I'm Megan, but you can call me megz. Go ahead and ask me anything and I'll try to help you out.
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E-mail: lilspringbaby143@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Occupation: Student. now Advice
Age: 14
AIM: NotMissPerfect7
Yahoo: lilspringbaby143
Member Since: July 18, 2005
Answers: 57
Last Update: November 16, 2005
Visitors: 4217
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hi megan. first off i'd like to say you're doing a great job with the advice & being nice to each person who asks it. second, i wish to be one of those people who gets advice. so here is my problem. i really like this guy. i have no idea if he likes me back. we used to talk a lot over the summer & stuff, even online. then when school started, i'd see him but he didn't say hi to me & i never said hi to him. we'd just make eye contact & say absolutely nothing. then on IM, our conversations started to get shorter & more bland, because we talk so little. he never IM's me anymore & i always have to IM him. things just aren't the same. so then i tried talking to him but there's this kid who ALWAYS talks to me and ALWAYS bugs me so i can't. i got one word from him & all it was was this "i wonder if we can keep these [chopsticks]" & then me laughing. it was soo pointless. it's as if we both miss talking to each other, & we both want to say something, but we don't know what. i really want to tell him i like him, but it's only been a month & a half, & to me that feels like nothing. plus, i have been rejected every time by every guy i ever fell for & i don't want to go through that suffering again. 10 people in my grade know, & 1 person in his grade knows [he's a sophomore]. but according to my friend, one person who figured it out is a blabbermouth so that isn't good. i have been keeping it a secret & it's a long story as to how certain people found out that i don't feel like sharing right now. the homecoming dance at our school is on october 1st which will make it exactly one month that i have liked him for. but i asked him [online of course] if he was going & he said something like he hasn't decided yet & he dislikes our school's dances. i don't know what to do. should i tell him? should i wait & see if he finds out? should i write him a letter? or a note? should i wait a longer amount of time & see if he likes me back? i know he doesn't have a girlfriend & has never had one before, so i don't need to worry about that. also no one else but me definitely likes him this way. he has slim to none for friends & i see him alone a lot & i feel bad for him. i don't know what to do. please help megan. thanks a bunch. (link)
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Aww.I would love to help you with this problem..okay well it seems like you really like this special guy.You sound like you always need to start the conversation(but that's not always a bad thing) He seems shy.I think the cutest way would be a letter(espically on a bad day) About the dance you should just see after you tell him/give him the note see and give him hints you wanna go to the dance with him.And in the hallway I think you should start up a conversation because if you don't then nothing will happen between you too! You are gonna be the one who starts everything for yourself.He doesn't know how you feel about him maybe you should tell him.Either sit him down like go to a park or something or write him a note.
I hope I helped..Tell me if I did or didn't!!
xOx
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hey meg, its kayla. me and stevie have a good relationship and everything but ever since ive been goin out with him, ive been changing...i kinda changed when i first started goin out wit him because i felt like i had to be something im not for him to like me more or something.and now i realize that i dont need to do that, but its kinda already too late because i feel like im stuck like that now... like im kinda shy and quiet and im not outgoin or fun like i used to be, and i feel like i cant make any one laugh ne more. i feel like im the one that needs to be entertained, and i used to be one of the entertainers. i dont kno. my relationships with my friends are gettin worse because now ive changed.. and not for the better. its really hard for me to go back to the way i was befor.i mean im sure i could, but its gunna take some time.i feel like i cant be the one to make stevie happy and make him laugh. it sux. but i still do really care for him. i dont wanna dump him. but i feel like by not dumping him, im holdin him back.i love him. would it be a good idea to tell him that we should take a lil brake till next summa? cuz its not like im gunna see him that much till then any ways. and then if we both still like eachother, maybe we could pick up wher we left off? by then, im sure ill be my old self again... is that wut i should do? pleez help me. and dont tell stevie any of this pleez. thanks meg.
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Heyy Chica..Okay it seems that you care for Stevie but you wanna take some time so it doesn't hurt him.Yea dating over the winter is going to be hard..But I'm gonna try it with Tyler.And I might do what your gonna do.Kayla knowing Stevie he will like you next year unless he takes this really hard.But make sure if you do brake up with him..Still be friends or it might not work.Me Steve and Charlie use to be like best friends now they like hate me but okay.I'm gonna start calling him every night and seeing how his day goes so you gotta tell me the day before you do it.Kayla I can tell you just need sometime alone so take it.Stevie will probally understand.
Good luck Kayla
I hope I helped you
Love you always
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Hi im 14. I have a boyfriend that ive been going out with for 3 months. He tells me all the time that he loves me and hes so sweet and caring. But all he talks about with his friends is how much he wants to make out w/ me, and he always brags about everything we do to EVERYBODY. Im not sure if he really does love me or if he just wants me so he can have a gf. Please help. Thanks!!! (link)
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Heyy I'm not trying to be mean but it does sound that he just wants to show you off.I'm not saying brake up with him. But you should talk to him and tell him that you don't think he is treatng you right. You should tell him and see if he changes..I know how you feel.and don't do anything with him..Like sexually cuz he will tell everyone.My ex boyfriend did that before and it sucks!
Hope I helped
Megz
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My parents don't like colored people but i have a lot of colored friends that are guys. I think i'm starting to like one of them but i can't help it and i think he likes me. I've been going to all his footbell games and everything like that. but if my parents found out that we liked each other i would get in a lot of trouble ( and right now isn't a good time for that ). I asked them why they are like that and they said they knew some bad ones when they were growing up..and that a lot of colored people are like that to white people...but i said the black people that live around us had to get used to it and my parents should to but i don't think it worked. Would some one PLEASE help me?!?! Thank You So Much If You Can Help Me!
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That's really sweet.I'm glad you found someone you like! Well first of all you need to tell your parents.If you bring him to maybe like family dinners or just to talk to your parents.If they meet him maybe they will like him and you can get your parents approvel.I mean once your parents talk to him and find out he's a nice kid your home free..Good luck with everything Tell me how it goes!!
xOx
Megz
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Ok well i really like my ex i think i love him its just so weird well hes going out with this girl that is really mean and stuff nobody really likes her and i cant tell him how i feel well what i was wondering what can i do to make this feeling of likeing hime or even loving him i mean its kinda weird and i just get sad over stuff and i kinda want to be his girl friend again but i dont know what to do anyone have any advice (link)
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I got like that before.It's really hard to deal with.Umm the best way is probally to tell him how you feel(maybe he'll feel the same way) If he doesn't and he says he loves the other girl just give up on him.If you really loved him you would want him to be happy and you would wait for him:)
I hope I helped!!
xOx
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hi i just got herbies on my penis and i like this gur to do stuff wit me but i am concern that i will grose her out
anonimis (link)
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well before you do whatever you are gonna do..make sure you tell her.She would probally rather know before she finds out.
hope I helped
xOx
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hi...
ok so i have a girlfriend and last year she dumped me...i dont know why but anyways then she asked me back out again and i said ok. now...she is acting weird and acting like she dosnt like me anymore..again. its confusing and i just want to dump her to get it over with. because she isnt talking to me or anything...oh im 13 and i am a girl...yes a girl...
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Umm..If she doesn't like you why staying going out with her? If she doesn't care about you mabey you should find someone else.I hope your ok with this.she might be using you:(
Hope I helped
xOx
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dear megz,
i like this girl and im not sure if she likes me. we went out once n i felt a really good vibe. how should i confront her or work it out with her holla bac.
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Heyy..
Umm just tell her the honest truth about it.Be the stronger person and if she doesn't like you thats probally her loss(then you can move on with your life).Then if she does like you back then you can probally hook up.Well I hope I helped!!
xOx
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ok so my friends mom took some condomes from the hospital ok and then gave them to my friend and then my friend gave one to me i think we should be concerned about my friends mom taking condoms n giving them to her daughter i think she is trying to tell them something but im not quite sure if she gets any more condomes dou want one...
signed your friend
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umm its kinda saying she wants to protect her daughter.i dont think she means anything by it.just means she wants to protect her daughter.hope i helped
xOx
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hi im katie, you don't no me but i have a really bad masturbation problem i play with my vagina all the time n it's starting to hurt me the other day it started to bleed n it wouldnt stop can u please help me
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ok umm masturbating isn't a bad thing.you can do your masturbation but you gotta be careful about cutting yourself.you need to watch what your doing.just watch your nails.be careful.hope i helped
xOx
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I have a problem with my family. I do not know what to do.. My mom is a lesbian and my daddy is pregnat. See my dad is a scientist and he did an experiament all wrong. See he was trying this new artifcial insemination on HIS SELf. I am embaresst to go in public with him because he is pregnant and people are talking. I'm even scared when my friends come over because one time my mom who is a lesbian tried to touch my best friend Emily and I got jealouase that my mom tried to touch her and not me. I really like it when my mom feels my private spots. and my dad likes to touch my moms girlfriends vagina. well please don't tell anybody about my little problem please i beg of you because i like when girls touch me and i like to touch little girls. I also think I need some implants so my mom will like to touch me more. what should I do?
well please HELP!
~Alyssa~
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umm just find a lesbian girl because its sounds like you like girls.umm its kinda wierd that you like when your mom touches you but I'm not gonna stop you guys.you need to find some girls that are your age and arin't younger because that's kinda like gross..no offence.and don't be scared of what people think of your dad.you shouldn't be ashamned of him.hope i helped
xOx
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im i just got my penis chopped off and i wanted to no if i should go with being a girl in that surgery or keep my manhood (link)
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umm it depends on if you wanna be a girl or boy.
hope i helped?
xOx
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this is really kool that you have this advice thingy... so im gunna ask for sum...
ok, wel you kno im goin out wit steve. well hes a good bf and everything, but weneva he like says a girl is hot, like if were watching tv togetha, i dunno, it kinda makes me feel like shite, cuz i feel like im not good enuf even tho i kno thats not wut hes tryin to say... but even still ill feel totally comfortable with myself and then he like says somethin like that(not like he does it all the time) and it makes me feel like shite. am i over reacting?
~KaYlA~
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no your not over reactin..i know how it feelz..i was talkin to stevie the otha day and he was like ohh jessica simpson was hott im like you betta not say that in front of kayla he was like i dont think she will care..but i think you need to tell him that this is brothin you cuz he will stop cuz hez a good friend like that i have known him for like 7 yearz.
soo good luck kayla
xOx
Megz
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im 14 yrs old and im gonna be a freshman and i feel so pathetic for not even makin out with a boy and its starting to bug me and i really want to but guys seem not to really ask me out so i never have the chance to kiss or makeout with guys (link)
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aww that suckz!! who carez if you wanna kiss em kiss em.unless they hate you dont lolz.if you are scared then play some truth or dare that alwayz workz lolz..tell me how it goez..
hope i helped:)
megz
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hey well i cant stand my family and i dont know what to do ive tried to talk to my friends but their no help i get really upset and think about suicide but i dont go through with it cause what if it doesnt work my momz is always either really pissy n hitz me or is sleeping my grandma makes me help her all the time and my step dad scares the shit out of me and i hate him he use to always do drugs and now my grandpa is doing drugs i cant stand it help me please i dont know what to do!!!!!!! (link)
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aww well im very you happii you came to me.i understand that you need to talk about this.you reallii just need to talk about your probz and not hurt yourself.hurtin yourself is not the answer.hurtin yourself is worse than your mom hittin you.is there anyone you can go to in your family..it would help you a lot like a sibling or somethin? i think the answer to this is talk to someone..even if you get in trouble tell your parentz how you feel about everyone
well i hope i helped
megz
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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?! (link)
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yes it might of been your cherry..but he might of also scrached you too.soo be careful wit that
take care of yourself
megz
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Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
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umm just trii and get to know him.dont make him force you into wat you dont wanna do.if you get uncomfy just leave.talk to him and keep his mind off of bad thingz.
hope i helped
megz
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Tryouts for my school's volleyball team start the week before school starts. My mom also works a lot and the only week she has off is that same week, so she planned for our family and her cousin and my cousins to all go to my grandparents lake for that week. I'm in 8th grade, and last year I made B team, so its not like volleyball is all I do. I also go to the lake every year, so its not like I'll never be there again... and if I miss tryouts I can't play at all. Should I go on vacation or stay and play volleyball???? (link)
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i think you should stay wit your family for the vacation.and also ask the coach if you can try out like a couple dayz in advance(you could trii it you neva know)
good luck wit your choice.hope i helped
megz
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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes himm should I tell her that I am goin out with him or not
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Yea you should before she findz out for herself.Then she will get all mad if you dont tell her before she findz out.
hope i helped
megz
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what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)(i dont want to do it, but i want to do more than just make out)???
and if you want to tell me how,(ive never really done anything) that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is
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ohh this one is pretty easy.closer to makin out is hand job..when you move your hand on the guyz dick.fingering when he fingerz your "hole".the next step closer to sex is blow job is when you put his dick in your mouth and move your head.eatin out is when he lickz all inside your virgina.
hope i helped
megz
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