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hey there (:

im shannon.

i play volleyball.

im 13, but ive been told i possess much wisdomm for my age.

i'm here to answer any questions you might have.

so please, dont be afraid to ask me anything (:

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hi, i noticed that i have two blister like things (one on either side) of my vagina. well not like exactly there, but where like the legs end and the vagina begins kinda haha its hard to explain. but anyways, i dont know how i got them or how long they've been there. but they really hurt and i dont know what to do about it.
i think it might have been from walking 3 miles with my friend a few days ago and the like friction from my pants or something might have caused it but im not totally sure.
can anyone help? (link)
It probably is from the friciton of your pants, but if you shave down there you might have cut yourself while shaving and not noticed, or if your sexually active it could be an STD

if it doesnt go away soon id get it checked by a doctor.


im redoing my room. there is not much of summer left and i need my bedding before i can do the painting and picking of carpet color. i have looked litterally EVERYWHERE but i was wondering if you might know of any good places to find cute bedding. i want something cute and kind of bright but not overdone, not boring by any means though. and not too young looking, im seventeen. so yeah anyways please give me some suggestions, store names and even examples of what you like. thanks. (link)
http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/default.asp?order_num=-1

http://www.ikea.com/us/en/

http://www.target.com/

http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X3.aspx?DeptID=59474&CatID=59488&cmCatLevel=3&CmCatId=EXTERNAL|59474&mscssid=686735d9295214f12b342b2b57b10253exMnVNoV5a1WxMnVNoV5a1o200B34EAC22766858A7CDA22E11BCD8C791E0821408

http://www.dillards.com/endeca/EndecaStartServlet?N=1000913

http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/bedandbath/comfortersbedsets.jsp


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good luck finding something good(=

personally i love bed bath and beyond!


HI, stupid question, but im 16 and im 6 foot 3, i dont want to get any taller coz im afraid ill look like a freak, can someone please tell me if there is a chance ill stop growing, or tips on how to stop growing...or add me on wonderkid09@hotmail.co.uk, id really apprecaite it as im feeling insecure atm. (link)
Well depending on your age you could already be done growing, but if your not done I'm sorry to say that theres no way for you to magically stop growing, it just cant happen.


What does it mean when a guy tells you that you got him sprung???....What does sprung mean??? (link)
It pretty much means that he loves you/ cares about you alot (=

its a way cute thing to hear from a guy.


ok, this guy asked me out and i think he's pretty cute and i used to have a crush on him. The only thing is he asked me out over myspace and at first i thought it was a sincere question but im starting to doubt it and i think it was someone doing it as a joke...how do i find out if it was really him or just one of his friends playing around? (link)
just ask him...

not over myspace, do it in person. or over aim. or if you have his number try texting him.


i went to photobucket and uploaded some pictures that i wanted to resize to make small. I took the html codes and put them in my myspace profile under heroes..because my friends are my heroes. When I saved the changes and went to look at them they were the normal sizes i started out with...BIG. How do I make them stay small the way i resized them on photobucket.
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after you resize the picture refresh the page then get the html code, see if it works then (=


I've been hangin with this girl I like for a few months, she's said she likes me, and I sorta made our last hangout a date. But she's just told me she really likes me, but she's not sure she wants a relationship right now, and is afraid to lose our friendship.

She might be a little guilty cause her mom has had a real rough go of relationships lately, but I don't know.

I don't know what to do! (link)
Well there isn't much you can do. If she doesnt want a boyfriend right now then youre going to have to wait until she does, or move on and find some other girl you also like who is ready for a boyfriend.




whats a more breakable straightener?
CHI or GVP? (link)
I think the CHI straightener is more breakable, but its also the better one of the two.

But keep in mind that if not taken care of either one can be easly broken.


Ok so i want to dye my stick head and i know it has to be a white head but i dont know what colors to die it ( my club teams colors are black,red, and yellow but my rec. team is blue and white) i dont know what color i should do and what color i should strings should be? I need help soon cause my Dad wants to die it soon and ido not want to do his idea cause it will look UGLY. pleassssseeee help me. (link)
Well I'd try do some combinations.

Since one of your rec teams colors is white, you could do your strings white and then do the other part maybe black.

or you could black and blue.

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where can i get these gladiator shoes or something very similar??


http://www.celebcrust.com/pics/joe-jonas-chelsea-staub-3.jpg (link)
I'd try any local shoe store.

Maybe even Target or Wal Mart or something.


Ok so this guy (who is now a senior, "Ben") and I (now a sophomore) have been on/off for the last 6 months. In January, we met at school, and we liked each other, but I stopped liking him after I found out he was a player and crap. So then we didn't talk and I got another bf meanwhile, but then, "Ben" and I started talking in May and we got together. After 2 weeks, he broke up with me OVER A TEXT and it literally didn't phase me at all. I wasn't sad, or anything. I just moved on. 3 weeks ago, I went into the store he worked at, not even knowing he was working, and saw him. I was with like 5 other guys, and that night, he texted me and asked me a bunch of questions. We started talking, and we got back together. We hung out twice, and the second time, it was a date with his friend and my friend. That day did not go good at all. Half of the day, he was mad at me because the two did not "hit it off" so I got blamed(go figure). Then he broke up with me again over a text, and this time I was crushed. Idk why, it was just hard because I kinda wore my heart on my sleeve with him and trusted him. His excuse was "He's moving and needs time to think..."
Idk what to dooooo :/ I can't move on. (link)
Right now you dont think you can move on, but trust me soon youll be able to move on. This ben guy really doesnt seem like a good boyfriend, if he keeps getting together and breaking up with you all the time I'm thinking you were right when you said he was a player. Don't worry though, you'll get over him. Just give it time.


Okay so i have natural blonde hair, but since mines natural it's faded, and almost brown now. Some would say it's a dirty blonde, well anyways, it about an inch or two past my shoulders, it's long but long long, if you catch my drift.

Well my question is I Have no clue how to fix it.
It's frizzy. Here's what I do day to day
.shower (vive shampoo)
. brush hair and put herbal essence frizz control moose on it. and tresame' heat spray.
.Dry it (takes around 22 minutes)
. straighten.
. spray with herbal essenses hair sray ( blue "set me up" bottle)
Yet after I get done it's still frizzy by the time i leave my house.

I want my hair to look like ashley tisdales when she straightens it:
http://search.msn.com/images/results.aspx?q=ashley+tisdale&form=QBID
(sixth picture blue background)
Or like these people:
http://search.msn.com/images/results.aspx?q=straight+hair&form=QBIR

Tell me a step to step way that will make my hair, non frizzy/ straight and beutifull.

THANKS (link)
have you ever tried just using a hair straightener?

and since you use so many products that might have something to do with it not working.


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Ok so i'm pale medium blue eyes and brown hair mide length and it's extremely straight. So before the new school year i nead a hair cut i'm extremely athletic but still like trendy. My face is sort of round and ovalish what kind of hair cut should i get? (link)
well, since your atheletic i would avoid side bangs, but it depends what sports you play because in most sports they will get very annoying and hard to put back. if i were you i would just cut it a little bit shorter, and if you can get light blonde highlights.
itll look gorgeous(=


How can I get photo shop on my computer? I mean can you get it off the internet, if so what web page.

Help please (link)
im guessing you mean the actual program photoshop?


go to photoshop.com


it cost mucho mucho money though..

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so i have a neutrogena wave, and im just starting to use it...and i was wondering if it's good at clearing up acne? i dont have bad acne. just the ocasional red bump every now and then. and then my t zone is oily...and the rest of my skin is normal.
so...would it help clear up my acne and help prevent it?> (link)
i use the wave too!

it doesnt techincally prevent acne, but it does help to clear it up (=


sorry if this isn't in the right category, i wasn't really sure where to put it.
what flavor is the yellow and what flavor is the orange-ish yellow? (link)
yellow is lemon and the orangeish yellow is orange i believe.

im not to sure though.


some brands of freeze pops have the yellow as banana and the orangeish yellow as lemon.

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im not sure if this is in the right category, but whatever. well, the thing is that since the summer began, my friend has some serious accidents that might have resulted in serious injury or even death.

First, she almost got hit by 5 cars walking home from the supermarket. a few days a go, she was trying to get a plate and 2 more plates fell on the one she had, breaking it, and da broken peaces nearly slit her wrists. when she was skateboarding, the skateboard slipped from under her and she nearly smashed her head onto the pavement. when her sister was trying to open a box with a knife, the box somehow ended up flying towards her and went right by her head. She fell down the stairs on some guy in her building. And at a restaurant, she was drinking cold water and the glass slipped out of her hand, shattering onto the plate, and the pieces flew upward and nearly hit her face, but luckily she jumped back, but a piece still hit her leg.

Is my friend just unlucky or something? This seems quite serious to me. (link)
..wow.

i'm not sure how your friend has avoided all of this, but i'm guessing she is just lucky, im not sure if theres any other way to explain how she hasn't gotten seriously injured yet.




Are you supposed to wear underwear while playing volleyball in spandex? (link)
haha, yesss.

i've heard wearing a thong helps while wearing spandex.


but personally that sounds flat out uncomfortable while playing volleyball...



I am going to this Volleyball day camp for 4 days and I really really like it but I'm terrible at it cuz I'm new and like everyone else can spike n stuff. I probly won't make the team next year but i really like the sport. Wut can i do?

(link)
The only thing you can do to get better is PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE (=


Does anyone play volleyball? Can you wash your kneepads or will it ruin them?!?!
~~x0xbRoKeAnAiLx0x
--* i will rate *-- (link)
I always wash mine, and mine never seem to shrink?

but yeah, i do recommend air drying them

just in case (=




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