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I got off of my period during the end of memorial weekend, last Sunday, June 10th, I engaged in risky sexual activity with my boyfriend. We didn't have sex and he didn't go inside AT ALL. He rubbed his penis against my clit, he did not cum and he did not do it long either. But I'm really scared the Precum will cause me to become pregnant. Im pretty sure it was the day after ovulation too. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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may be there is a chance of getting pregnant.check your pregnancy status with urine pregnancy test.if it is positive there is no need to worry.terminate pregnancy with medical or surgical methods
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I know I have a good life. I have a family that loves me, I have a lot of good friends, I get good grades in school,etc. but for some reason, I still get depressed a lot. A couple years ago, I was having extreme self esteem issues (which led to an eating disorder) and problems with my relationship with my parents and I started cutting myself. And the only people I could talk to about it weren't helping me in the way I needed. My parents don't understand what I went through then. They thought I was overreacting when I tried getting help from them.
It was hard, but I finally started to pull myself out of that state. The thing that helped the most was distracting myself with school and extracurricular activities. I've finally realized that I don't want to that anymore, but I still get depressed a lot and I get really moody around everybody. My relationship with my parents has gotten better in some ways, but I get in fights with them a lot. I can't help it sometimes.
I was doing a lot better this year because I started my freshman year (I'm year ahead in school) and I was busy with band too. I met a ton of new people and I started becoming friends with a senior. We got really close and we flirted a lot too. He made it seem like he really cared about me. And then, out of the blue, he stopped talking to me. I thought he needed a little space and that he would talk to me when he was ready. Days turned into weeks which turned into months. And I got no answer. I spent 6 months thinking that I did something wrong. I recently found out that he did something similar to my best friend too. But even knowing that he is a jerk hasn't made me feel any better.
Maybe I just set myself up for failure. I try to have confidence, but I get my hopes up and as much as I try, I am never as good or can compare to the people around me. I just got through applying for an student engineering camp through a university. I got this idea in my head that I could actually get in. I worked so hard, but I know it's going to be good enough. I don't know how I would deal with not making it in. I don't want to be the person I was 2 years ago. I guess I just need somebody to tell me everything's gonna be okay. (link)
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recovery for you require action .taking action during this time may be difficult.take small goal and accompolish it .the energy you put in recovery will get back you soon.dont be lonely and isolate.develop close relationships with your family members and other good friends.practice yoga, meditation,keep stress in check,sleep 8 hours a day,do exercise ,do whatever you enjoy ,eat healthy and mood boosting diet.thinking about your past is waste of time just come out of it,but slowly that will go out of your mind.just think positive .consult a professional if your condition worse
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Hi,
I have been reflecting on a few times in my past of which I don't really understand my behavior.
I went through major depression when I was a teenager - maybe that has something to do with how crazy I got?
Anyway, I recall times where I went to parties and I acted really crazy. I remember getting really excited whenever I arrived to a party and I remember always having the idea that I'm going to have a lot of fun tonight. Most of the time I related fun to acting absolutely crazy. I feel embarrassed by how off the wall I would get. I don't think many people would invite me a second time to their party no matter how close we were. I don't understand why I would act the way I did. I just know I had adrenaline inside of me bursting at the seams. I feel that same sort of speed whenever I get really upset. Even now, I struggle controlling myself. Sometimes I get so heated, I do something really stupid and at times, I throw tantrums. I have gotten better at restraining myself - I can stay absolutely calm whenever another person is trash-talking me. Although calm, I still feel the pressure building up inside of me. I know at moments I can appear insanely crazy to people. Other than those once out of a blue moon times, I am a very relaxed normal person. I wanted to know if there's a diagnosis for my behavior or is it just bad nerves? (link)
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i think this is a common matter .with time that feeling will went away .you will be alright just put your mind to something that will make you calm and peaceful .good luck to you
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Hello Advicenators! It's been an extremely long time since I've been on this website, I'm so glad it's still running. You guys are awesome.
I came here because I was unsure who to talk to about this. Before I moved away to college, I babysat for this little girl, we'll call her Lauren, for a year. I would drive her to her dance classes and take her home, cook her dinner, and just hang around with her. Right before I was suppose to leave for college, something happened with her family. Her parents got a divorce, and then a couple weeks later, her father went to jail. The mother told me not to mention it to Lauren so it wouldn't upset her. The father got out on bail. And then, I went off to college.
I've been back on summer break (I'm 19 years old) and today was my first time babysitting for Lauren again. When I picked her up from school, I felt like I was going to break her in half when I hugged her. She looks extremely skinny. I could see her knee bones through her legs, and her arms were so tiny. I immediately became worried. This girl is 10 years old. Her parents are in the middle of a custody battle according to her mother, and Lauren told me that her cat just ran away a couple weeks ago. Lauren now lives with her mother and her two older brothers. She also is an avid dancer. She has been dancing since she was 4 years old and takes dance classes every day.
I'm nervous for Lauren because there are a lot of things in her life that could influence an eating disorder, such as how intense of a dancer she is, her pet running away, and what her parents are going through. I feel like I'm in a position that could help her because a) I have known her for such a long time and b) am also a dancer. I really want to help her but I am unsure of what to do.
Thank you for reading this long story. I would love some help from you advicenators!
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i think your friend is suffering from anorexia nervosa.in ordinary dieting there is craving for high calorie foods.consult a doctor and check her renal function test ,weight,bp,pulse food intake and attitude to food and weight gain.mostly in less severe cases it resolve with time,encouragement and support
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Does accutane have bad effects on you if you have hydrocephalus and a shunt in your head?
I have a shunt in the back of my head. It hasn't been checked for like 12 years, I had surgery when I was in the first grade. The doctors said I'm a normal person and I don't have any problems even though I still have a shunt in my head they said they weren't going to check on it unless I became sick. I went to the dermatologist today and my dermatologist said that he was going to give me accutane, but I read that it has a lot of side effects, similar to hydrocephalus and swelling of the brain, etc. I have to wait a month to get the accutane. Could that happen to me if I get accutane? (link)
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accutane is basically a isotretenoin .it is a form of vitamin A.IT is used to treat nodular acne when primary treatment with adapelene , benzoyl peroxide and antibiotics fail .but the frequency of occurence of benign intracranial hypertension is very rare about < 1/10000 .my advice is to consult the doctor and inform about your condition and kindly change the drug
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