all of my friends sit on their butts and get everything handed to them and I`m trying to pay for everything and it's not going to work out.. I've already tried telling them that it's impossible to pay for my own wardrobe and food and stuff when my only way of getting money is walking dogs because my parents don't pay me for helping out around the house and stuff.. so how can I get them to lighten up and at least pay for SOME of my clothes and other stuff? because it would be helpful if they pitched in a little bit.

P.S if you think I should start babysitting to make money how do I bring this up with my parents?? and I ONLY want to babysit for my neighbors so should I tell them straight out I want to babysit or should my mom tell them?

ok wow, will first of all yes that is wayyy 2 harsh. but i think they just want you 2 be prepared for when you get older. but what i think you should do is ask your parents if there parents made them do that and if they did ask them if they liked it. tell them whats on your mind and if they still make you buy your stuff then tell them that you want to babysit they should let you since they think you old enough to buy your own stuff.

will hope i helped
TAYLOR

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my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as much after camp without it being obvious that the reason is because she is bi. and also my whole family thinks shes annoying and i do too, and although she is one of my best friends i have always thought about maybe trying to make more friends in high school next year and not really talking to her that much anymore. so it wouldnt be a big deal if we werent as great of friends i think. sorry if that sounds mean. but please help me!!! thanks. btw im 14/f

ok seriously you did not sound mean and your not a bad friend. all you can do tell her that your straight and that it doesnt feel right when your trying to make a move. cause to make this friendship work she has to relize that your not like that. say sorry but that doesnt feel right.
hope i helped.
luv ya lots.
sinserly, taylor

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pI babysit a 10 month old and a 3 year old. The mom is going to be away and the dad has to cook at this 4th of July party they are having. They want me to babysit for them at the party. I dont know if I should let the family play with the kids or go off by myself because im afraid if I let a family member hold the baby they will keep passing him off and i will loose track of him. wut should i do?

ok so look. if your going to a party oviously your gonna want to hang without a baby. so what you could do is let one of your family members play with the baby but tell them NOT to let anyone else hold the baby. but make sure you check on the baby every 10 minutes cause soon every one will thank your not really babysitting.
hope i helped
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor

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okay me and my ex broke up 9 days ago.
and i have been kinda asking him questions abou the break up the last 8 days. and yesterday i had someone else ask him questions and he found out and we got in a fight. and like hes been going in a circle with girls and its like.. he will forget his most recent ex and try to talk to his old one and become there friends and when we broke up he told me he wanted to be friends.
and now its like i dont matter anymore he went threw a break up before me like. 2 yrs ago. and hes trying to feel what that girl left but its making him go out with other chicks ( one of his ex's told me this) and. i was trying to talk to him about it yesterday and he got mad and started saying stuff about how he doesnt want to go out never again and how he never want to talk to me again and never wants to see me again.
and he said this to me b4 and he ended up talking to me and going out with me

i dont know
i need real advice
should i wait until he wants to talk to me

or send him a sorry letter for being annoying

or just leave it alone...
because you really cant say your never going to go out with someone becaue highschool changes people and you never know how you will feel about someone in 2yrs or even months

btw we are both 14


SORRY SOO LONG!

get over him do the same to him oveiously he doesnt like you so forget about him
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor

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ok so i knowa this kid and hes cool and all . but hes really. well .. extremely annoying . . he wus fighting with my 7 year old sister today and i hate him so much i had to beg my dad to kick him out of the house.. someone please help . i told him to act his age but he thought i wus joking. . u dont understand how annoying he is. . advice ?

ok so tell him how annoying he is. If he is your age then tell him that he needs to stop acting like a pin head. im not trying to be mean or anything. but if he gets on your nerves then YOU kick him out dont get your dad in to this. i know hes cool and all but oviously hes not all that. if i where you i would tell him.
hoped i helped
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor

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how do i make new freinds over the summer?
PLEASE
i rate 5s
if you just try
even if you dont know
i need new freinds bad
my freinds talk shit and nvm
just PLEASE

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

ok why do you need knew friends? it depends what you do over the summer. my advice to you is when school starts dont hang with them. hang with someone else. someone that doesnt talk bad or nothin. i dont know why you want knew friends and its none of my buisness. just dont make a seen. but if its that serious then get advice somewhere else instead of over the internet
luv ya lots
hopped i helped.
sincerly, taylor

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