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alrightt well it did hurt but i didnt mind it. but then after he left, i was in the shower, and i realized when i went pee it stung [like it did last time ....], and i noticed that [im not sure which part this is] the part where the pee comes out of wasn't straight ahead, it was a little crooked ... to my right. and i was concerned. is this gonna go back to normal on its own? i really really cant bring this up to my parents. :/ (link)
It happens girl dont be afriad of course it will


On facebook, I know that you can put in this symbol on your status (link)
they get there symbols my pressing ctrl and clicking on one of the numbers on the right next to numlock


I need some really good stretches for all cheer leading stunts. scorpions, heel stretches, arabesques, bow and arrow, so on. Please give me your best stretches to do and how often to do them. I have a scorp, but its really bad. so some good back and leg stretches would be great, thanks (link)
you named most of them theres also the butterfly and you can also do some jumping jacks to


i got my period last night around 6:00, and it was very light and was only the 'brown stuff'. when i woke up this morning, i didn't have my period at all, and i still don't have it. i've been having every pms symptom i usually have.

will i still get my period? or was that it?
does it mean something's wrong or anything?

16/f

thanks :) (link)
id go see a doctor


Has anyone ever read the book How to make someone fall in love with you in 90 minutes or less by Nicholas Boothman? I dont understand how he could possibly write on how to get someone to fall in love with you in basically an hour and a half. I have not read the book but if you have can you tell me what its like? (link)
well i havnt read it. But i sugesst you do so you can find out. I'm wondering the same thing now. well g2g to the library and find it now


Me and my best friend recently joined a new group of friends at school and one of the other girl's and me have an obbssession with the celebrity Josh Hutcherson. I really need some help on how to contact him. Please help! (link)
there celebs u cant unless hes a disney or nicoloden celb and there co. box is in a mag. im sorry but celebs don't want to be contacted my childern im sorry


so i really want my nose pierced but i doubt my mom will let me ..
do you know any way i can force my mom to let me??

if not how can i hide it from my mom?? (link)
ask your mom if she wont let you dont force her or hide it. if your mom sees how your handling not getting it down she see your responsible she'll possibly let you


So I took a course on babysitting/kidsitting. I talked to multiple people in my neighborhood about it. Most of them said that if I took it they would hire me. So I took the course but now that I have the certificate nobody will hire me. I am afraid to put up flyers because I heard about how some people call the numbers and pretend they have kids to babysit but then they are like perverts and end up like kidnapping they babysitters. I want a job but noone will hire me. What is a good but safe way to get the word out that I'm certified and avalible to work? (link)
If you still live with your parents then put up flyers to were they have to come to your house so you csn babysit there kids at your house with parent supervison help.

- Samantha White a 14yr old


Where can I get the exact same dress or a similer one for cheaper?


http://www.rissyroos.com/products/Jovani_br_Style_196341230-229-19.html


I LOVEEE THIS ONEEE:
http://www.rissyroos.com/products/Faviana_br_Style_6112-101-19.html

Also, it'd be cool to have like along the line of the second dresses style with the length being no longer then the knee (link)
Debs or macys

- Samantha White a 14yr old


Ok does anyone know how I can start in modeling or get noticed by someone? i love to model, i'm told i'm very good at it, I wanna do it so bad!! but how do i start, or get someone to notice me?? (link)
look in the phone book and look up modeling and call one of those

- Samantha White a 14yr old


Okay heres the situation

I like this kid-i never realized i liked him until like two days ago. He's not shy,but he's kind of quiet sometimes.He gets good grades and what not. He's in two of my classes,we sit right next to eachother but we only talk sometimes. He's a really good person,one of the VERY few guys that isn't a player or full of himself in my school. The thing is-a LOT of girls like him. he's not full about it-but it bugs me of course. I'm the kind of person when a lot of girls like the guy i like -i instantly try to not like him anymore. but its so hard! He does flirty things with me randomly and we do have funny conversations. But its akward sometimes! And its all because i get choked up with how much i like him.But i can't help it! Another problem is my friend who liked me is in the same class(biology)And we sit together everday,so if i do end up going out with him then I dont know if it'll just be even more akward ahhhhrghhh!

My question is- How can i be more flirty and fun with him rather than quiet and weird?! What are some flirting tips? We're already friends-but i want to get him to like me. I guess i gotta know how i can be more comfortable around guys in general. How do i do this? Ugh,i really wish i didn't like him ;(. Thanks (link)
dont flirt just ask him out


- Samantha White a 14yr old


I want to become a lawyer or judge, or something to do with the law in the future but lately i've been thinking of like religion and death and after-life and all those things.

Is there a career in religion studies? I'm sure it would be not as well paid as a lawyer or judge, but I'd like to know my options before. Even when i become a lawyer, I'd like to take some classes on religion and death/after-life based on religion. To me it's more of an excitement to know these things....BUT is there a possible job/career? (link)
A paster


14/f

Ok so I've been called a flirt by one of my friends. haha I'm not mad or anything, I'm just wondering if I am. The rest of my friends don't think I am. Ok yeah like most girls I love attention from guys and they give it to me. But they are like friends to me and I just enjoy talking to them. I do laugh at alot of the stuff they say but its usually something really stupid. Like I'll go up to my guy friends at sit with them and talk to them or the other way around. I don't sit around and touch them or whatever. I don't say flirty things, at least I don't think I do. Is talking to guys alot flirting? Maybe because I always laughed? Sorry this was kind of a dumb question but yeah. Thanks! (link)
No it is not. Talking alot is not flirting but if you are talking and constantly touching the guy as your talking or batting ur eyes ur blushing while talking to them then its flirting


To start this off i liek this boy oka, and he knows how much i like him right. But there you see there are like two other girls that also like him. You see iven been liking him for awhile now liek maybe alomost 2 years and havent done noting about it. All because i was shy and afraid. You see we have this class together and he do somtimes be messing with me and flirting and stuff. And i guess i kinda got a lilttle comfortable being around him now. But you see there also these tow gurls that like him to . And they be talking to him and everything. And i dont know what else to do, its like they have a speical bond to him. And i dont know how to top that. How can i make it more between me and him. Instead of just messing around with eachother. (link)
You need to tell him that you like him and want to be more than friends. You might want to do it before one of the other gurls make there move. GO get him gurl

- Samantha White a 14yr old


Hello, my girlfriend and I live relatively far away but we manage to see each other like maybye 3 times a month(in person). But another girl recently told me she had serious feelings for me and though i talk to my gf every night on webcam i can't help getting feelings for this other girl becuase i see her every day its hard to get over it.Now those feelings have gone away and i am back in that trance with my girlfriend. but i can't shake the feeling im gonna fall for another girl. Help? (link)
long distance is hard you'll never last so just end it it will end soon or later she is thinking the same thing. she probly has fallen for another girl to.


- Samantha White a 14yr old


So at church my youth group is having a contest to see who can make the best Valentine's Day mailbox for recieving cards. I want a really creative and new idea. (like making the top into an iPod or a puppy that says "feed me!")

Any advice will be great! (link)
i like your pubbly idea and the ipod one maybe you can do a person thats says feed me love.


- Samantha White a 14 yr old


the last two really good books i read were
Forever by Judy Blume
The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky

I'm looking for anything similar/same theme or anything!
thank you (: (link)
well theres tons of books

my favorites are the twilight books, down to the bone, the babysitting club series, the clique series try them there really good

- Samantha White a 14 yr old


how do i break up with someone in a nice way? when im scared to say it to their face? (link)
write a note say

1. Its not you its me

2. Its not working out

3. I'm sorry i don't want to do this but its not working out I'm sorry


14/f

So pretty much, for a long time I've had the same dreams, and I was just wondering if anyone knew how to interpret them. I usually have dreams about:

-Either being naked/half naked at school and it doesn't bother me.

or

-Going somewhere feeling like I'm missing something important.


These dreams are usually, like totally out of the blue and really random.
I'm almost always with my friends OR my cousin in these dreams... and what I really don't like about them is that they seem really, really realistic, but something will be, like, off. Something weird, like the sky will be green, or my best friend won't know me, or even that I can't speak.

Also, I seem to have the same dreams for a few days, then I will have a different dream for the next few days.

It's really weird! Is something wrong with me? I'm sorry if I confused you, but they confuse me a lot! Thanks! (link)
Its usual don't worry I keep having dreams that i've being raped latley maybe there signs its gonna happen sometime

- Samantha White a 14 yr old


This guy asked me what i would say if he asked me out and basically that is like an indirect way of asking me out and i said if it was in that certain time like that day or soon then i would say no. and then he stopped talking to me that day, i felt bad because i like him and he knows that but im not ready to go out with him. Now i feel like if he were to ask me out again like specifically on valentines day then i would say yes. but turns out im not going to be in town that day so we wouldnt be able to even make plans like on a date so does that kill my chances? and hes not really a romantic lovie dovie guy but whats the chances of him getting flowers or something cute for valentines day, are there any clues that he might be trying to plan something? 15 btw. (link)
well you could get him a nice card hand made telling him how you feel. It could help him understand

- Samantha White a 14 yr. old




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