My name is CC well that my nickname. I am in my mid 20's and i have been though so much in my short life marriage, divorce, taking care of a child, moving, dropping out of school, doing drugs, living with family that use bad drugs, jail, boyfriend hitting you, and the list keeps going but the one thing that is different from me and most people is they don't no how to get past it or get to the point were it dose not bother them, and that's why i am here to help you because the things i have been though i have come out strong and there are a lot of you that are going though them now and want help and you no as well as anyone else you can't take advice from someone who has never been there because they don't no what it feels like
Gender: Female
Location: nebraska
Member Since: April 15, 2010
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Within the past year, my life hasn't been the greatest. A lot of things have changed dramatically after I moved to another state, and I'm just not the same person. I used to be very social and happy with myself and how life was going. Now it is the complete opposite. I find myself getting very aggrivated with family, we have money problems, im anti-social, upset, crying for no reason, and starting to develop an eating disorder. I want to be the person I was before I moved. I don't want to get angry or fight with my parents every single time they talk to me. I want to be cheerful, have a positive outlook in life, stop letting my parents make me mad, and let the little things not get to me so much. Any advice? (link)
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i think the best thing for you to do see find out what is different now from when you moved. i don't know if your still in school or work or what but let me give you in example say you are in school and before you move you were a cheer leader and now your not try and get back in to cheer leading or whatever it is that you are into or were doing before you moved. little things like that will make the difference because that what makes you happy. and don't think about the money problems you parents will work it out and that's stress that you don't need. but if you find your self in a place were you can not do anything but think about the money problems and want to help then try and get a part time job you will see how just getting out in the world and do something with you time can help get every bad thing that going on off your mind even if it's just for a short time. i hope everything works out for you and wish you the best of luck cc
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Well first of let me just say i am lesbian.I've dated 4 girls in my life time an im only 18. Im probably one of the nicest an most understanding person.But i cant keep a relationship for more than 2 months i really dont know what i do wrong.I treat my gf's very well i never fight with them an we always have fun together.I recently dated a girl who kept bouncing back an forth between me an another girl who hurts her alot.She dates me for like a week then goes back to her.I really do like this girl an im really trying to fight for her, her family an friends love me like im part of the family.She tells me she has never been so happy with someone an says she cant live without me i actually feel the same about her. Idk if shes worth fighting for.I've known her for so long an i really enjoy being around her.I just wanna know what am i doing wrong that i cant keep a girl for more than 2 months? Should i fight for this girl or let her go? (link)
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well first off you have got to stop think that it you because you don't no that your the problem with your past girlfriend it could have been anything maybe they just don't want a long term girlfriend. and as for the girl your with now i think the first thing you need to do is sit down and ask her how is more important me or your ex-girlfriend let her no that you don't want to be the rebound and only be there when something go wrong with the other girl because that kinda what it sounds like you are teller how you feel and lesson to what she says if she would rather be with that girl then you have to let her go (if it's meant to be it will be)and if not trust you will find happiness. wish you the best of luck cc
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My friends were talking at lunch today and one of them said that her boyfriend got cum on her last night. What does that even mean? What is cum?
I hope I don't sound too stupid LOL! (link)
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ok if you want the definition of cum then its (Male semen; Female ejaculatory discharge; To have an orgasm; to ejaculate or to feel the sensation of an orgasm) but basically if a jack off when he is done he cum's and same with a girl. if you need to no anymore then that or i didn't explain well enough let me no all give you a little more detail
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hi everybody! My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost 2 years and I want to make in the calendar for next year that has a different reason why I love him for every day of the year. I know this has been done before, but I think that everyone should do it so here I go. :-)
unfortunately, I am suffering from writer's block now! I got up to 164 reasons and I just hit a wall. I know there are a lot more reasons why I love him and I am just not thinking of them right now or I have never really considered them before but I know you probably have reasons that apply to us as well... So, could you please list as many reasons you love your significant other as you can? I will use the ones that apply to us. It might even make me appreciate him more than I already do. :-)
The calendar is called 365 reasons why I love you, not 164 so I really need your help!
Please and thank you!
Tonya (link)
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if i was doing that here are something i would put
i love your eyes
i love your smile
i love that you can cook
i love when you kiss my four head
i love when you hold me like you never wanna let go
i love you because you make me laugh
I love the way you look at me
I love when you play with me hair
I love you because you think am smart and make me feel good about my self
I love you because u pick me up on a bad day and make it better
I love when we reseal
I love that u have a good cents of humor
I love you because you are happy with the little things in life
I love when I lay in your lap when driving
I love when you play with my tummy
I love that you r sweet
I love that you like to try new thing
I love your eyes
I love your body
I love your lips
I love your hugs
hope that help them are just what i would say
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I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable? (link)
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i have a lot of guy friend and am going to tell you not one of them kisses me the hugging is OK friends do that all the time and i will say i tell some of my friends i love them and i think that's OK to if you have but friends for a long time you most likely do have some love for them but the kissing is a no go i would sit down a talk to him tell him how it feels that you don't like it and you want him to stop if he wont you then your better with out him. there a more then enough men in the world. wish you the best of luck hope everything works out cc
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me and my girlfriend is far away she lives in texas and i live in north carolina and we really love each other but we have no way to see each other we did web cam and pics but now we want to be together so like what should i do we thought about me hitchhiking to texas but we dont know and like are parents dont allow us to get jobs so we have no money for buses and are friends charge us like $300 for a ride so we dont no what to do we really want to see each other plz help :( (link)
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i think the best thing for you guys to do is maybe try and get job explain to your parents and if they wont lesson then try and get one with out them knowing i know that sound bad but parents don't always understand right away and even though all they want is what is best for you its your life and you have to be the one that lives it. thing have away of working them self's out trust me on that and even though this is most likely the hard thing for you right now it will all work it's self out in the end one way or another you just have to stay strong for right now and get though the hard part.
i hope everything works out for you and my advice helped cc
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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. because he doesn't know how he feels about anything anymore. He said that his depression was getting worse and needed to find jesus. So we said our finally goodbyes last week and haven't talk since
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we were really in love and didn't have a bad relationship. Even planned marriage
he was in a depression when we were both in freshman year. He stopped talking to all of friends then too and then later regretted it and tried to get back in contact with them a year later when we started dating.
we are both seventeen and are in our junior year of high school. We were together 9 months but have know each other for 4 years. We liked each other freshmen year but he became very depressed because he was backstabbed by his friends and his first love cheated on him. He cut off all connections with everyone at school then to. He moved schools our 10th grade year. We didnt talk all school year but I texted him out the blue during summer and we began to have a relationship. He tried to get back in contact with the friends he cut off because he regretted doing that to them.
I REALLY MISS HIM AND IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK WE WILL EVER TALK AGAIN?
he was my best friend and i was his. We talked about everything
Please do not tell me i need to just move on. Because i am doing that. When i am ready to date again. I will do so. But I just really want him in my life again... .. or do you think it would be weird if i wait a couple of months give him his space... then call him to check on him?
i will do anything to have him in my life again... even if its just as friends
& please excuse any misspelled words and my grammar I wrote this in a rush..Thank you in advanced (link)
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i can understand what your going through because believe or not i have been there i married my best friend and kinda the same thing happened he got to a point were there was nothing anyone could do to make him happy and he wanted nothing to do with me and it was hard because i loved him so much and we had been friends for 5years and married for almost 2years and he said a lot of hurtful thing to me about how i need to move on and get over him and just different things and i will tell you if he has a big place in your heart it will be the hardest thing you will ever do and it gonna hurt but in time you will be strong and move on as for your question if you should call or not i think your best bet is to wait he has been though this before and came back from it and am sure he will again you just need to give him sometime i would one of to thing 1) if you really want him to be in your life in the future then maybe call/text/or e-mail his one last time and say "look i no your going though a lot right now and i understand am going to give you the time you need. i just want you to no if you ever need anything am here for you" and leave it there then maybe in 4 or 5 months send him a message saying "hey i was thinking about you and wanted to say hi and see how you were doing" when you do both of theses what your doing is letting him no you care without pushing him over broad. 2) now the 2ed thing i would say is just leave everything alone for now and in 4 or 5 months send him a message saying the same thing "hey i was thinking about you and wanted to say hi and see how you were doing" and just see what happens. and the reason i say 4 or 5 month is because if give you a chance to move on a little were your not think about him all the time and it gives him the chance to get outta his funk and get back on his feet. i hope that my advce helps you out and every thing works for you
cc
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