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My boyfriend and I are 16 and have never had a relationship before. We had our first kiss recently. It was nothing special and he used tooo much tongue. Is it too soon to tell him that he uses too much tongue? Or too late since it was 4 days ago and we've hung out since? I don't want to kiss him again til I talk to him about it. I plan on just telling him to close his eyes so I can show him how I like to be kissed. How can I word that though? (link)
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hey..well maybe you could kiss him...and take complete control of the kiss..show him how you like it done...maybe it'll be pleasurable for him too.
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ok so theres this guy who moved to my school at the begining of last year. ever since then we have been great friends (even though he is a year younger than me). anyways, so after a while i started getting feelings for him but i stopped having those feelings along time ago. And now he keeps asking me out and everything. He even tried to write a song for me, which was really bad but really sweet too. and now that he started having feelings for me it has like ruined our friendship. I mean now when ever i try to just hang out with him he thinks its a date. any advice???
♥LEXI♥ (link)
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Hey..well all you could do in your part is make sure your feeling for him are made clear to him...
tell him you just want to be friends...and that your sorry you dont feel the same way towards him as he does to you.
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ive been with the same guy for 3 years. im 16, almost 17. weve been incepreibal for years and nothing could keep us away from eachother. weve broken up a few times, and evertime we always come crawling back to eachother. but last week, he told me he doesnt feel the same anymore and wants to be friends until he finds out what he wants. this is becasue weve been fighting like crazy, and things arent the same anymore. i love him so much its unreal, and i told him today im ready to be with him, and he said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now and wants to be single. i dont know what to do like i just feel like dying. ive always been a true believer of love, but this is killing me inside. we have the type of relationship where if i go somewhere he gets jealous and vice versa. i guess it came to the point that he cant take it anymore. i really cany stop crying. can anyone relate? i just need advice on anything. i would give the world for him. he said he loves me more than anything in the world. i know he does but hes i guess "doing this for himself" i need comfort, advice, anything. ive been through this so many times but i feel like this is the last draw. ive been thinking about the quote "follow love and it will flee, flee love and it will follow". im a strong believeer in that, but i just dont know if i should move on or not. im sorry if this is long by the way. he said hed let me know if he wants to be with me again. but i dont want to sit here and wait for him. idk. please help me like any advice is fine.. (link)
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First of all i dont think you should move on just yet...not while you still love him atleast. I think he just needs some time for himself..some time to clear his mind. If he says he loves you, he probably most likey isnt lying to you.so dont lose hope on the relationship..just be his friend until he figurs out what he wants..atleast this way he knows you truly do love him and your willing to wait for him. I hope i helped..and i hope things work out for you two.
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I'm looking for an anternative solution to cutting myself... I'm 14, and I've recently been caught in the act of cutting. My parents have decided to take me to a psychologist, and I'm really not looking forward to it... It's hard enough to talk to them. The problem is, everyone is asking if I'm okay, and what's wrong, but I don't know the answer to that. I don't know what's wrong exactly. It's a lot of stuff, I guess. I know it's wrong to cut myself, and honestly, it's just plain stupid. Nobody wins with it. I've tried to keep all this hidden from my friends. I don't want them to worry, or judge. There's one friend who I've told, but I don't want to keep pushing all this on them. It's really none of their concern. They've helped me by talking about it, but I can tell they feel awkward about it. So I'd like to get some advice on what I can do to express how I feel without hurting anyone; myself included. (The psychologist didn't suggest squat)
For any who doesn't know; I am not emo. Emo is a genre of music. So I'd appreciate it if you refrain from posting as such. And don't tell me that emo stands for "Emotional" Because I know- It's what the music is about. Emocore as it's sometimes called. (link)
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Well some things i do when a lot is on my mind..or when im just pissed is i grab a pen and a notebook and i write. this is a good method because your putting your emotions/thoughts down on a piece of paper without harming anyone. another thing i do is...just go to a room where your alone and listen to music until you feel like all the anger is outta your system. i hope i helped..try it out...and try to find someone who understands you the most and a person you could trust and just talk to them about whats on your mind.
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I really care for this girl, I love her. we text or r with each other from the time we get out a school till we go to sleep, and its not like average talking, its pretty deep we get in each others heads, know how each others thinking. I can tell her anything n she can tell me almost everything but she’s had an extremely hard life she wants to tell me but she already told me a lot n thinks its better if I don’t know the rest right now n I’m perfectly fine with that. We trust each other. I can’t imagine how my life was without her, I’ve only known her for about a week though but we both say it feels like our whole life. She’s such a strong girl for her situation I know id be going insane. Every time she starts to love or trust a relative they die to cancer, it’s been over 20 of her relatives she says their almost gone, now the doctor thinks she has cancer and is going to the cancer lab to be tested soon. She keeps saying its fine, but she’s the coolest girl I have ever met she’s so sweet and nice n cares so much she’s the strongest emotionally iv ever met. She doesn’t want me to tell anyone and I won’t. I really care for her I want to be with her forever but I don’t know what to do, I don’t think she wants a bf she just broke up n had me give her the strength two days ago. In every way she is the perfect girl, we talk till we both fall asleep all day long and it never gets quiet or dull. She comforts me, n helps me w the smallest things n she says I help her sooo much to but I just cant imagine n it depresses me so much that stuff like this happens to the best people, n she keeps telling me she is ok n she doesn’t want me to feel like this because of her. idk if i could live with myself if i wud hurt her in any way, she just got outa a bad relationship, if i would go out w her, i dono. She is different than all the others at our school, i love it, and wer new freshmen n both 14. She is so hurt inside, shes a recovered cutter but she doesnt know that i know it about her, she says she hasnt told me the worst parts of her life, but how can it get any worse! I can go on forever about her but she is perfect in every way n just does not see that, i dono what to do I can’t get my mind off it im texting her right now as always, I miss her sooo much. What should I do to help any of this? (link)
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Hey..well from what you have said it sounds like this girl has really gone through some hard situations and also sounds like you like her a lot. Girls just want someone who treats them right, who makes them smile, who makes them feel beautiful and most importantly girls look for guys they can talk to and trust. And since it seems like your doing all this, just let her know how you feel about her...if she's not ready for a relationship tell her you'll be her friend and that you'll wait till she is ready. And make sure she knows that you're always there for her...thats all you could do....
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I am a 13 year old girl.I like this guy who says he loves me but when I asked him out he said no. I asked why if he loved me so much and he said its because theres this other girl.
I love this boy and cant seem to get over him no matter how much he hurts me (emotionally.) I hate how all of my friends say to just get over him when its not that easy, i need help figuring out what to do!
-Morgan (link)
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Hey Morgan..the truth is if a person truly loves you that "other girl" shouldn't matter and it shouldn't get in the way of you two getting together. I know its very difficult to get over someone who you like so much, but maybe its better if you try to move on. It may take some time but here are some things you could do:
1. Explore the field-meaning look for other guys out there...im sure there are some great people you've never noticed.
2. Hang out with your friends more, maybe having fun with your friends is all you need to move on.
3. Enjoy being single...its much more easier than being in a relationship.
HOPE I HELPED!!!!
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