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I have a question about the paranormal. I don't really believe in spirits and such, but then again I do. Alot of things over the years have changed my mind about ghosts and such. Every night before bed I get on the computer talking to my friends and such, and I even keep the computer desk lamp on, but I always here a swish of wind in the hallway beside the computer room. Sometimes if I turn real quick in my chair I see a shadow running through the hallway.I try not to get caught up in what I see, so I return to my computer desk, a few moments later I feel a presence behind me, it's overwhelming. I feel someone watching me, but when I turn around nothing is there. Also after I get off the computer I go to my room, turn the television on because I have to sleep with some sort of light on, and it's comforting for me to have the television on in my room. I have been having restless sleep since I have first noticed strange things, I wake up in the middle of the night frantically scanning over the room because I feel someone watching over me, I believe I have even seen a dark form at the end of my bed. It's really strange, and about 3 months ago in my basement I discovered a drawing on one of the storage room walls. I had never seen it before, it is a dark face, looks like it has been drawn with carcoal, with white for the eyes and white for the hair. It rather distrubed me, but I figured it was my sister that did it or something. I don't know, maybe all this is in my imagination. As for my question, could someone please shed some light on this situation? Maybe even give me an expierience of their own. I am really starting to think I am going crazy or that something is really in my house.

I don't think your going crazy, I actually do believe in like spirits and stuff, but not that strongly. All sorts of things happen to me, like when I was sitting in my living room I looked up into the loft and saw a white thing up there. I actually got really freaked out. Also I like leave lights on in my room than come back and they're off, its really creepy. I don't think to much about it though.

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i had a dream that i was saving people from a massive hurricane, but thats not the point. i had alotta weird dreams with that too. i also had a dream that i was smoking cigarettes, and then my friend called me and told me that she couldnt get the smell of smoke outta her room because she had just smoked a pack of cigarettes. i find this extremely weird. theres also different instances when i think of things before they happen. maybe a couple times a week, but im mostly concerned about my other dream, when i was making out with my best friends boyfriend, and now i feel horrible. hes a really good friend to me but i just feel so bad because i feel like ive betrayed my best friend even though it was just a dream. please help me and tell me wahst going on?! Thanks.

Dreams do sometimes predict the future, or play out what your feeling. Most likely you have a thing for your best friends boyfriend, or you want a boyfriend if you don't already have one.

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ok well i have this friend and her boyfriend broke up with her because he didn't feel like them 2 were actually going out anymore, cause she lives 45 minutes away. He goes to my church and like so i seem him alot. Well after he broke up with her he started going out with another girl and my friend,was so mad and she was like i hate him and don't like him anymore. So i thought she was over him. Well a few days ago that girl broke up with him. SO he comes back to my friend and is like i don't know why i broke up with you, i love you and blah blah. well he told me he was going to ask her out again and i was hoping she would say no, but i found out that she said yes today. I don't want my friend to get hurt, again. I don't how to say she made the wrong decision, i don't want this boy thinking he can brake up and get back together over and over again, can u help?

Ok ok, you need to like sit down your friend and be like "He's only saying that bc he wants you back, he'll prob. end up breaking up with you again, don't you see a pattern?"
I don't know if this will work only bc she sounds like she is really hooked on him. That guy just sounds like he doesn't want to be alone.

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ive been wanting a cell phone for so long. and dont think i havent tried getting one. ive had the money and saved it, i even offered to pay for one. i wrote a whole 1 page essay on why i wanted one, how i used it, and if i did something wrong they could take it away. im on computer like 24'7 so i told them it would occupy my time and i wouldnt be on as much. but NOTHING has worked.
is there anything else left to try!?
~hopeless

OMG! Same problem!!!!! The thing I did, I went out to the movies a lot, and so I was like, "How am I supposed to contact you" and stuff. So now I do have a cellphone but don't go out to the movies as much tehhehe. So try that if that doesn't work, I don't know waht to tell you lol.
sry if it didn't help.

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okay so i like this guy, SORT OF. hes in love with me! i just like him as a friend, but he like wants to go out with me!he keeps asking me questions like IF we go out, and IF i break up with my girlfriend, etc. and my friend HATES him, their like enemies. she's my best friend too! how do i deal with both of these problems! like what if we went out she'd be like EW WHY R U GOIN OUT WITH HIM. how do i tell him i just like him without hurting his feelings?

Just be like "Hey I like you a lot, but not in that way" also see if your feelings change. Your friends might get mad at you, but if they are true friends they'll still stand by you. Don't let your friends control ur decision, you're your own person, make ur own desician.
Hope it helped.

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ok i'm going to give you a little backround on my life. i met ben in 5th grade and i liked him a lot. then over the summer i didn't really like him. in 6th grade like halfway through the year i decided that i really like him again. i told his friends that and they told him. he asked me out a little while later. at first it was great. he was funny, and kind of sweet, in a really prude kind of way. then i noticed how weird he is. i mean he isn't gothic, he's just kind of punk, but he likes wearing black. and he makes some really creepy comments sometimes which make me wonder why i liked him so much. towards the end of our relationship we went to a play at my school together and he held my hand, but that's as far as we ever went. then i broke up with him towards the end of the year and his friends are telling me that he kissed a girl he met at a theme park the same day that he met her! i mean i was going out with him for like 3 months and...i dunno i feel kind of weird about that. and now i really like him again, he talks to me online and hes really funny!

I think a reason he didn't kiss you is because he liked you so much he didn't want things to become weird with you two. If you do end up getting back together let him know that it wouldn't be weird. This happened with me and my boyfriend, he thought that I didn't want him to kiss me so he never did.

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