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Hey all. Im 23 and from Canada. I feel ive had kinda a tough life and have experience in almost any problem you can think of. Feel free to ask me anything!
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Tomorrorw is picture day...
I have wavy hair and i want to scrunch it..
how excactly do i scrunch it.. please give detailed information or i'll have to sraighten it..
When you get outa the shower wrap your hair in a towel for like 10 mins. Dont brush it. Use Gel or mouse. Flip your had over and put the gel or mouse in your hair and just scrunch it. basically take a handful of hair and mush it into a ball!?!?
Flip your head back over, place your hair how you want it and finish it off with some hairspray and maybe scrunch a lil again.
Hope I helped :)
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ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!!
Well oral is when the girl sucks the guys penis and the guy licks the girls vagina.
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when i made out with my bestfriend and my boyfriends cousin ....i asked him the today why he did it and he said "i dont know" and it was after school but like everyone was around and we were leavin so we werent around any of our friends sooo does that mean he wont give me the real answer til were alone again or am i supposed to believe that he dosent kno why he was holdin my hands and cuddling and kissin me?
please help im really confused!!
Thats crap! He knows why he did it hes just too scared to say it!
Ask again!
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Okay I have acne. Not that bad. And i would love to clear it up b4 school starts which is 8 days away. what can I do to clear the acne. Is there anything that actually works in 8 dayds or less. please I need to get rid of this acneee...
Theres something called spectro-gel. Its antibacterial wash, works really really good.
Also try toothpaste, also works good!
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c im a 14/m and ive neva been kissed. it duznt bother me much it s just that im not ready 4 ne kind of commitment and cuz my parents dont like me gettin close 2 girls. i hate them so much i almost killed them and ran away once. i just wanna get w/ a girl and b friends that arent bf and gf but kiss alot and otha stuff. how do i do that?
Its ok to want to kiss girls when your young but just be careful. Wait until the right girl comes along. You dont want to look back at your life and see that you kissed 100 girls that didnt mean anything. Wouldnt you rather look back and think of your first girlfriend being the first person you kissed and really liking her. I know guys that are 21 now and wish they hadnt kissed anyone until they were like 16-17. A kiss is sooo personal and means sooo much, do you really wanna waste it on a girl who means nothing to you?
Sorry if i wasnt much help :)
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ok i made out with my bestfriends cousin and like i was actin like nothin because we dont want my bestfriend to kno but now hes actin like nothin happend and i really need to talk to him about it but i dont know how to approch him...any ideas would be grreat!! i need to know if he likes me and why he did it because i like him alot and we went out b4 but didnt do anything and now that were not goin out hes kissin and cuddlin and holdin hands with me...plz help me!!
Call him up and just talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels! Just come right out and say it! Whats the worst that could happen? Say it with alot of confidence. Guys like a girl with good confidence! Dont be scared just do it! Like a band-aid, one motion, RIGHT OFF!!!!!
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I tried to make a website at www.cjb.net and i made my username and stuff already but I don't know how to actually make the website. I got to this page http://upload.cjb.net/ and now I don't know what to do! I want a quotes site but I don't know how to make it. Can anybody help me? I rate! Thanks
Go to www.webmonkey.com it has EVERYTHING you need to learn to make a website!
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Okay, this is sick n I really dont talk about it wit anyone cept muh BEST FRIEND cuz we talk bout everything good bad w/e. Alright, well I juss wrote to get advice on a sex issue but now I need advice on DOWN SOUTH on a girl. Our pubic area if I must say haha. Okay it makes me laugh but yeah... I shaved like it down there like all the time but once I do it say for example on a Monday I cant until like maybe thursday b/c if I do anytime before I cut my self a bunch of times down there and it hurts and its still stubby.I mean its sick but I dunno what to do. Is there like somethin I can use besides waxing or somethin I can do to shave it or something? I mean cuz I dont like pubs down there really and I like em gone. but its kinda hard when now I have a b/f and what if like say the Weds. after Monday I shaved and he goes down there or we decide to have sex or somethin? He wont be able to cuz it will be all nasty ...I dunno what to do..its embarressing and a pain in the ass lol.. PLEASEE get me some advice lol
Ya it really is a pain in the ass! But thats what being a girl is all about right?!
Try moisturizing shave gel or try sugaring, doesnt hurt as much as waxing.
Theres this stuff you can get, its called shave minimizing lotion, Ive tried it on my legs and it works pretty good so i dont see why it wouldnt work "down there" hehe
It just makes the hair thinner and makes it not grow back as fast.
Let me know if it works!
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hi ! okay well im in 6th grade and i really want to wear thongs! because i hang out with older girls and they wear them and i feel left out ! some please give me so lines to say to my grandma ( i live with my grandparents ) !!! THANKS!
I suggest to not wear a thong. There not really that safe. Women who wear thongs have a higher risk of yeast infections and chafing.
There sooo unsanitary and can be uncomfortable.
If you really wanna wear a thong dont wear it all the time. Only wear it when your wearing tight pants and you dont want panty lines. And DONT wear a thong to bed.
If you really want one just go to the mall and buy it yourself.
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okay this guy i love him truly with all of my heart and i really wanna marry him we were together for over 2 yrs. and well we broke up last thursday.. and well he told me that he truly loves me that he wants to be back with me but he dosen't want me 2 hurt him anymore which i admit that i've done some stupid things but i'm truly srry for them and it would never happen again. but the thing is their's this other girl that sorta like him and he likes her a little bit but i can't stand seeing them together and i told him that i can't seeing them together and well he said that' he's doing it for us to see that i'm really the one for him i don't know what to do
and to make matters worse i think i'm pregnant
First off you need to take a pregnancy test to find out if you really are pregnant. If you are dont tell him right away becasue he might think youre saying that to get him back. Try talking to him or write him a letter telling him how you feel. Explain that youve made mistake and your truly sorry for them. Its ok for him to see other people to make sure your the one for him. With any luck he will realize that this other girl doesnt even remotely compare to you.
If it ends up that you guys dont get back together dont worry, after a while life will go on and you will get over it. It might take a while but in the end you'll be ok. Now if you are pregnant then thats a whole other story. Find that out first and get back to me if you need anything else!
Dont worry hun it will be ok.
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Besides identifiable sexual attraction, how can one tell the difference between a crush and great love for a friend? If a friend really wants physical contact with another friend, but not necessarily sex, what is that?
Please answer. I really will rate.
A crush is when you get all fluttery when your around the guy. You get shy, embarassed and giddy. A crush you usually get over in a month or 2.
Love is completely different. Great love you will never get over. When your in love you want to be with the person all the time and you think about them all the time. Love makes you feel completely sick every time you think about or see the person. Love really is the worst feeling ever. Haha. Trust me if your in love you'll know it!
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Ugh, this is so discusting, but how do you get rid of dead skin cells on your face, like after you have a pimple or somthing, without having to go out and buy somthinggggg i mean i have great moisturizer but during the day my makeup becomes all flaky and suck and i dooo not likkke ittt attt alllll!!! hahaha...I'm so frustrtaed, also, what can you do for a scab thats on your face, fast, I use neosporin but it doesnt work that well, ughh im so mad at myselffff =(
sad and frustrated
If you dont want to spend the money on products then take your normal face wash and mix it with sugar (lots) so its like a paste. Then rub it all over your face, its like exfoliating and it works great! I do it all the time. Then put on moisturizer!
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I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour?
Close your eyes and pretend your in a BIG open room. Or you could not sleep the night before and fall asleep in there. Just take lots of deep breaths and think happy thoughts!
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I really really like this guy but when he found out my fealings he sed he wanted me only as a friend cuz he wanted to get someone "fresh" when he gets in high school... but i've liked him since 2 grade or even befor that! he's really one of my best buds.i know how he feels but if i see him with someone else.. omg i dunno what i'll do! is there some way i can get him to like me?.. some way he could change his mind!?? help please!
You cant make someone like you. But you can make them see what an awesome person you are. Just be really nice to him and do stuff for him. It will be really hard to see him with other girls but im sure you can do it. He'll come around and he'll eventually see that you two should be together. When he breaks up with some dumb slutty chick who do you think hes gonna come to? YOU! Just be there for him and try to make him see that your so much better for him then any other girl. Be really fun! Guys like fun.
Your just gonna have to be patient hun. But dont worry one day he will realize that he could have a best friend and girlfriend all in one!
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ok.. my birthday is on saterday.. well yea.. everyones asking me what i want and i say.. idk.. but i do know.. i just think it costs too much to ask a friend to get you.. but anyways.. i was wondering what i should tell people to get me.. i mean.. i already know the girls are going to get me like.. shower gel and stuff.. but the question is.. what would i ask a guy to get me? sorry it was so long.. :D
p.s. im pretty much a grlie girl so.. taht might help... maybe..
i willll rate ya :D
Tell the guys you like bubble bath and stuff. Ot if theres a guy you like and he wants to know what to get you tell him to take you to the movies one night and that will be your present! Or maybe flowers?!?!
Other then that i dont really know cause i dont what you like.
Hope I somewhat helped :)
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i have had sex with my boy friend 5 times and it was long and all buh i never had a orgasim is there something rong or is it still too soon? sumone help me
Nope! Theres nothing wrong with you. It all depends on your age. Some girls dont get their first orgasm till there in their late 20's. It all depends on the person. Some girls will never get an orgasm. Dont worry its totally normal!!
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i've known him like forever, hes my bestfriend since we ran in diapers. recently ive noticed that whenever hes around me, my heart just pounds like crazy. i dont know why i feel that way.. i fear that i might be falling for him! if i do, what if he doesnt accept my love? i dont want our friendship to end if our relationship doesnt work out.. please help
Tell him how you feel. whats the worst that can happen? if he doesnt feel the same way then your just embarassed for a few days. If he does feel the same way then great. If you guys do start a relationship there is a chance that you could ruin the friendship but you will eventually be able to be friends again.
I fell in love with my best friend and we were together on and off for 3 years. It ended badly and we ended up not being friends but it was totally worth it. Your friendship will never be the same if the relationship doesnt work out but trust me its worth it cause were friends now !!
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im the only child in my family, my mom got a miscarriage back in 1997, since then im the only target in my family of my mom's naggings. my dad is hardly at home, he works to get the income coming. i dont have a close social bond with my dad because of this, but i feel somehow mentally me and dad clicked. with mom, all she does is say something to pissed the heck outta me, i'll just go to my room, stay there forever till she wants to talk again. i duno why shes acting like such a a**, and whenever i have a problem i duno who to turn to but my bestfriend. otherwise its me sitting next to problems like these. my mom doesnt even bother to find out whats going on in my life, she doesnt act like she cares or wants to be included. she simply doesnt bother. she doesnt allow me to have a boyfriend, im not even allowed to TALK about guys infront of her. dun tell me to talk to her, she wouldnt listen to me. is there other ways that u could help me? much appreciated -Rei
You might just have to accept the fact that you may never get along with your mom. Im the same way, all me and my mom do is fight but i connect with my dad great.
Its ok that you dont get along with your mom. Lots of people dont. You just need to learn to live with her until you get older and move out. I suggest just ignoring her when she bitches for no reason. Just say "ok mom sorry" and walk away. even if its not your fault it just gets the fight overwith. Just try to avoid confrontation as much as possible. If she wont let you talk about boys then dont talk about boys. Just make her feel like she has the control and try not to piss her off to much.
It sounds like you will never get along with your mom and thats totally ok.
If you need someone to talk to about this continue talking to your best friend or maybe even try talking to your dad.
If all else fails just come on here and theres tons of people who you can talk to.
Feel free to write me if you need to talk.
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are they worth the pain and money for the sake of nice straight teeth?
I say yes definetly. When i was younger i had them and a retainer after that i was supposed to wear at night and i didnt wear it and now i regret it! so make sure if you have to get a retainer that you wear it!!! hehe
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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?
Its totally fine. I never had an actual real boyfriend until i was 18. Just the dumb people you call your "boyfriend" when your like 13 or 14 cause the relationships you have when your 13 dont really count as "boyfriends". That special guy will come along soon enough. I think its basically pointless to go out with someone just for the sake of saying you have a boyfriend.
I would much rather have 1 or 2 realationships that really mean something then 10 that meant absolutely nothing.
Dont worry about it. Guys suck until there 17 anyways, lol.
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