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relationship problems
Well first of let me just say i am lesbian.I've dated 4 girls in my life time an im only 18. Im probably one of the nicest an most understanding person.But i cant keep a relationship for more than 2 months i really dont know what i do wrong.I treat my gf's very well i never fight with them an we always have fun together.I recently dated a girl who kept bouncing back an forth between me an another girl who hurts her alot.She dates me for like a week then goes back to her.I really do like this girl an im really trying to fight for her, her family an friends love me like im part of the family.She tells me she has never been so happy with someone an says she cant live without me i actually feel the same about her. Idk if shes worth fighting for.I've known her for so long an i really enjoy being around her.I just wanna know what am i doing wrong that i cant keep a girl for more than 2 months? Should i fight for this girl or let her go?
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i agree with talkcc or whatever their user name was haha. uhm im a lesbian too and i dated a girl like that. i really liked her and she was my best friend at the time but when we went out she just could not stay with me. she liked not being stuck with only me so she went out with someone else and i was ok with it for a while. but eventually i just got sick of it. i knew i deserved to be treated a lot better and she wasnt willing to change. for your girl, talk to her about it. see if she really cares about you and is willing to commit to you. if she says yes and ends up doing the same thing again, id say its not worth fighting for her anymore and leave her. if you're really are as nice, understanding, and kind as u seem then im sure the issue cant be you.
best of luck!:]
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well first off you have got to stop think that it you because you don't no that your the problem with your past girlfriend it could have been anything maybe they just don't want a long term girlfriend. and as for the girl your with now i think the first thing you need to do is sit down and ask her how is more important me or your ex-girlfriend let her no that you don't want to be the rebound and only be there when something go wrong with the other girl because that kinda what it sounds like you are teller how you feel and lesson to what she says if she would rather be with that girl then you have to let her go (if it's meant to be it will be)and if not trust you will find happiness. wish you the best of luck cc
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