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had no idea which category to put this in.

im trying to fly to another state soon to visit friends..some of the flights i see online are $130 and then some are $140+. is there a difference in the quality? safety? im not trying to get a bad plane or company or anything..? (link)
Kay, no plane is really an absolute terrible plane or it obviously wouldnt be in business. Lower costs for planes are usually meaning youre in economy class its just normal seating, everyone usually goes here. Business class however is really expensive but its way better then economy class, its for business men, lawyers, people with big bucks.
Safety is for EVERYONE on a plane nobody will be treated more special or more worse, safety is equal for everyone on ANY flight. Try a low cost, but dont get too low. Get Delta or a major airline in your state.


can someone help me with the word "de" in spanish? its a preposition but sometimes does it mean "of" or "with" when? and how? (link)
Yes "de" does mean of.
EXAMPLE:
dame su cepillo de dientes
TRANSLATION:
pass me your brush of tooth.

Yes it sounds wrong but remember the spanish language is completely opposite of our english language. So sometimes they say words we would say forwards, backwards.

EG Toothbrush
IN SPANISH: cepillo de dientes
TRANSLATION INTO ENGLISH: brush of tooth.

"Con" means with
EXAMPLE: queso con pan
TRANSLATION: cheese with bread


14/f
i shave my armpits but i have a lot of lines.
there not smooth at all!
i shave in the shower just with water.
any suggestions? (link)
Shaving just with water must really hurt and feel really tough and hard on your skin. You can use two things to make your armpits look better:

1. Use shaving cream like the person below me said, but i wouldnt advise it. Shaving cream is a really good way to get rid of those 'lines' but its also like $4.99 for each bottle.

2. I recommend you use soap.
STEPS:
1. wet your pits
2. put alot of soap on them
3. wet your shaver and shave.

You'll have way better and smoother clearer skin under there. Once you dry your pits Put on deoderant and voila!


what is "se debe" in spanish? if it were like "he should" it would be "él debe" but like you can't should yourself. is it a reflexive or does it mean "they should" like "se cuenta que" or "they say that" (link)
"se debe" means you should/they should thats how i learn't it.

se deben bañar todo los dias
TRANSLATION: they should bathe everyday
usted se debe comer esta comida
TRANSLATION: you should eat this food.

you hear this expression when lets say two people are talking like in english a women could say "you should go to the doctors for that" and obviously its directed to the person she's talking too.

if you need any more spanish help just ask.
:}
cheers.


I got my hair done today and I love it! I came home and my dad said I looked like a gorrilla! Now i feel horrible what if the kids at school think that too? (link)
Okay.
Dad's have very bad sense in style.
My dad was helping me shop for a winter jacket
he picked this like eskimo coat that went down to my knees and it was like a crap-brown. So ugly.

You're dad was probably kidding, remember your mother, sister, or friends have better taste then men do. Don't worry.


Ok I have this 1 friend,we'll call her 'a' she ment the world to me and except alot of times she makes me really mad and sometimes she makes me heartbroken enough to where I cry. She knows that I'm upset but she ends up not caring since she knows I will be her friend still. But also there is this other girl that is my friend, we'll call her 'b' I talk to her on the phone and email her alot but we don't hang out alot. But we are still good friends. Well Weds. we hung out since a wasn't there so we hung out that time. b isn't really as trustworthy and so I've been telling her that I don't like any guy, well she believes me. My other friend knows I like someone and she knows who, I just keep on denying it because I don't want anyone to know. And now I really don't want her to know because she talked to b the today without me knowing I guess and a said that I do like someone because I was staring at the yearbook at the guy I liked. She didn't say who but she knows I am trying to keep it a secret and she isn't helping. She also doesn't want b to know hers either, I have been covering hers up for the longest time and she is opening mine up. What am I supposed to do? Sorry it was long (link)
I don't think A or B are trustworthy people.

With A it sounds like she's just telling EVERYONE your crush, I mean if she's telling B then she could be telling someone else. A is just in my opinion taking you as a friend for granted.

It's right for you not to tell B about who your crush is. Usually when people want to be closer friends they want to see how much trust eachother has, and they want to know you better. If you don't know her that well then you have a right to not feel guilty about not telling her.

I think A telling B about your crush is a real b**** thing to do. Thats not being a friend on any purpose thats just being low. I think you need to confront A and tell her to stop telling your secrets to people. Explain to her the purpose of her being a friend.

I wouldn't trust A anymore unless she proves herself worthy enough. Other then that try to make new friends? Just new people who you can trust better.

Good Luck.


ok so, my friend posted pics of herself covering her boobs and n clothes on othr then that on imageshack and this guy saw them and saved them to his computer, she said that some other guy asked him to post them back on imageshack. (she deleted them because i told her that some pervert could of gotten them and its just gross,so she deleted them.) so how can she get the guy to not post them and to delete them from his computer? ii told her to tell him that he could go to jail because he has child pornograhpy on his computer, shes only 13, but what else should she tell him? (link)
Technically, yes she is underage and he can get a big fine for having children pornography, most likely not going to jail. He can only go to jail is he hunts her down and harasses her.

Secondly it's technically HER fault for posting the pictures up in the first place. You can't expect to post porn on a live photo uploading source and not have creeps get the pictures. It's unrealistic.

ImageShack is WORLDWIDE - I seriously bet its more then that man with her pictures sadly.

If the guy posts the pictures you can report to the website he'll be posting them on. But he'll still have them on his computer. You can't do anything about it unless you get really close to him, talk to him on msn, and use this tool that makes it so you have access to his computer.

People usually do this when a person has a problem with their computer and so they want that person to help them out.

Those are empty threats she's telling him. and he won't be that smart into believing her. She's 13 remember?

The only thing she could do is go to the police and tell them she's being stalked. But there's a consequence - her parents will find out shes posting pornographic pictures on the internet and probably ground her for life. But it's her fault in the first place.
She deserves it.


Is it wierd that i don't find any desire in Oral sex...i've never done it (i'm 16) but i don't want to at all...like its not appealing.

Also, when i am making out with my bf...i don't feel anything...not like i'm a lesbian (b/c that grosses me out (no offence...i have nothing against it...it's just not me). But i mean...like i get bored...and i hate doing it for a long time.

What is wrong with me? (link)
You're probably just used to making out. You need something new to spark things up.

Oral sex isn't mandatory in relationships. Like you I seriously think its gross like bj's and hj's thats not my thing either. A guy will understand that and respect it too if he's that sort.

If he calls you stupid because you dont like them then obviously he wants more out of it. Just explain to him it doesnt appeal to you and that is your final choice.

It's not weird at all standing up for your beliefs about Oral. Try to think up new things with your boyfriend for awhile to spark things up between you guys then maybe you'll be crazy for making out again.


After parting ways from the movie today, my guy friend, Erik told me on msn tonight "next time we meet, i demand a hug! :D" what could this possibly mean? (link)
Hugging wants from a guy means alot of things.
A) he just wants a hug
B) he's starting to like you.

but i must remind you alot of people in the world just simply love hugs because they make them feel more secure and loved.
don't presume he wants more, because he might just be a hug kind of guy.


My hair is layered and it's kinda longish. I straighten it before school in the morning (it's naturally wavy) and by the time i get to school its all wavy again and it goes thick and like straw. It's disgusting I hate it. Please, please, can someone help me. I need it to stay straight. I can't stand it, it's disgusting! (link)
my hair DEAD curly like afro curls and crap.
its HORRIBLE.
this is what i advise
shower and put leave-in conditioner that makes your hair volumized and shiny for the straightening.
i advise you to get a GOOD hair straightener like Chi or just a plain ceramic flatiron.
they only damage if you put it really high, but since you have wavy hair use around a medium temperature
once you straightened your hair use HAIRSPRAY a GOOd one not cheap kinds. itll help keep your hair intact.
usually hair straightening damages because of humidity which is water in the air.
if you need it and it gets a bit messy
bring your hair straightener to school and during lunch break go to the girls bathroom and fix it up.


Okay basically I need some excercises that will make my thighs and butt smaller. Does anyone know of any? (link)
working to get your butt and thighs smaller isnt what you need.
you need to do NOTHING
that gets rid of your butt firmness and everything.
working out makes it bigger and firmer
like im talking major couch potato not just excersize here and there.
thats the only way i did it.


I'm on my school's newspaper. I have a few ideas about what to write, but not many. Anyone have any ideas that would catch a high schooler's attention and would read it? I'm mainly writing for the entertainment section but anything would be helpful. Thanks! (link)
youre a lucky girl.
everyone always misses the paper when they write for school newspapers
they write things everyone expects to see.
so try being original
and write up about cancer programs that table at concerts like at warped tour skate 4 cancer was tabling.
or write about PETA trying to help the animals
somehow make it fit in with entertainment
and your entry will be the top.


If you get fingered and a guy pops your cherry are you still a virgin? and how long do you normally bleed for? (link)
yes you are still a virgin - you're a virgin till you have the actual sex.
it really depends who just got theirs poppped. everyone has some different flow of blood
some bleed alot.
some bleed very little
and some dont bleed at all.


i just started my period what do i do? (link)
you tell your ma.
buy pads.
throw out dirty undies.
get painkillers.
and eat bananas -> they stop pain.


my computer doesnt have paint on it anymore, is there a way i can get it on here? like can i have a friend send it to me? thanks (link)
actually yes.
have your friend copy paint
and paste it on their desktop
go on a program which allows you to send files to eachother
[like msn]
tell your friend to find paint on browse.
then send it
and youll get it.
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