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I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.
Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.
I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.
So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really. (link)
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I don't think that you're "an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning...", you just sound like you're having some trouble with girls. All guys, if not at the least, most, go through this at least once in their life. My guy friends have gone through it.
You sound like you have a better head-start then most of them ever did. It's true, most girls like eye-contact. I let you in on a secert, when a girl looks in your direction and catches your eye, it was on purpose. She'll then turn away and talk to her friends, again done on puropse. The whole thing is for a girl, she's told that if she does that, and then looks back , and the guy is still looking at her, he's interested. Hopefully that's true or I messed up with my ex on that.
If you want to talk to a girl keep eye contact and walk up to her. Say hi, and introduce yourself, if she doesn't already know. Tip: Don't talk about the weather or other things, like things you talk about when you're "with the guys". If she's in the same class as you, branch off from there. Liek if she's in your history class, ask if you can borrow her notes from even if you already have the notes. Ask her for some pointers, and sit down and talk to her while you're talking. See if you a band in common, or even a movie, like a new that just came out. You could ask her if she wants to see it with you a few friends of your's and her's. It's a start, you have to take baby steps.
Hope this helps, if at all.
~Everyone's favoite Little angel, notalittleangel345
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Alright, so im 15, a female, and i think i might be gay. im still 'exploring' my options, if that makes any sense. but i want to let my friends know that there is a possibility that i could be, but everytime i get close to tellin them, ill start out with something about one of my gay friends, and they are automatically grossed out. how could i hint to them that i could be, without losing their friendship, yet not being to revealing? (link)
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Half of my friends are gay or bi or straight. we're all different. but you sound afraid of telling your friends. if they are truly your friends, as cliche as this might sound (especailly to me :P), they will accept that fact about you, after all it's just another part of you. It's who you are, and it won't change.
And there is no way to aviod it. just tell them, and be honest, because it's the only way. Hoenesty is the BEST policy.
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im 14/f, 5'6 and 102lbs. im really thin and i want to know how to gain weight. i have a really fast metabolism so i eat constantly. i dont really have access to a gym so weight gaining with muscle really isnt an option. i'd love to be 110lbs or even 115. i really dont mind gaining fat. so if anyone has had the same problem and found a way to gain weight please help. i've heard peanut butter works but i can only stand so much of it. (link)
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I'm the same way, at 11, I was 75 pounds! I'm now older and I still weight under the average weight, but I have gained some. I can proudly say, I'm 115 pounds.
The idea is to not eat as much, you want the fast metabolism (it's a good thing), try eating three small meals a day. You know the breakfast, lunch nad dinner thing. Just don't eat big servings. And have you tried walking around the mall, or taking up a dance course? You don't have to run on a tredmill to get excersise! I dance and I hang outside with friends. That way I'm moving, not as much as in a gym, but enough so I'm sittting my butt on the couch all day. It really doesn't take a lot. If you need anything else, just let me know.
notalittleangel
p.s. the whole eating peanut butter thing is a myth. it deosn't keep on wieght or help put it on. all it does is make you sick, if you eat too much. (try putting it on some toast for a quick breakfast to go. I have it every morning.)
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