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I have this friend, me her and 2 other friends had a possy. Then she got a boyfriend and started acting different. She got mean and I got to the point where I didnt even like to look at her. Me and my friends made inside jokes about her. But, the thing is, she still thinks im her best friend, and I don't know how to tell her im not.
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Going up to somebody and saying you aren't or don't want to be friends with them only leads to trouble. Tell her that you don't like that she is mean and that she needs to change if this friendship is going to work. If she realizes that she needs to change or she will loose a friend, a garuntee it will have an effecton her. If you are going to breakup with her, she should be given a fair warning so she can prevent the breakup. If she still doesn't change, sit down with her and tell her that this is not working. No matter how mad you are still stay friends with her, not best friends. For example, nod to her in the hall, say hi every once in a while. If you find yourself sitting by her or you are paired up with her in a school project, dont be afraid of a conversation. I hope it goes well!
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ok so i wanna lose some weight. im not really fat or anything. im not even fat. but i got some extra meat on the stomach i wanna lose. and i was wonderign if anyone knew a good eating scheuld. like 6 small meals a day ( w. examples) or just eat 3 main meals a day.. something like that. i already have the workout part down becuase i play alotta sports. but .. help and ill be sure to ratee (link)
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If you need a diet you shouldn't be asking people on this sight. See your doctor, they will have professional sure-fire diets that will make you loose weight without physically hurting yourself. Also, count your carbs and watch the calories. If you absolutley CANNOT live without sweets heres some advice
Healthy food that is just as good as the fatty kind
1. brownies/chocolate-they make special lean cuisine desserts that taste no different from the kind with fat
2. popcorn-grapes are just as good maybe even better
3. pizza-lean cuisine pizzas! I actually prefer them rather than the regalar kind, they are really good!
4. McDonalds burger-MikkyD's salads are awesome!
5. Pudding-yogurt milkshakes are really good!
6. Smoothies-healthy ones, most towns have a healthy smoothie cafe
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My boyfriend has self-harm issues. On three occasions when we have had an argument, hes physically hurt himself (scrabbed, cut, bruise). It hurts so much, and we have discussed it, he told me it wouldnt happen again, but it has. I have went to friends (close friends) for guidance and advice. My boyfriend tells me that this is wrong in the past,and that we should sort things out among ourselves. But when I am hurt,annoyed, afraid over situations, is it wrong to talk to close friends? I am slightly ascared incase it gets out that I have had to talk to friends.
On one occasion after a fight I was scared, put him on loud speaker to talk,with my friends there,just to let them know what I have to go through, and he threatened to hurt himself.
I dont know what to do sometimes,how can I make him stop? And is it wrong to talk to friends about issues of this manner. I know nothing is gonna be said, but its in my head.I am SO afraid incase he hurts himself, he said he never would do it again, and he did...I threatened to tell his mother, to make him see sense. (link)
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If your boyfriend physically hurts himself, telling his mother should not be a threat, it should be an action. If his mother denies it, and does not believe you (which may happen). Talk to your parents about sitting down with your boyfriend and his parents to discuss the matter. If he says he won't do it again, but you catch him, go to the authorities or a pro psychiatrist. You're boyfriend may be upset if you tell authorities or psychiatrists (if you tell them, you boyfriend might be sent to re-hab which is good for him when he is in danger like this) but when he truly realizes that what he did could possibly have been fatal if he had continued these actions he will thank you.
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im 14/f, 5'6 and 102lbs. im really thin and i want to know how to gain weight. i have a really fast metabolism so i eat constantly. i dont really have access to a gym so weight gaining with muscle really isnt an option. i'd love to be 110lbs or even 115. i really dont mind gaining fat. so if anyone has had the same problem and found a way to gain weight please help. i've heard peanut butter works but i can only stand so much of it. (link)
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You are going through the exact same situation that I am, I am 13 and I only weigh 80 lbs. The average weight is 100-110 lbs. Let me guess, you have some sort of disabilty, ADHD or OCD and the pills that yo u take make you not hungry for meals and more hungry for snacks. When you die you predict that you will be eating at least 50 years of your life. I have not found a way to gain weight. I don't do sports, but I do like to dance and I am hyper alot, I also have really fast metabolism like you. If being petite and skinny is in your geniology (family history) there isn't much you can to about it. People may tease you, but they are just jealous. When you grow up you will be so happy you didn't try to get fat and succeeded.
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My friend has a problem and I don't know what to say to her...This is what she said in a message she sent me.
(her boyfriend) moved. please don't think he said this just to break up with me, and not tell me the real reason why. i know he didn't. but he's gone. while he was away with some relative, his dad got a house in frisco.(a town somewhat near us) and i don't think i'll see him again, at least not any time soon.
She's devastated right now and crying really bad...I've never been in this situation and I don't know what to say to her...Please help me? (link)
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If her boyfriend moved to a town near yours, not all hope is lost. Since they are both near each other they can still see each other from time to time. Also, it is human nature to cry and be upset when someone close leaves. It is also human nature to get over the incident, no matter how big it is. Eventually, as hard as this is to believe, she will get over it and move on, she may deny it, but eventually she will forget the whole matter.
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hey everyone. well, here's my question. My daddy moved out of our house (( my parents aren't divorced he just got a job somewhere else and my mom couldn't get out of her contract)) anyway, ever since, i've been sleeping in my moms bed with her, i dont know why, i just do. and if she wont let me, i'll stay up all night until she wakes up to get in her bed. does anyone have an idea whats wrong with me? (link)
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What's wrong is obvious. When you're dad left, you were upset that your mom might leave to, is that right? So you want to be around her as much as possible to make sure she doesn't leave. You need to talk to your mom about this, if she truly loves you (which she probably does) she will tell you that she wouldn't ever leave, and that you don't have to worry about that.
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Last year at school things got really bad for me, i have depression and last year it got really bad. I mean as in my attitude got bad but i never talked bad against a teacher or anything... Now this year parents are saying that if i go to school they will pull their kids out. And the kids are making up things like i physically hurt them when i did no such things! Do i fight back or just let them get what they want and go to a different school?
i know we aren't supposed to say this but please?
thanks in advance...
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Wow...the parents are saying that if you go to that school they will pull you out? First off, there's one thing you need to know, the reputation that you have is not a good one. Good news, you can work on that. If you still have depression, see a doctor or a professional psychiatrist for perscription medicine and guidance. Also, at school, be as truthful as possible, and every chance you have to show that you are kind and friendly, take it. Even if being nice isn't the cool thing to do, which way would you have it, not be as cool but still have a bunch of friends you like and have the reputation for being kind, or have every parent in the grade hate you...have low self esteem...have few friends...and a bad repuation. Your pick.
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hey everyone.. ok well i went in my friend's myspace... and the first time i got in her account she didn't care... but then the 2nd time i did it she got mad at me... && my brother found out because i forgot to sign out.. so yeah && my parents also know... but they think i asked her but i didn't and now she's mad at me and i called her and apologized like a million times... && she said that she can't trust me anymore and she doensn't want me calling her anymore or talk 2 me ever again so what should i do? (link)
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Wow. First off, I think you know what you did was wrong. Second off, It is also wrong for your friend not to forgive you. You should maybe wait a few weeks/months before calling her again to let her cool off. Also, look at signs of how she feels at school. Does she give you nasty stares? Does she gossip? If she does, wait until she quits. Then try the apology again, remind her that you know what you did was wrong, and that you won't do it again. She may not trust you anymore, if that's what she says, then be as truthful as you can to her from then on, maybe she will realize you are truly sorry.
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I have these seven and nine year old cousins coming over for the first time and have no idea what to do with them. My childhood consisted of climbing trees but that is dangerous. Any suggestions? Thanks mucho! (link)
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Well, I took a Red Cross babysitting class. Not having a clue what to do is perfectly normal. There are three things that you must do to make a good babysitter...
1. Play with the kids!
2. Feed them, of course
3. Call the parents if you have and questions/problems...even if you may think the question is stupid..parents like people that ask questions, it shows that the babysitter wants to be as prepared as possible and wants to take care of the kids the best that she/he can
HAVE FUN!
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