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E-mail: nikkipikki0@yahoo.com
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Location: Tennessee
Age: 14
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Member Since: January 13, 2005
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im 13/f and ive had sex with 14 different guys. i know how slutty that it. i was kind of neglected buy my family so i needed a way to be loved. i know regret all of it. i realize how lucky i am to still be not pregnant and std-free. ive been going to church every other day and confessing. what can i do to get my life back together???? (link)
1. Quit having sex. Sex isn't something you abuse like that. You only need to do it when you are in LOVE and old enough to deal with the responsibilties that come with it.

2. Keep going to church and repenting... and mean it. don't just do it to get rid of your guilt.

3. Triple check that you don't have an std and aren't pregnant. Get on birth control pills to keep it that way.

Sorry if this was kind of harsh, but i don't like seeing people throw their lives away like that. you don't deserve it.
Hope i helped.


Oh gosh. I think I made a big
mistake. Ok here's an introduction. My friend has repeatedly started forgetting me in her big profile all dedicated to every single friend she has. I have been friends with her since fouth grade and i'm in seventh. When I said why do you keep forgettting me, she said sorry i'll ad you. This is what I said On AIM:

no its ok kaitlin can keep my spot.im not so mad about the fact that im not in it, but that im so not your friend that all those other people are in it but you forgot me when you would be the first person i put in. and when i think about who to invite to parties your the first person i think of.

i know you might be thinking "why the heck is she so mad about a stupid profile" but like im sadthat you just totally forgot about me. im not mad, im totally sad.

and you can tell kaitlin "jackie says thanks for destroying all her friendships" cause the only person that ever does anything with me is my sister.

and the last person that when i say "who are my friends?" does somethin like that.. it really really really makes me feel horrible
your really my only good friend beside sabrina.o and maureen.how nice shes the only one who talks to me during lunch.

you know the REAL REASON why i didnt have a birthday party this year? I HAVE NO ONE TO INVITE BESIDE YOU!

Was this the wrong thing to say? (link)
probably... it was a little harsh. you might want to talk it out with her in a calmer way. one that doesnt make you seem steaming angry or desperate. not trying to be mean there, just letting you know. :] hope i helped and good luck. i know what it's like to be on the rocks with a bff.


Okay, so i've been friends with "steve" for about a year now, were really good friends and hang out a lot. He's liked me for quite a while and i never liked him, but we were still friends. and yesterday (valentines day) he came to my house and gave me flowers, then said he had to go because he has a date. I feel like..seriously, crap..and i start to think maybe i like him, is that just jealousy kicking in? (link)
ok, so this guy actually comes to your house to give you flowers... then ditches you to go on a date?
wtf.
you probably do like him and feel weirded out about what he just did.
I'd talk to him and ask him what that was all about.. only not in those words.
hope i helped. :]


I wore on my acne medicine and my face BURNED! Is that ok? It probably is but on ET Canada long time ago it showed this lady who's face is going to scar for her life from acne medications because she felt her face burning and that's because it actually was! (link)
the first few times i used this one acne medicine it burned.. but then my face got used to it and i didnt feel it anymore. your skin probably just needs to adjust to it, but if it's REALLY bad and it continues, i'd switch to a lighter one. :] hope i helped.


if a boy keeps playing around with you and everywhere you go somehow he is there and when he always get closer to you and hugs you alot but like in a takling way and he always comes talk to you when your talking to another boy does that mean he likes you (link)
Yep. Most likely. :]


So I like this boy right. Except he's pretty shy. and well let's just say I'm pretty outgoing. I don't really talk to him, like I've talked to him once. And I don't want to randomly talk to him all the time and him be like "wtf why does this girl keep talking to me?!". I don't have any classes with him so I don't know how to start a conversation with him. I have lunch with him and I'm friends with his friends. How should I handle this situation? Any ideas? Thanks so much! (link)
Smile when you see him. Like not a creepy i know what you did last summer smile, just a friendly smile. Then work your way up to saying hey or hi when you see him. Try to hang out with his friends more, and if he's around while you are, include him on the conversation. Basically work up a friendship with him so you can start flirting without freaking him out. :]


I've never been one of the skinny kids or the well liked kids. I'm over weight and i'm starting to get scared. My half sister is well ... big and i've been afraid of getting like that. Theses girls at school are skinny and wear tight clothes so I'm loosing my faith in getting boys or just maybe being liked. I'm just afraid to getting any bigger (reaching 190), so I just don't know what to do. Maybe its the reliesation that enjoy food is not an opion that makes me think I can't do it, but i'm realy worried. Is it even possible to eat just the right stuff and forget enjoying it? What work outs help? and weirdly why are theses skinny mean girls getting dates with boys even though they hurt everyone?

- Katherine (link)
I completely understand how you feel. Although i'm not overweight, I've always been on the curvier side and since i hang out with some younger MUCH thinner girls i've recieved alot of crap about it. anyways, Just try to eat healthier in smaller portions and exercise for about 30 minutes a day. Run, do areobics, ect. Remember, everyone has at least one PERFECT match. not all guys go for the skinny mean chicks. just show them the true you. If you really feel ugly (even though i'm sure you're not) then go shopping and get some cute flattering clothes and a bit of makeup. dont overdo it though. Remember, how you see yourself has a big impact on how people see you. :] hope i helped.


ok i know some of you will say google so please dont...this is for anyone who looks up lyrics often...what is the best site that you would reccomend to go to to find accurate lyrics of songs. (link)
www.lyrics.com
duh.




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