i am very good listener so if there is ne thing tht u need help with just ask (u can ask ne thing cus i can usually answer pretty much about ne thing).MuCh LoVe...sHeLbY
E-mail: elitevball9@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Nebraska Age: 14 AIM: elitecantbebeat9 Member Since: October 9, 2004 Answers: 33 Last Update: December 17, 2004 Visitors: 5171
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ok... i met this guy [we'll call him john] about a month ago, give or take. well we kissed and everything and he liked me and i liked him. but his ex came into the picture and hedecided tobe with her. he was mean to me becuz if he showed how he really felt, it would make him more confused. long story short, they broke up and me n him ended up together and thats how i found out y hewas so mean bc he todl me. ok well we broke up bc she came into the picture again. and now hes bein mean again. idk if he still lvoes me or not. and i dont kno if i should just give up n move on or stay around. ive tried gettin ova him but i see him in school everyday and its hard [him n his gf dont see eachother in school bc they live in different STATES] HELP PLEASE !!!!!
15.f.mi (link)
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i guess all i can say is the best thing to do is make him jealous and get a new bf and be all tight w/ him..cus it will make him jealous and he'll be mad tht he evr gave up on u..!
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i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love (link)
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tht is so MEAN AND RUDE!i guess just try to act lk it doesn't bother u and ignore him cus if u rilly don't lk him thts y u dumped him didn't u?...
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well, my dog(german shepherd) just had 5 puppies(sadly 1 died) anyways, three of them are totally black and only one of them looks like her mother(black and tan). i was wondering if anybody could come up with some cool and unique names for my puppies, i have some ideas already, but i want more. thanx alot!! (link)
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umm...cuddles,hershey,snoopy,snickers,daisy!
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Hi Im a 14 year old girl and the guy i like is in my cross country team and I just started it, and when we got to the end of practice we started doing some really hard sprinting drills, (i hadnt had anything to eat that day and it was right after school and i brought no water) and i was always at the end if everybody. and i was soooooo embarassed. and im wondering.... do you think he thinks of me like a girly girl or something? ive never felt so stupid.... (link)
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well...u just hafta prove him wrong if he does...remember to eat a healthy lunch and breakfast and bring lots of extra water and give 150%...ShOw HiM wUt U gOt!!!
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Okay i got the new AIM and i used to know how to link sns but now i dont see how to do it so how do i do it? thanks! (link)
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u go to My AiM at the top of ure buddy list and click on Manage Linked Screen Names...then click on Link/Unlink Screen Names..then type in ure other s/n tht u want linked w/ ure new one and just go from there...
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(m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks (link)
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...i hve always heard tht u shouldn't stay w/ the same person for more than 6 months..but who am i to no if u truly think tht u will not be able to live life w/out her then stay w/ her but if u do think u will be ok then go ahead and take a break cus u might not hve as much pressure..believe me i no how it is being 14 and having pressure..just follow ure heart!GoOd lUcK!
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OMG THERES THIS GUY THAT I ABOSULUTELY ADORE!!but the promblo is that hes seeing someone else but i mean I CANT GET OVER HIM!! HES MY SUNSHINE.. MY SHINNING STAR!!! please o please give me advice!
love
the lover! (link)
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I NO HOW U FEEL!...just keep trying i guess till u get wut u want...remember "LOVE IS A BATTLE FIELD"...GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE I HELPED!
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For as long as I can remember, my currently 19 year-old sister, isn't having the best life right now. I'll refer to her as Lexi In 2003 Lexi dropped out of her senior year in high school about 4 months before graduation. She claims it was because she hated that school, and hated everyone in it. I mean, she's not really the preppy, Barbie Girl type. She did get her G.E.D. after dropping out of high school, though. She went to the 2nd semester of college. Our whole family was overjoyed and really thought that Lexi could make something of herself, finally. I mean, she is really, really smart and an extremely good drawer.
But then she ended up skipping her classes to sleep in, and the night before college finals in spring, she drunk so much alcohol that she passed out and was under severe conditions and had to be hospitalized. She didn't even call our parents, because she knew that she'd be in trouble for underage drinking at that tim (age 18) and she had missed finals. She went to court and pleaded guilty, and was fined. But our family left that in the past and forgave her.
Lexi's back home now, and I pray every night that she goes back to college, or at least gets a job. She always promises our mom to get a job and never does, claiming that "nothing motivates her to do anything." Usually she appears in a pretty good mood, but once every month my parents and her will have a nasty fight. I'm not saying physically. These fights involve swearing, screaming, yelling, shouting, and insulting. Then the next day it's almost as if nothing happened, but my parents and Lexi won't talk to each other. My mother cries her eyes out, and I can't blame her, because she went through several hours of pain and labor to bring Lexi into the world, wanting , and my sister does nothing but smoke and swear at her. She and my parents eventually make up, and then it will be another fight.
Lexi is in financial trouble too (I'm not saying what), and won't return tax collectors' calls. She is too lazy to get a job, all she does is eat, sleep, and smoke, and go out with friends. I really want Lexi to get a job and stop smoking. I really want her to have a better life and go back to college. I really want my parents and her to not fight. I can't control any of this, because she is 6 years older than me (I'm 13) and I can't tell her what to think. Lexi refuses to go to a counselor, and no one can change her mind. Sometimes I even cry myself to sleep because I'm only 13 and I'm already going through emotional pain. I really need help, and I would appreciate anyone's sincere input on this. (link)
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well this is a very complicated problem...there is rilly nothing tht u can do to help her besides pray because ure prayers will always be answered (not always the way tht u want them to)...but just pray and be as nice as u can to her and everything else will takes its place in her life!
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14/f I have been friends with Greg for 12 years! We're good friends and have been forever. I found out fairly recently that he likes me romantically, the thing is that I don't like him back. He has been telling my friend that he would do anything to make me like him back. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I need him to know that I don't like him and there is no future for us. I want him to let go and move on to someone else. How do I make him realize that he needs to move on and how can I help him? I don't want to lose him as a friend. (link)
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well u see wut u should do is just approach him (rememeber he lks u and u don't so don't be afraid of him)and tell him tht u just wanna be rilly good friends and nothing more but tht u don' wanna lose ure good friendship and just see wut ends up happening.....hOpE iT gOeS wELL!
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okay so there is this guy that i like and i don't know himt hat well yet but i would like to get to know him how should i approach him or introduce myself to him? without feeling stupid? (link)
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u could maybe have a friend tht knows him pretty well ask him wut he thinks about u or if tht doesn't work then u could just start talking to him about school or sports or w/e!and just see wut happens..if he doesn't seem interested in u then forget about him and move on to someone else but if he does seem interested in u then u'll be glad tht u did approach him..GoOd LuCk!!!!
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lot of my freinds think I sould try out modeling I wonder anybody know anyway webistes..
Plus I am 4 foot 5. I hard you have to be 5 foot be a model.
Binca (link)
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well u usually hafta be 5 or 6 ft. to be a model but u don't hafta wait to show off ure beauty!u could maybe try another hobby lk cheerleading or dance and maybe be on the dance team in high school...who knows u could maybe even be the next miss u.s.a...so just give it a try and if it doesn't work out then try sumthin else...GoOd LuCk!
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Okay here's the deal: this girl, who i like to refer to as my best friend. We do a lot together, she slept over about 10 times during the summer. We have soo many pictures together. We talk about everything. I'm 14/f, and i've known her since i was 11. In the past years we've come really close, or so i seem to think. When we're togheter, we have a total blast.. but sometimes when we were with other people, she shys away from me and doesnt pay any attention to me. And i know she used to be really really good friends with 3 of my other friends, they had this little group, u know? And she always talks about how shes been replaced by one of my friends in that group, and talks about how they always leave her out and stuff.. then when were with them she gets all up and tight with them. It really bugs me. Is she like, ashamed of me? I mean i have plenty of other friends, but i really feel strongly about her. She's pretty much the only person i tell everything to. And yea, she tells me a lot too, cause she knows she can trust me with everything. I just don't understand why she can't say i'm her best friend. How would i go about talking to her about this? I really want to but i dont want her to get angry with me.. please help. I know it's long :S sorryyyyy. oh i rate! (link)
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I NO HOW U FEEL!!i felt lk tht at times in mi old school....well ne ways u should just come out and tell her tht u rilly want to be best friends with her and not just buds.tell her tht when she tells u tht she feels left out and she is rilly all tight with her friends tht u feel tht u feel she is ashamed of u.and also tell her tht when u guys hang out tht u want her to pay attention to u and not just use u.well i hope i helped....!
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i like someone but i don't think they like me..but i can't stop liking them..it is soo hard what should i do?! (link)
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wut u should do is....listen to wut ure heart is saying and be flirty and just be ureself cus if this guy can't except u for who u r then he is not worth it.also don't spend ure whole year trying to get this guy cus in the end he'll just end up breaking ure heart...trust me.
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