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I'm neonfizz, a grade eight girl fron Canada. I like sports! Isn't that special;). Anyways, my friends say I'm good at giving advice...so, here I am! I can relate to a lot of problems so don't hesitate to ask.
E-mail: canadian_girl1867@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Crazed Elephant
Age: 13
MSN: canadian_girl1867
Member Since: October 17, 2003
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Last Update: July 2, 2004
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I am thinking of going to france, but I don't know french. I've heard french people are really mean about stuff like that. If my french isn't that good, will they be really mean to me? (link)
For 'Je suis(country here)' you'd have to put the en on the end, like Americen. And i'm guessing by 'je ne compamp pas' you're meaning to say 'je ne comprend pas' which means I don't understand. Sorry. i just HAD to say that. Anyways, i've been to france and they're not bad ust don't try to talk french if you can't cu that bugs some people.


how can i convince my friends to help me move? should i offer food? entertainment? a "i'll help you move" coupon? when's a good time to ask this sort of thing? i'm trying to borrow their trucks too, so i need to do some major sucking up here :) (link)
Tell them that after you've moved into yuor new place, you'll invite them over for pizza and take them soemwhere. You could also give tem chocolate after they help. Those things normally work. With the trucks, you might need to do more...try promising to pay for gas and shake with them you'll pay if any damage is caused.


I own all this awesome modern purple furniture, but my realitor just showed me a house decorated in traditional hunter green. Think I'll be able to make it work, or should I not even think about it? I can't afford to have carpets and wallpaper replaced, but I really like this house. (link)
Go for it. As already said, slipcovers cover all sins. You could accent it with neutral colours that even out the colour contrast. Also, you could choose the room that's bugging you the most after moving in and get it redone on adecorating show for free. The last option's not very realistic but it's worth a try.


no one visits my website. i submitted it to the search engines and everything, and I think it's pretty good content-wise. any ideas on how I can get more visitors? (link)
Well...if you could post a link to it, we could help you figure out what's wrong with it. I can't help if I know nothing about the site.


I really like this guy. He has a great sense of humor and makes me laugh all the time and he is one of those "nice guys". He could go out with any girl and I just don't see how I would be good enough for him, but he flirts with me all the time. I know that that doesn't have to mean anyhing but I'm comfused. How do you tell if he is interested?
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Well... you could start playing truth or dare in the middle of class with a bunch of friends and ask him who he likes. Or you could just ask him out. Either way works.


What happens if you put this side up face down while popping microwave popcorn? (link)
It explodes. One time, me and my cousin were the only people home and we were baking a cakeand we put the butter(in the foily stuff) in the microwave to warm it up a bit because it was rock hard. We left for a bit, came back and the butter was on fire. It was a prettyb ig fire. We both stood there stunned and then I ran to the sink, filled a cup with water and threw it in the microwave. Sadly, we didn't get to bake that cake because the butter was gone. :(


Why aren't you married yet? (link)
Because I'm only 13. Why aren't you married? That's right!You:)


What's a good way to meet new people? (link)
Well, don't just go up to people and say 'Hi, I'm ___ but you can call me ___" A girl did that to be once. I thought she was insane. Just start talking to people, get to know them and once you know them, ask them to do something with you. Don't be over friendly. That's my main piece of advice.


i normally get my period every 21 days like clock work. I was supposed to have it 4 days ago and haven't gotten it yet. I'm really worried that something is going on. To be possibly pregnant right know would not be good. My parents would not take it well at all. Me either actually. I don't feel any different,except no period. Tell me what you think? (link)
Wait a few more days. Have you had sex with someone recently? Itmight be that. It might just be late. So, wait longer and if it doesn't come, get a pregnancy test and hope for the best.


I have to drink coffee every day to survive. I don't drink a ton of it, probably two cups a day in the morning. My friends and I used to have a day we'd call "detox thursday" where we wouldn't drink coffee all day, but I was starting to hate detox thursdays because I felt tired and grumpy all day so I quit doing it with them. Does this mean I'm addicted? Is coffee really that bad for me? It's way better than soda, right? (link)
WEll, you could say it's bad for you. BE careful, if you're trying to break the habit, don't get hooked on juice. When i was little, Ih ad a bladder infection problem and had to have a few operations. MY dad heard that drinking a glass of cranberry juice could help so i had to drink it everymorning with breakfast. Now, I can't go a morning without it and I have to have a glass every day after school. So just slowly lessen the amount of coffeeyou drink, even if you only get rid of 50ml per week Steady gradual pace of stopping and you should be fine.


how do you do corn rolls lol (link)
Learn to French braid. Do a bunch of tiny french braids on your head.


Should I dust my room when I can see cobwebs all over...well..everything? (link)
Better than that...take a broom and sweep it all outside. And make sure you take all the spiers with you.


When you work out and get sore muscles, what helps more, ice or heat? (link)
A hot bath with jacuzzi jets. That's what I use. A week ago, I pulled a muscle in my leg at a dance competition. My friend's mom works in Emergency and this is what she said to me at the competition: Ice on for 15, off for 15, one for 15etc.. when you get back to your hotel, ice on for 15 min, in the hut tub for 10 minutes nothing for 5, ice on for 15 etc...Hope that helps!


What's the best kind of peanut butter? (link)
Adam's creamy. I love it. At least...I think it's Adam, whatever one ha the squirrel on it.


ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
Well,how are old are you? i'm 13 and not allowed to date or dance with guys but I do anyways. Is your sister younger or older than you? is she allowed to dance with guys? If she isn't and you see her dancing you could tell her you won't tell your dad if you can dance without her telling your dad on you. If not, you could, just not dance with someone. Heck, i went to a dance last night and only danced one out of like 10 slow dances with a guy. The other ones me and my friends fake danced with each other and went and saw who was dancing with who. You don't have o dance with a guy to have fun.


I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"

Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough. (link)
Life goes on. I'm only in grade eight but one of my close friends is now going to a different school in order to take fine arts. We don't see each other much but wen we do, everyone's always happy to see her and no one complains to her about never seeing us being busy with new friends. Your friends should be glad that you're able and willing to come home once a month and shouldn't waste their time with you guilting you. Tell them that.


Okay, so i REALLY like this guy. But I don't think he would like me back. I'm in 8th grade and i've never gone on a date or "gone out" with anyone before. If I asked out any guy in the school they'd probably rush me to the hospital or ask me if I was joking. I dunno, maybe i just have low self esteem. But the guy I like is pretty quiet and really smart. Please don't tell me to just go for it, cause if he said no, it would haunt me forever!! (i'm sort of a drama queen. shut up.) So I guess my question is: How can you tell if a guy likes you/would go out with you without actually asking him? (link)
Well, what I did was send my friends out when seomthing like this happened to me. My friend made a deal with him that she would tell him who she liked if he told her who he liked. He ended up liking me. But, this plan normally only works if your friend is friends with the guy you like because most guys wouldn't make deals like that with a stranger.




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