hey meg, its kayla. me and stevie have a good relationship and everything but ever since ive been goin out with him, ive been changing...i kinda changed when i first started goin out wit him because i felt like i had to be something im not for him to like me more or something.and now i realize that i dont need to do that, but its kinda already too late because i feel like im stuck like that now... like im kinda shy and quiet and im not outgoin or fun like i used to be, and i feel like i cant make any one laugh ne more. i feel like im the one that needs to be entertained, and i used to be one of the entertainers. i dont kno. my relationships with my friends are gettin worse because now ive changed.. and not for the better. its really hard for me to go back to the way i was befor.i mean im sure i could, but its gunna take some time.i feel like i cant be the one to make stevie happy and make him laugh. it sux. but i still do really care for him. i dont wanna dump him. but i feel like by not dumping him, im holdin him back.i love him. would it be a good idea to tell him that we should take a lil brake till next summa? cuz its not like im gunna see him that much till then any ways. and then if we both still like eachother, maybe we could pick up wher we left off? by then, im sure ill be my old self again... is that wut i should do? pleez help me. and dont tell stevie any of this pleez. thanks meg.
kayla
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? notmissperfect7 answered Monday September 12 2005, 4:48 pm: Heyy Chica..Okay it seems that you care for Stevie but you wanna take some time so it doesn't hurt him.Yea dating over the winter is going to be hard..But I'm gonna try it with Tyler.And I might do what your gonna do.Kayla knowing Stevie he will like you next year unless he takes this really hard.But make sure if you do brake up with him..Still be friends or it might not work.Me Steve and Charlie use to be like best friends now they like hate me but okay.I'm gonna start calling him every night and seeing how his day goes so you gotta tell me the day before you do it.Kayla I can tell you just need sometime alone so take it.Stevie will probally understand.
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