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HEy guys. my naMe Is alEx but pEopLE calL mE LeX oR LeXiE! Im 15 aND i LiVe in TexaS! i CheEr aNd daNCe aNd LoVe haVinG a GooD timE! yOU caN aSk Me aBouT aNythIng,i Dont CaRe what thE toPiC iS,whAt sEx yOu aRe, hOw LoNg iT iS. ANYTHING!=)
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Hey Girls!!
I Was Just Wondering If Anyone Had Any Tips On How To Make Your Make-Up Stay On All Day?
Thanks For Any Help!
*.x-Tee-x.* (link)
Well I know of this liquid that you can get at any cheerleading surplus store and it keeps your eye make-up on soo well..but if you dont know where a local store is or you dont wanna spend alot of money putting a little vaseline on your eyelids works really well! Also Maybeline eyeshadows stay on really well! Don't use liquid liners if you wear your eye-liner on the inside of your eyelid where your eyelids meet and it looks kind of glossy. Things i would spend big bucks on are a good mascara, foundation, and lip gloss. I use Maybeline Blackest Black and Este Lauder for mascara; Bobbi Brown for foundation; and Lancome's juicy tubes and Stilla for lip glosses because they are a little thicker and last longer.


Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions? (link)
Well..shes turning 16 and thats a biggie!=)If your planning on getting her jewelry and you've been dating for a while I suggest James Avery. They have very cute charms that you could put on a ribbon thats her favorite color to wear around her neck, or invest in a ring. They have one that is a hear and it looks like its twisted into a knot kind of..that would make a great gift and its about $35-$45. If you need a cute way to give it to her you could get a cute little Teddy Bear and put the necklace around its neck or put the ring on a ribbon too and set it on her porch and ring the doorbell. Or you could be there when she wakes up =)


I got my first period over a year ago, July 2003. I have gotten 4-6 periods when i should have had 12. i go long periods of time without getting a period. Like I got one in December and my next one was in March. I have one like every 3-4 months and what really sux about it is that when i actually do get them its not the same day of the month. My first one was on the 1st but i've gotten them anytime of the month. Im really skinny and some ppl say if u dont have alot of body fat it messes up ur periods.. is that true?

thanx... kt (link)
Okay, since youve only had your period for a year now its totally normal. Your menstrual cycle hasn't regulated yet, meaning you have an irregular period. I'm not really sure if its because your really skinny, but I dont think thats the cause. My doctor told me it normally takes a couple of years for it to become regular, meaning you get it every month and usually 28 days apart.


this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate (link)
Definately no. Besides if the change is for you it shouldn't matter what everyone thinks! Change isn't always bad..in your case it seems like it's good unless there's a reason your changing. If someones trying to change you, or doesn't like you as you are you should just blow them off..You are your own person and no one should affect that. But if the change is for you then yeah definately go with it! If your afraid of being made fun of for changing then take it slow..and take little steps to that ultimate change!


Hey..
Everyone says I would make a great model and they say I have all of the perfect features for it..where can I get some info. on this? Thanks! Oh, and by the way..I am a 14 year-old gurl..if this helps at all=) (link)
Okay, if people constantly tell you that you should model you should definately try it out! Find a model school or agency in your area, then call or go to their website to get more information. They normally appear at malls sometimes to scout out everyday teenagers and you can go up to their booths whenever they're there! If you dont know of any modeling schools or agencies then grab your local yellow pages and go to Modeling or Modeling Schools and there should be a variety of choices! Go strut your stuff on the runway!


ok me and my best friend have been best friends for about 2 years now. During the first year of our friendship she had a crush on this guy and ugly guy who she thinks is hot. On the last day of school that same year he asked her out and they have been going out for over a year. The next year it got worse. her boyfriend was nice to me at first but then he started to kick me and say mean things to me.Later on in the year i could start telling that my so called best friend was getting jealous of me because i had nicer clothes, more friends and had been asked out 6 times and had alot of people thinking i was hot while she was asked out once and only her boyfriend thought she was hot. She startes takeing his side over mine and would never stand up to me. When i started to hang out more and more with my neighbors she got even more jealous i started hanging out more with another friend and we are now best friends. she doesn't rly know about it yet. she keeps sending me letters and asking me over but she never calls me. i want to let her go and not be best friends w. her anymore b/c i can't be friends w. someone whos b/f hates me!!!
help!!!
i rate rly Good
* MaCky* (link)
Okay, the boyfriend thing might be an issue, but if it is have her spend time with him when your not with her so you and him dont have to be around each other. If she is jealous then maybe it would help to include her, or do something that wouldn't make her jealous. Spend tme with her, call her, etc. so she doesn't feel left out and maybe her jealousy will go away.You shouldnt throw away a friendship just because you and her boyfriend don't get along, especially if she was a good friend!


ok well i think the thing with me adn broc is over just bc we havnt talked in a long time and it seems like hes not makin and effort. idk if its bc hes scared or busy or wut. its confusin cuz his best friend always says that broc likes me but it doesnt seem like it. but i met this guy mark and hes soo sweet we met in drivers ed. and like yesterday he texted me and said he would call me last nite ( that was like at 1) so at 10 i was like omg hes not gonna call but then he texted me again and was like dont worry i didnt forget about u ill call u at 11. so at 11 (exactly) he called and we talked for 2 hours and it was soo awesome. hes sucha great guy. hes leavin for big bear today for a week but he said when he gets back that were gonna go see a movie. do u think im doin the rite thing by lettin go of the broc thing and going for mark.???? like mark gives me alot of attention but broc doesnt... ya u know.. (link)
Well, if Broc isn't making the effort and you are he's not worth your time. Definately go for Mark! He seems like a cool, down to earth guy who you can really talk to if you had a long talk like that. Find a movie that the two of ya'll will like pick a time and hit up the theater!


This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!! (link)
Okay you sound just like me--BIG SPENDER! If your looking for alot of clothes for a good price maybe you should get a few key pieces, like jeans and a denim skirt at Hollister or Abercrombie and Fitch, then go to TJ MAX or Marshalls for a good deal on cute tops and maybe even cute shoes! But stores for cute shoes,bags, accesories, and T-shirts that i like to go to are VinTaGe stORes! They always have some of the cutest things! You can always get a simple white shirt and pair it with a cute pair of jeans then put it with a cheap pair of pumps and cute jewelry and a fun bag and you have an awesome look!


I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss? (link)
Okay, I love lip gloss! So if your willing to spend the bigbucks Stilla has some good lipgloss for about $17 a tube(I think?!). If you dont want to though thats okay too becuase Revlon just came out with this great brand and its very shimmery and it looks so pretty on. I have one that comes in a light light pink that looks clear when you put it on, and one thats a hot pink in the tube, but is sheer with a little tint when on your lips. And they weren't expensive at all..you can get them at any drugstore. Another good brand is NYC that you can get at drugstores!


ok here is the deal, i need to go school shopping but i don't know where to go! i live in miami and im 15! does anybody know a good stoRe? (link)
Okay! Back to school shopping is soo much fun, but its soo crazy cause everyone is going! Don't get all of your shopping done for the year at once! Buy miscellanious peices throughout the year. For the cute preppy look, abercrombie and fitch is good, but everyone shops there so thats not always the best choice if you want to be unique. Vintage stores always have cute shoes, bags, accesories, and t-shirts! If your like me and like 80's shoes and accesories you'll love it!
Another tip-- DoNt gEt EveRyThing fRoM oNE sToRe! Go to a variety of different stores!


ok i have a serious problem.I think im starting to like mah best guy friend like as more than a friend!I just dunno what to do cuz i dont wanna get hurt for the second time but then i'll prolly just get hurt by keeping it inside.So i dunno wat to do, plz help! *I RATE GOOD*
*Nani* (link)
Well because he's your best guy friend he most likely could have some feelings for you too!=) You should drop little hints, like cute little smiles when you look at him for no reason, or say love ya when your signing off AIM, or writing him notes in class. If you start to think that he likes you back then just be like.. so you liking anyone these days? And ask him about his 'love life.' LoL. It would probably be better to tell him and let him know about it, then keeping it bottled up inside. But if you are afraid of getting hurt, then make sure you really like him before doing all of this to get your guy!


Everyone at school thinks it is REALLY weird for poeple to wear pure black outfits and black make up. Black is the only color that really looks good on me, so I prefer to wear it.

is there any other color that has the same slimming effect as the color black? im not fat, but im not the skinniest. ive got big boobs and a kinda chubby lower stomach. i want to hide this, so i wear the black stuff.

i just need another color in clothing that looks good with almost anything and is slimming in those areas i mentioned.
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Well first off, you shouldn't care what people think, but what am I saying I'm a teenager too, and we ALL care what everyone thinks. If your upper body is the only place that you seem to have problems (because you didn't mention your butt or legs) try wearing a cute colored skirt with a cute black top. Or pair a cute black cami with a denim jacket with pinstripe pants or something like that. For your makeup if you dont want to wear all black put black in the corner of your outer eye and blend it torwards the middle and for the rest of the lid blend in white shadow so you get a smokey eye look, but its not too dramatic. Then just line your eyes with a black liner and if you want at a glitter eyeliner in silver.


I have a problem with cutting myself and I've always been to afraid to tell one of my best friends for fear that she might think i was some kind of freak! I just need an idea on what would be a good way to start off a conversation and then breaking the news to her! I would appreciate it! OH and ill rate u goood!!!!!
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If she's your best friend it should be pretty easy telling her, but I understand that you don't want her to freak out. Just have her over one night and tell her you really need to tell her something important, and you would feel better if you got it off your chest and told her. When she comes over go somewhere where the two of ya'll can talk and it will be nice and quiet and you dont have to worry about anyone bothering you. If she automatically asks what was soo important that you had to tell her then you can just go right ahead and answer her question. But if not you might start off with something very brief like telling her that you have a problem, and you want her to know (and you especially want her help if your trying to stop!) and then just tell her, you shouldn't hide the truth, especially if shes one of your best friends! If she is she'll help you get through it and she love you no matter what! If not then maybe she wasn't such a good friend.


i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!

confused- gurl :( (link)
Okay..your in a bit of a usual crush dilemna. If he doesn't like you like that its fine! Maybe it wasn't meant to be. There's probably someone out there right now that likes you, and you don't even know it. If he doesn't like you as more than a friend then tell him your fine with being just friends. One night you and your single friends should all just go out..and look for some guys that can make you laugh, and have good potential to be more than just a friend.


my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
Okay..When I bought my first thong I thought it would be cool with my mom. She found it and told me I was too young to have one. I ,ofcourse, didn't agree and told her that it was just underwear, and its not like anyone is going to see it. Since then she hasn't cared.. just tell your mom that you think your old enough, and mature enough to have one. And also you should ask her why she doesn't want you to have one.


I know this sounds really nasty but I'm bulimic, but instead of throwing up, I take laxatives. I don't know how to make myself stop. My dad knows and he isn't really doing anything to stop it. Has anyone dealt with an eating disorder who can tell me? (link)
You have to stop hurting yourself like that.. and soon! Get rid of all your laxatives, and make sure to eat all three meals. I used to have a slight case of anorexia, and once I almost fainted, it scared me and made me realize that not eating when my body needed to was hurting me more than I thought. If you need to, find someone to talk to. Someone you can definately trust. If you have friends that have an eating disorder too try and steer clear from them for a while if they might be an influence to your habit. If your concerned about your weight just make sure you eat good, healthy foods and exercise on a regular basis. There's no reason to hurt yourself like that.


Hey i have really really dark brown hair and i want to bleach it blonde but im scared it won't look good cuz of my hair color now i wanted to change it before high school any advice i rate super good! (link)
oMgoSh! dont bleach it! Brunettes are soo hott. If it's to dark for you lighten it up with hair dye. *Especially if you have blue eyes you should keep your hair brown!* If your looking for a new look grow it out so its shaggy! That's a great look that all the girls love! =)


where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help? (link)
Well...since guys normally hold you around your waist if your standing up wrap your arms around his somach reaching for his shoulders or reach around his neck. If your laying down hold him close to you around his stomach area reaching for his shoulders and rub his back or his head.


Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think? (link)
Hmm..thats a toughie. If you and your ex really do still like each other thats soo great! But is not seeing each other to hard to handle? If it is then go for your 'friend'. But if you and your ex-girlfriend both can manage more time to spend together thats probably even better because you know that she already definately likes you, and would want a relationship.


summers all most over and i had like this altimate goal to go talk or some how meet this guy that i liked and we dont go to the same school o rn e thing i just kinda know him from some where so idk how to meet him or n e thing and i just wish that maybe he would come up to me first and i only have like a couple or more weekends to do this so somebody tell me good ways to meet him or w/e!

will rate.. (link)
Well, because the two of you don't go to school together you might want to get the dirt on him. See what he likes to do, and if the things he likes interest you, too. After you find out a few basic things about him decide whether or not you still want to meet him. If you do just figure out his screen name and talk to him for a while, then let him know you think he's a really cool guy and what not. Or if you see him go up to him and just start up a general conversation.




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