Hey ya'll whats up?
We'll if your reading this you probably know me already, but yeah. umm I'm just here to help yall. you dont have to tell me who you are, you can just ask me anything. i've been told i was good at giving advice and helping, so you can jsut ask me anything.
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OK theres this girl that thinks she is really hott but shes not really that pretty and guys use her because shes a slut and she always like makes up these guys and like says that shes done all this stuff but really i dont belive her and its really getting on my nerves what should i do ?? (link)
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well you need to tell her how you feel, but dont tell her that you thin kshes a slut. if you really care about her, then you should care about her reputation. tell her straight up, but dnt be too harsh. you need to let her know that you care about her, and that she needs to stop acting revieling in a NICE way. and dont get pissed, even if she does. keep your cool.
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ok, so i have this friend. she like, thinks shes 21 or something when shes NOT! shes in middle school!! so yeah she thinks its cool if you go smoke and drink but actually it makes her look dirty. and theenn she will go try and hook up with older guys that are way to old for her and she doesnt understand that what shes doing is making her look like a dumbass!! ive tried to talk to her but shes just weird and thinks shes too cool for me. but yeah i just dont know what to say to her so please help :) goodbye (link)
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well what i would do is talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop doing all that stuff. and she needs to chill with allt he drugs and drinking and stuff. but make sure you tell her that you want what is best for her, and your just looking out for her future. and the guys shes hooking up with maybe the kind of guys that shes looking for. i know i like talking and hooking up with older guys because they are more mature, sounds gay as hell, but it is. some guys are mature at and older age, and some guys arent. she might just be finding the guys that are mature, and cute. and for the drinking and rugs thing, it might be a family problem?or she might be insecure with herself?you just nee dto ask her why she thinks she needs to do it. and what compells her to do it. thats all. ask me again if you need more help!
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okay... i hope you can help, i had sex with my old boyfriend a little while ago and well i got pregnate... buuuuuuuuuuuut i have a boyfriend. ive been with this boy for about 8 months. hes soo awesome and means the world to me but i dont knwo how to tell him i cheated on him and then im pregnate... should i break it off with him and be with the daddy or what??!!! HEEELLLLPPPP ME! (link)
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ohh wow, this is a hard hard question. right now all i can say is to email me personally so me n you can talk about this jsut us two. and i wont say a word. sjcstar6799@hotmail.com but if you dont want to do then, then omgosh. well, i mean, what i would, do is sit down with your boyfriend, and have a talk with him. dont use the word "cheat" or "fuck" it will just piss him off. and you jsut have to ask him what he wants to do with him. make sure you that tell him you wanna be with him. and tell him that you want him to help you take care of the baby, if he will. if he doesnt then you jsut need to make sure that he understand that what you did was WRONG!!! and you feel bad for it..well right now, if this is SERIOUS then EMAIL ME!
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ok my friend treats her boyfriend like crap sometimes. i love her and he likes her alot but sometimes she treats him bad because she thinks that my boyfriend treats me better, which is totally not true, i mean her boyfriend hasnt done anything wrong at all and has never done anything to hurt her. Anyways i want to tell her that if she wants to keep going out with himshe is gunna have to treat him better but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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this is a toughy..i hate it when i'm personally stuck in that situation, between friends and boys that is. well a big, BIG thing is to talk to her and see if she really really likes him. and if she doesnt, then you should tell her in a nice way that you dont think that she should be leading him on, and from a personal expirience it hurts SO much being led on. and if she does like him, tell her that you think she shouldnt treat him wrong, and that they would probably be a cuter couple. but be sure to tell her that you only want the best for her. if that does not corss her mind, then you're screwed. so MAKE SURE you tell her that you love her, and you want her, and her boyfriend to be happy as hell.
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im tired of the same food every single night!!
what to do!!??
help!!
lauren>you give the best advicee!!! help me babe (link)
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lol well if you're tired of the same food every ngiht. THEN COOK!!learn to cook. it's always a good thing to learn to do, it will help you for the rest of your life. even though you may not want to do it for a living, it's still a good thing to learn. and it will get you new food to eat!;)
thanks:) i try!
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OK, so im really obese. I dont really think that im that fat but then ill come home and my mom is like holy crap! YOURE HUGE!! it really hurts my feelings because then my boyfriends wont make out with me anymoe (I have 6 boyfriends!! hehe) so anyways...my dad and my mom dont even like each other and sometimes i'll sneak boys into my room just to make them mad and we'll smoke and drink and what not..ya know? but anyways..back to my problem. i think the alcohol or kissing is making me fat. can you gain wait from having sex too much? i dont know..PLEASE help!! and also...im tired of kissing my brother for practice!! its getting soo old and im so tired of it. ahh what am i going to do! my life is screwed and im killing myself
ps. my boyfriends range between 10-25 ish..and uggghhh im so tired of life
*suicidal non-virgin (link)
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wow, this sounds like a fake question. if you're really serious about this, then email me. i can help you personally. sjcstar6799@hotmail.com
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My friend isn't very pretty, but she thinks shes really hott and acts slutty and makes out with like a bunch of guys and cheats on her boyfriends and I tried to stop her and i told her what she was doing was wrong, but she got mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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oh wow,
big situation. theres a bunch of things your need to try to do. if shes a great friend, be there for her, and try not to hang out with so many guys. i'm sure if shes a good friend, she will listen to you, i woudl try again. unless shes stopped, and if she did stop. then dont bother with it. DONT START RUMORS, what ever you do DONT START RUMORS...there could be something behind her thats makign her act like this..you never know. if she cheats on her boyfriends, and makes out witha bunch of guys, and you tried to stop her, then the best thing you can do. is keep explaining to her. you need to sit down and talk to her. face to face. and tell her you love her to death, and you jsut dont want her to have a reputation. reputations for that are horrible, maybe she doesnt know that you were tryign to be nice when you stopped her?and she probably got mad because you werent saying it in the nicest way. girls go crazy when her good friends tell her shes a slut, or shes ugly. its never good lol. but before you start to talk to her again, you NEEEEEEEED to make sure shes still doing it. and dont go by what people say. ask her yourself, but pretend like your not gunna have a talk with her after you ask her. but you have to make sure shes still doing it, it's gunna suck even worse if shes stopped, and your bringing back the past she probably knows that was doing wrong.
my advice is just to explain to her everything that you feel NICELY..she shoudl be understanding.
good luck!
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uhh well ... i have a problem ... this guy ... my ex ... im like absessed with him ... and i have a boyfriend ... which isnt him ... well anyways ... i dont kno what i should do ... but thats not the thing ... i was talkin to my ex the other day and he said that he used to like me ... like 3 weeks after we broke up .. which suprised me cuz i thought he hated eme ... i thought i was over him so i told him i liked him for like a long time after too ... and then that nite after talkin to him ... i started likin him again ... how should i get over him ... or what should i do? ... plz help me!!!
*hopeless* (link)
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*hopeless*,
uh oh, bad situation..i know hows these things work. there are SO many things you can do. but so many things you need to avoid
1. BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!!YOU HAVE TO!!!it's like the worst thing to have a boyfriend and like someone else...you need to break up with him, it will fuck with your emotions and everything, jsut do it.
2.stop telling yourslef your obsessed, and your probably convincing yourself your in love with him..EH WRONG!!dont ever tell yourself you love him..the shit gets deeper
3. figure out how he feels about you, pretend like your just kidding and tell him your madly inlove with him (AFTER YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND) and be like..do you like me, because we would be a hott couple;) and then joke around with him a lot..and then be like..alright seriously..do you like me?and if he asks you if you like him, be like III odnt knowww...and if he keeps asking you, he most likely does. but dont assumer.
4. FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!!!if you want him, thats what you need to do. hang out with him on the weekends, go to movies, or just some other places. maybe his house, thats always a great start. and maybe if it goes good, sneek in a kiss.
5.dont think about him, and dont seem desperate. bad thing, dont call him as much. tell him you will call him, and then dont. wait a day or two. and be like, sorry!! act liek you care, but dont floow him aroudn school or anything
6. if you want to get over him, then dont think abtou him, or anythign else like that. get out!!meet new people!!!thats always a great great way to get over ex's. if you need anymore help jsut email me!
GOOD LUCK!!
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my friend is gorgeous, and i know her stupid, and mock her of a mistake she made a while back. it's so annoying how they make fun of her, and when i first met her a guy said that after a while she would get annoying, i disagreed. but now, i realze....shes getting annoying as hell. like i love love love LOVE her to death, but she doesnt think...and its so annoying..how can i tell her? (link)
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ohhh wow, i know how you feel..
stuff like this is hard. i mean, you can tell her that she needs to stop acting to stupid, but you dont want to hurt her feelings. but then again, you dont want her to keep doing it because shes annoying. i think your best bet is to tell her honestly...it's so much harder if you dont tell her. i mean if shes as great as a person as you say, she will understand, otherwise shes just not as good as a person as you though..GOOD LUCK!
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