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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious?
It sucks being self concious i know. My really good friend once told me to be confident. Dont ever think about it. Cause if your kinda sad and just like whatever then people will see you that way. The way you view yourself, is the way other people will view you! So think of yourself as what you want to be seen as. This works too. Once you have more confidence, then everything follows. I hope I helped...
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good luck!
OK I really need help. I am trying to find great deals on jeans, but i want them to be a little lose and not so tight. Where is a good place to find jeans like that?!?
~*Jersey gal*~
www.alloy.com has a variety of brands. Some are expensive but ones on sale get very very cheap. Old Navy has some good jeans too. Just kinda search around, you'll eventually find something you like. =)
my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?
Sounds like they arent very good friends if they wont tell you why they are mad. Think of it as a good oppurtunity. You will be able to make new friends. When you come into something with out a group of friends, you will be able to make friends easier and come out stronger in the end. Its going to suck at first, but if they are treating you like that.. dont worry about it, make friends, enjoy school.
I love this guy he loves me and we have been dating for a while but latley hes been selling drugs for his prohbation officer and up to now i've always gave him money if he needed it, and he knows that, he told me he would stop all of this afterhe was done with prohbation,i am there for him 100% but only because i love him, but at times i just want to tell ask him if he knows what he is doing. He has looked for a job all over the city and no one will take him because he has a bad record. I cant just up and leave him because of this because me and him has been really good friends for almost three years and we've been dating for like a year or so. Please tell me what i should do
Support him with every GOOD thing he does. when he needs money tell him your out, you dont have any. Tell him how you really feel about the drugs and stuff. You dont like the drugs, you worry about him.. explain that to him and hopefully he will understand. Stay away from him when he is around drugs, you dont want to get in trouble too.
Talking about it, is a lot easier than doing it. Good luck.
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so...i listen to alot of bands that some people would consider Punk..and some others would consider them "posers". im getting really sick of it. why can't people understand that labels are for soup cans?
Does it matter what they are considered? As long as your loving what you listen to, it shouldnt matter what other people think. Some people are too hard headed to understand that labels are for soup cans... So just live with it for now, keep rockin', keep livin' keep havin' fun!
I have this friend that changes me every time I hang out wth her. I end up doing thigs I normally wouldnt do, and things I end up regretting. I have to lie to everyine, even my closest friends and family just to cover up some of the things we've done together. But we have a lot of fun when we hang out and she really is my friend. We've been friends for 3 years. I'm just so confused.
It sounds like she really isnt a friend if she is putting you in a situation your gonna have to lie about. Just say no, or tell her you dont feel comfortable doing something. If it helps any, have other friends with you when you hang out. Talk to her about how you feel and if she is a true friend, she will understand. Easier said than done.
k my mom let me get my belly pierced in june and shes still hidin it frum my dad bc he sed no....i already hav 4 in each ear and i wanna get my tongue done s0o0 bad!! my mom already sed no more piercings...but i want it reallllll bad...im thinking of goin behind her back and doing it...but HOW SHOULD I HIDE IT?/ any ideas??? does it hurt?? how much does it cost?? does ne 1 no ne where they will pierce it with a parent there??? PLZ HELP!!!
Best thing to do is wait until your 18. You dont want to go behind your parents back, blah blah... But seriously, you dont want to lose your parent's trust for you. It sucks major. The pain of losing their trust will be there long after the pain of the piercing has gone away. Just try talking to your mom, tell her how you feel about it. Maybe you can do something for her to change her mind. If not, just wait.. its not that bad.
My dance teacher recently had a baby boy(hes now 5 months) She also has a 2 year old boy. I volunteered to babysit for her once the baby is older. I've babysitted before but I had some help. Actually, I just helped babysit. I entertained them and the actual babysitter fed them, changed them, etc. I've never changed a diaper but I'm pretty sure I know how to fix them something to eat. I just want some tips on what all I should do and remember. Any ideas on activities? Snacks? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
I started babysitting two boys at the same age as them. Since your waiting for the youngest to get a little older, take a class. Or maybe go with a friend who babysits and have them show you what to do. Remember there is always a phone, if you need help dont be afraid to call someone, like your mom or a friend. Best bet, your mom will be able to help you the most. Ask your dance teacher things about what they eat and stuff, she will show you. The best thing to babysitting, is to be patient. Dont freak out, just have fun.
ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off
Don't rush into getting a boyfriend right away. Focus on having fun, HS goes by soo fast! Make lots of friends and let things happen as they happen. Dont worry about the braces.. Braces arent a total turn off.. Just make sure you dont have anythig stuck in them! If a guy likes you for who you really are, then the braces wont matter to him. Well good luck in high school!