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Question Posted Sunday November 21 2004, 3:00 pm

uhh well ... i have a problem ... this guy ... my ex ... im like absessed with him ... and i have a boyfriend ... which isnt him ... well anyways ... i dont kno what i should do ... but thats not the thing ... i was talkin to my ex the other day and he said that he used to like me ... like 3 weeks after we broke up .. which suprised me cuz i thought he hated eme ... i thought i was over him so i told him i liked him for like a long time after too ... and then that nite after talkin to him ... i started likin him again ... how should i get over him ... or what should i do? ... plz help me!!!

*hopeless*


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sjcstar1361 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 3:31 pm:
*hopeless*,
uh oh, bad situation..i know hows these things work. there are SO many things you can do. but so many things you need to avoid
1. BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!!YOU HAVE TO!!!it's like the worst thing to have a boyfriend and like someone else...you need to break up with him, it will fuck with your emotions and everything, jsut do it.
2.stop telling yourslef your obsessed, and your probably convincing yourself your in love with him..EH WRONG!!dont ever tell yourself you love him..the shit gets deeper
3. figure out how he feels about you, pretend like your just kidding and tell him your madly inlove with him (AFTER YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND) and be like..do you like me, because we would be a hott couple;) and then joke around with him a lot..and then be like..alright seriously..do you like me?and if he asks you if you like him, be like III odnt knowww...and if he keeps asking you, he most likely does. but dont assumer.
4. FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!!!if you want him, thats what you need to do. hang out with him on the weekends, go to movies, or just some other places. maybe his house, thats always a great start. and maybe if it goes good, sneek in a kiss.
5.dont think about him, and dont seem desperate. bad thing, dont call him as much. tell him you will call him, and then dont. wait a day or two. and be like, sorry!! act liek you care, but dont floow him aroudn school or anything

6. if you want to get over him, then dont think abtou him, or anythign else like that. get out!!meet new people!!!thats always a great great way to get over ex's. if you need anymore help jsut email me!

GOOD LUCK!!

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