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Im never out on weekends and i never haave anything to do. My sister and mom always go out with friends and everyone from school already has plans. (link)
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you should make plans with the people at schol ahaid of time.. maybe that will work or make plans with your mom or sister
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Okay. I used to go to private skool 2 years ago. Me and this guy really liked eachother and we went to the skool dance together. I now go to public skool and I like this guy. The guy from private skool sent me an email today saying that he truly likes me. But
I think the guy from the public skool likes me too. Which one should I choose?
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well if i was you i would choose the one i liked more.. but if you dont like that idea then go for the one that you would see alot or something. umm i think you should just go with the one you like better.. and you dont know if the guy frm public school even likes you.. soo i dont know what to say.. follow your heart and pick the one you like the most!!!!!
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Ok i like this boy but hes taken...and i flirt with him alot and he flirts back, but in the past there has been a huge conflict of when this girl name umm susie flirted with him and there enemies..and the boy i like gf is one of my friends that and we talk about how susie always flirts and stuff ..should i still flirt with him and jeaporidze mi friendship or stop flirtng? (link)
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well you should tell your friend that you like him maybe! maybe she wont mind.. but i think she would mind if you were flirting with him because then he would be flirting back.. soo i would say try and not flirt with him as much because guys go but friends stay longer... soo thats what i would do in this situation.. i.m me if you need anything or just want to talk jilliix3
xOx jiLl
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so there is this guy i have went out with 3 times and now we are best friends. i have not liked him for a really long time, but we were at a party the other night and he was all over me! i am pretty sure he doesn't like me, but i like him! what do i do?? (link)
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if he was all over you maybe he does like you.. ask him on aim or yahoo or what ever you have.. or have your friend ask him or in school write him a note.. i think that would work thats wut i would do hope i helped xOx jiLl
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An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>? (link)
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hmm put it under cold water not hot haha you know why or use ice of an ice pack.. and if your mom or dad is home tell them they might have some other ideas xOx jiLl
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Since September, I have been friends with a girl, we are both 13. I really like her but I am very worried about her. Before she came to our school, her Step-Father, she hasn't seen her biological father in 10 years, threw her, her Mother and her sister out of their house and they had to move back here.
Since then, she has been cutting her wrists and talking about how she wants to kill herself. Recently, she has started taking paracetemol everyday because she says that she gets headaches and feels ill if she doesn't have any. She used to smoke and I know she still has cigarettes at her home in case she needs them, I'm worried she might start again.
She hates her Mother and yesterday she told me that her Mother is moving to another city and leaving her and her sister, who is 14, behind. I can't tell anyone because if I do, my friend will be put in care and she will never forgive me. No one else knows about all this except me and I am so worried about her.
I don't know what I can do to help her, I am going through a difficult situation myself and I'm so wrapped with it that I don't know how to cope with my friend as well. I have tried talking to her and telling her to get help but she wont and there is no way I can make her. I don't know what to do, I can't tell anyone and she wont get help. I'm so scared that one day she really will kill herself, she's threatened to so many times. What should I do? (link)
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usually when someone tells you and only you that they are going to kill them selves they want you to get them help!! so i think you should go ahaid and get her some help i think she might get mad at first but she will see how much it helped.. and the whole moveing i think you should ask your mom or dad if by any chance they could stay with you.. or look up on the internet foster homes and see if there are any near you because in my town i know of a couple and you could ask if she could go there or stay with you. you really need to do something because if she does kill herself you will never forgive yourself for not saying anything to anyone
i.m me if u need anything jilliix3
xOx jiLl
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I really needed condoms, my boyfriend didn't have any. I didn't feel like going to the store to get some, so I took some from my brother's room. I think he noticed because he asked me about it, what do I do? (link)
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if you can trust him.. tell him but if he will tell your parents then deff dont tell him anything xOx jiLl
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does anyone now how to get a boy to like a girl (link)
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well you cant make a boy like a girl.. you have to be connected with that girl.. you have to feel something to like a girl.. like if shes pretty or smart or funny and that makes you have butterflys when your around her then you like her but you cant make someone like someone xOxjiLl
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im in my upper 30 so it is not like im a teen my boyfriend that i live with is not giving me what i need (passion) tried everything well that is except cheating on him to get what i need my problem is if i get caught he will leave me or throw me out i want to have all the passion but i dont wanna get thrown out for it what should i do i have not had it for 4 yrs (link)
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well if all you want is ((passion)) then leave him but if you truley love him you want just want to be with him for passion and sex. tell him how you feel.. and tell him what he does wrong or if you dont feel anything when you have sex like no love or anything leave him becuase then you are being with someone you dont actually love xOx jiLl
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Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not?? (link)
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just maybe tell him you need a break or dont be best friends any more just be friends not to close.. maybe that will work but i wouldnt end the friendship over that id just take a break from each other for a while xOx jiLl
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I have 2 bestfriends that are guys and I told one of them that i liked him(which i now regret) lets call him john ok well now he is ignoring me and i told him i didnt want him too but he is.and my other bestfriend lets call him dave me and him have a past well dave and john are really close they tell each other everything and now that i like john he feels odd and i feel horrible bout this should i tell dave or just let things go with them... thank on adv. (link)
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well if u can trust that dave wont tell john then yeh.. but if dave will tell him everything you talked about then know because then maybe john will get dave to hate you to.. then down the drain that goes.. maybe john liked you and hes to imbarraresed to tell you xOx jiLl
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i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help (link)
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deffenetly go tell an adult asap.. and help her and ask her why she wants to do this!! and i dont understand thats eatting thing but oh well umm soo yeh jus go tell an adult that will get ur friend help xOx jiLl
well what IIIIII would do is deff tell my mom.. i have a great relationship with her!!!!!!! or i would tell an adult that im close with i dont know who that would be but i would deffenetly tell my mom!! i.m me jilliix3
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The problem lies in these lines...
"Aria, Optima
Anorexia, Bulimia"
I have an ex who is bi-polar, suicidal and anorexic. I've been waiting for her to come out of the hospital for months. Should I move on? (link)
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well you could maybe move on to another girl for now but dont just wait for her because you are hurting you too!! i see she needs alot of help soo it could be probably up to a year in the hospital hope i helped xOx jiLl
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I usually dont show my legs or clevage because i have very dark hair and even when i shave black dots remain.my clevage has very very dark hair even though it is not alot, it is visible because it is so dark.i dont know what to do.i want to dress very sexy but i feel very limited because of the dark hair on my back, stomach and clevage area. ive waxed them but they just grow back and waxing hurts alot. please help. (link)
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i would bleach your hair!!!!!! deffenetly xOx jiLl
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okay crazy hair day is friday and i dont kno wut to do i am a guy and my bangs are past my nose and my hair goes to the bottom of my neck and is about 5inches long wut shud i do with it besides spiking it? (link)
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maybe corn rows or a french braid type of thing.. or just all different braids comming off your head.. um i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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hey i am going to formal soon and i got a dress and its really long down to the floor and stuff but soo pretty. and so then i find out everyone is wearing like shorter drsses like to their shins but mien is past the floor so wat do i do? i dont wanna be over dressed but i love this dress... wat wud u do (link)
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well if you want you can bring it in to a dress place and ask if they can cut it or something or if you want to keep it long have other friends wear long ones too xOx jiLl
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My "friend" not too many people like,and so sometimes its embarasing to be around her.Shes not a geek or something like that.Shes just annoying,rude and imatture.She always is using me on our homework to.I dont want to be her frined any more and ive told her how rude shes being,and she just comes up with lame comebacks.Shes not getting the hint,and shes obsessed with me.How do i get rid of her,or at least get her to back off without hurting her? (link)
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tell her that you dont want her to use you on your hw!! and just maybe ignore her or something i know that sounds mean but it usually works or tell her that you dont want her to use you like that and that she needs to change or your not friends any more!! xOx jiLl
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Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
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well if shes not a hoe then shes not haha umm they are just jelious that they cant be her and they are probably jelious that you are getting to be her friend xOx jiLl
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Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks (link)
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well that happens when people die they keep the sadness inside of them and they act like it doesnt matter!! or maybe her grandmother was a very mean woman and was cruel.. give her time and be there for her!! umm i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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i really hate my dad.
no, really.
i sincerely dislike the man.
i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.
i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.
he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.
my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."
he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.
but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.
i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.
i cant stand this anymore.
i want out.
due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).
when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.
i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.
i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.
i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?
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well what i would do is not yell ((i probably would but id try not to)) and maybe just say the computer makes me feel better and i do other things then just use the comp.. but your not here to see them!! umm im not saying this in a mean way but does he drink or something i dont know because my dad used to and he was like that!! hed flipp for no reason it seems like we have alot in common with our lives. i know this isnt about me but maybe my problems can help you with yours.. umm if u want i.m me at jilliix3
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