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Hey guys wuts up? I have had lots and LOTS of friend problems from friends cutting themselves, to friends moving across they world soo please feel free to ask nething. My specialty is boys and friends so email or im me or just ask here!! Ill try to help u the best i can and hope u enjoy my column!! O yea Ana and Maddy and Andrea ans Kyla r my bestestestestest friends in the world!!!! Danielle ur cool too!!! lol jk but seriously.THE GREATEST THING YOU'LL EVER LEARN IS JUST TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN!!!!THE MOULIN ROUGE
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The other night i was over my friend's house and the boys that were there left 2 cans of chew there. I know this is gross but we deicded to try it. At first it was only a little bit of peach stuff that we kept in for 30 mins, then right after we took that out we put in a big thing of mint in for 30 mins, then peach, and then mint again and i got real dizzy and like we passed out on the ground. Is chewing a couple times that day going to have any effect on us in the long-run or anything like that?
Bad idea never ever try that again do whatever it takes to not get addicted i dont think it can do as bad damage to ur body but i can do sum. you never chood have dun it in the first place but take a vow you wont try it in the future. I hope i helped a little (at least) plz rate me!
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My bestfriends boyfriend is comming on to me and me and him have a past because we were about to date but then my bestfriend hooked up with him instead.At first i was mad but eventualy i got over it.well they have been going out for 9 months and now he told me he has feelings for me and wants to be with me but he still goes out with my bestfriend and i like him to but i dont want to hurt my bestfriend.please help me and what should i do.
You should wait for ur bffs bf to break up with them and he ask you out you also should respect ur bffs feelings you want NO boy to EVER get in between you guys (happened to me and believe me you DONT wanna go thru what i did!) sounds like you really care for your friend so just lay back and try to find another available guy try to put this guy aside I kno its hard but it'll only b the way you both wont get hurt.
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well, ya see, me and this guy have been going out for like.. 7 months or so. i REALLY like him, and my friend thinks i'm in love with him. my parents HATE him, so i didnt tell them. they talk bad about him ALLLLL the time, and drives me nuts. my friends talk bad about him all the time too, and they know about us. i never get to see him, but my best friends think he loves me too... but.. he never tells me this or anything.. i really wanna break it off, cuz he says the meanest things and such, and my friends are like.. EHH.. but when we're together, i can't help but gaze into his eyes and want to kiss him... any ideas?
Break it up i tried to keep it from my parents once and it was BAD so if he says bad stuff he probly has a reason. You shouldnt do every thing ur friends say but if i were u i would believe them on this 1. if he's mean to other people chances are he will b mean to u. He's like a dog, if he has chased a car in the past, chances are he will in the future. If he has been mean in the past chances are he will b mean in the future! hope i helped view my column
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help! my computer wont let me log on to advicenators! it'll let me ask ppl q.s but i ant ask a public display qustion and i cant get to my column! is this just happenening to me? plz hellp!
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hmm it happened to me once close all programs and restart ur computer i hope this helps if it doesnt im really sry!!
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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m
~Evilenterprisesinc
I would ring her in the morning cuz no woman wants to b disrupted during her beauty sleep. but it will b sweet to do it anyway so hope my advice helps!
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ok. so 3 years ago i had a b/f Randy. he moved away and i havent seen him since. but now his brother goes to my school (travis).Travis got hot. i still havent seen Randy and i dont know wether he is still my b/f or not.but Travis knows every thing i did with him and i wonder if he is going to tell the other boys. i wanna go out with travis but i dont know weather im going out with Randy.and im also to shy to ask him for his phone #,so i can ask his brother if im his g/f. what should i do??????? lil'helper
if u havent seen him for 2 yrs he's prolly not ur bf, if you have ur e-mail or im send him a hcat invite or e-mail asking him. If you dont have this ask Travis. neway long distance relationships are never good. TRUST ME i had 1 and he ended up cheating on me and we never saw eachother its just a mess b friends w/ randy and become friends w/ Travis and then gather the nerve to ask him out.
ok so me and this guy who lives around the block lives directly behind my house...(i can hop over my fence and be in his backyard)me and him and our parents used to be BEST FRIENDS...id be over there everyday and wed go everywhere together same w/our parents...well that was when i was like 7 or 8...now im 15 and so is he...my little brother got ina fight with kyle (the boi) and my mom took my bros side and his mom took kyles side and they didnt talk for like 3 years...well my mom and his moms till talk and i talk to his mom too alot...she takes me to skool sometimes...but i dont talk to kyle at all sometimes i say hi and stuff...his mom is always saying how cute i am and im beautfil...well i like kyle...i want to start talking to him again but its so awkward...we liked eachother when we were 7 and we kissed once and that was our first kiss...but it would work out so perfectly if we did go out...id see him all the time and we go to diff. skools so it wouldnt be too much....i really want to just start talking to him again!!!
btw his mom had a baby like 6 months ago and i go over to see it sometimes and i use that as an excuse to go talk to him lol but i ahvent done that for a while bc i dont knoe what to say when i talk to him!!
also hes really shy hes never had a gf cuz hes so shy but soo much gurls like him!! ahh help
Try dto become friends w/ him again sounds like he is a loss not to have as a friend if he still is mad at u after trying to become friends again then dump him if he doesnt want to b friends w/ a wonderful u he's no use
i'm looking for an individual colomist to ask a question does anyone recomend a colomist or two?
hey u can always come 2 me its swimbabe1092 or email me @ swimkutie1092@yahoo.com or aim me at swimkutie1092 but if not me xxsammiwammi is REALLY good @ advice so hope i helped
okay..well there is this boy in my class named "Collin" and collin and me are best friends..and we tell eachother everything..and well he tells me that he likes some else..but he cant tell me right now..and he and me always flirt..and all my friends think i like him and he likes me..the problem is i dont think i like him..i used too..but i just cant figure out my feelings at the moment..i mean..should i try to tell him that i might have feelings for him..or dont tell him at all..and does it seem from this thing..that he likes me?! i need help! thanks! xo
If i were u i would just leave him as friends i went out with my best friend thats a boy then we got in a fight when we were going out and it ruined our friendship. I hope this advice helps you!!
Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.
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Baby Phat Lover
Thats totally cool!!!!! its not totally weird. its ur own style.
How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
Tell him that u would love to b friends but it's too complicated being bf/gf and give some reasons. Thats wut i did w/ my old bf it worked for me hope i can help!
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
Get rid of him he is a big Player, but u shouldnt have been messing with him neway he was playing with u 2 so just dump him not a good friend AT ALL