I met a guy at a school basketball game back in High school my senior year he had just gotten over a realationship with my friend but were still super close and he was visiting. He asked me to join him for lunch. So I did. We went on a walk and talked. I fell in love with him and learned a lot just that one day but that wwas 3 years ago. I met him again today and we ice skated he made me laugh and fell for him again. He visits his family here every year and he is visiting here. I've been seeing him tis whole week. We went to the zoo. I am a 19 year old model who travels the state my Dad being a Baseball hitting coach and everything I don't get much freedom. I wanna enjoy life as it is. He makes me happy. Anyways I have a photo shoot and it just so happens to be where he lives and all the way across the world. He asked me to stay with him and I agreed knowing i would be in trouble bit it's my life, right?Only for a month but i want longer. My friend dated him back in high school junior year. He's a good guy with a good history. So my question is: should I really spend a month with him? Do uthink he's not gonna be harmful? Im a virgin and i plan to stay that way till im married. Mean while this is big ... 2 years ago I was about to get married (yes at 17) because my parents wanted me to so when the wedding came i rejected and feel super guilty. U only live once.
What do u thonk my life is gonna turn up like? Should I stay or reject. What if he asks me to marry him(btw im talkin about the 1st guy now) i have only met him in person 10 times and when not we chat through facebook. I love my career but he's more important. Help. How do I do this?
i no this sounds corny but folow your heart. if you trust him and trust your judgement stay with him, if you love him and he asks then i'm sure you'll know what you want to say.
if you trust him but just think he might be expectting more than your willing to give why not explane wantting to save your verginitty till after maridge.
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Is the grass greener in the other side ?? It's hard to stay how many of you would leave someone you have been with for a 5 years for someone you have been with for 4-5 months and are madly in love with. The reason for the infadelity / affair is the way I was treated but if that person has changed should I
Still leave ? My boyfriend went from not caring and being like a roommate to being now madly in love with me - us it worth giving him another chance? Do I owe him another
Chance after 5 long years ??
the question you should be asking is do you still love him? if the man your with at the moment loves you that's grate if you love him but if not... well a relationship wont work if only one of you are in love. the other question you should ask your self is if you do stay with this guy would he forgive you for cheatting on him? because a relationship bilt on a foundation of lies is no relationship at all.
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I am 13 and I'm going to be 14 in a few days. I am 5' 1 1/2" and about 90lbs. I have a 34B bra size and I was wondering if this was normal or small or big. My mom and my aunts say that I got the "big boob" gene and my boyfriend and my friends all say that I have big boobs for being so peteit and skinny. Is this true? Thanks!!!!!!
evrry one is a diffrent shape and sise to evry one elce. by the sounds of it though yes, your brests are larger than avridge for your age hight and wait.
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17/f. I have been straightening my hair for about 3 or so years but lately I've been straightening it every 3 or 4 days with occasional touch ups to my bangs, I have trampoline thick wavy hair and the only way it looks nice, is if it's straightened but I can't help but notice the gross smell of burnt I always have in my hair! Even when I get out of the shower, and I've just washed it, the back lower layers seem to smell the worst! How do I get the smell out? & I don't want a temporary fix like perfume, I really wanna get it out asap! I know one of the things guys love most is nice smelling hair! Help if you can :)
unforchenately i don't think the smell will go away just like that. i'd advise useing a sented shampoo for dry and damiged hair. this should healp in time. if it's not alreddy i'd say get your hair layered, you mite fined you haveto straten it less if your hair is layered and u use hair products such as a frizz eaze oil. marocun oil is really good but a bit on the pricie sied so you could shop around for a cheaper alternitive. i use 2 products alternetly and it works grate. if you want to keap straitting your hair try a sented heat protection spray and try to let your hair dry naturally before useing your tongs.
hope it helps.
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My boyfriend is 30 and I'm 23. We've been dating for almost 3 years now and have been living with each other for a year. In the beginning of our relationship we would have sex all the time. Usually 1-2 times a day. Now we have sex maybe once a week, if that, and I'm the one who initiates it. Just recently he started turning me down more and more. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. He's making me feel unloved & unattractive. Is there a way to increase his sex drive? I don't want to have to beg him for sex...
you should neber beg for sex, it should be something entered in to by two loveing eaquely inthuseastick parners. mabie your other half neads a littel more spice to your sex life. why not talk to him about it.
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We are both 13 and the oldest one is 15 he has a tatoo.while I was in school today 2 boys from my class approached me. The 13 year old boy pulled my hair all the way down. Then the 15 year old boy open my legs and started to rud my pussy. The other said hell yea and with one hand he pulled my hair back and with the other one he did the same as the 15 year old boy rud my pussy.15 year old with one hand ruded my pussy and with his other hand he ruded my legs up and down.This was during ElA class. They both whispered in my ears I want to do you. They stoped when my friend came in and said get the fuck off her.then they said I know where u live.Now what should I do about this. P.s. I like both of then so I liked it a little.what should I do I do not want to get them in trouble because I like them both.so what should I do. Can people please help me with this problem.
you might not want to get the boys in trubble but what they did was rong and you should report it, you could get your frend that stopped them to come with you for surport. you don't mention if you were in plane vew of your teacher but weather you were or not she/he should of been paying atention anuff to stop that. the falear to do so classes as negligence. because of this your teacher should be talked to. why not report what the boys did and how your teacher failed to react to your prinsiple.
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I'm a 17 year old girl and I want to squirt. I know it sounds really stupid but seriously, I really like this guy and I want to do anything to make him love me /: I'm a virgin..does that make a difference? I also want to know how I can get a hair free vagina. help meee /:
not being abel to squert is moastly because a girl feals self conchuss about it. you shouldn't have to do it to make your boyfrend like you but if you do want to do it the best way to acheave it is intenss klitarel stimyulation. being a vergin or not makes no difrence. just remember relax and don't try too hard.
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so my boyfriend has been saying his bidy has been hurting, but the weird thing is that he onlys feels like this when hes at home or around his parents. He says him stomach hurts, his body aches, feels like he's going to throw up, and that it feels like he was to go #2 all the time but he doesn't. then when hes arouond me hes perfectly fine. i dont know whats wronge with him but i feel really bad and i want to help him. he also says that his heart hurts and sometimes the area around it hurts, if you have any ideas about why people tell me. thanks
if your boyfrend is only fealling pain around some people it is moast lightly that the pain is psychosamatic. this means that the pain isn't physical but has something to do with his thoughts fealings or subconchuss. sometimes things such as that manifest them selves as a physical pain.
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this girl i met 4 months. we talk everyday and i think im getting feelings for her. altough shes bestfriends with my ex girlfriend that now is my friend.
when we talked on the phone last night she told me "TE AMO" (i love you) and i got goosebumps i dont knwo how to explain this feeling or what em i having.
iwould like to know why i got goosebumps.
thankyou im 18 and shes 15
:d it sounds to me like you like her maby more than you've admitted to your self. why not tell her about the goosbumps next time you speak? if you and your x are now just frends she shouldn't mined you and this other girl startting a relationship.
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i am just fed up with my life...
i want my parter to realise my value and the only way for this is to leave him which is ultimately very difficult for me if i remain alive so tell me what can i do???
the only thing i can think is of suicide.
i can't advise u on how to end your life but i can advise you. you nead to seak help. your doctor can refur you for councelling or if thats dificult their are a number of councelling survises on the web. i really hope this helps.
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Yep, I got a question about staying fresh... down there. How embarrassing right??! But seriously, I need your help. Anything at all you know will help.
23 female btw.
So... even after I shower or clean myself up down there, by the end of the day I just dont smell fresh anymore. Its not a terrible smell but it's not good and it is obvious.
I hate that when I'm around my friends... or anyone really...and I have to just sit there with my legs as close together as possible and its not very fun when my friends wanna goof off or dance or something and I cant because Ill have to open my legs. But the smell usually seeps through my jeans, shorts, sweats... whatever I am wearing.
I know its gross. Please stay with me.
I change my panties all the time but it doesn't help either. I'm skinny (115pounds)so I know thats not an issue. I dont have the gap between my thighs tho... could that be a problem?
I get wet really, really easy. Which is probably a big part of the problem... Ive tried to wear panty liners or tampons so that it catches everything and it will work occasionally... but still not permanently.
I don't have periods becuase I have a mirena. Could the mirena have anything to do with this?
I sweat a lot. Well I mean, I dont handle heat well. I am generally always cold so if I get warm even a little bit I tend to sweat... is that a huge factor? But how do you fix sweating?
Its also not just my area. My whole body seems to have a natural unpretty odor. How can I just smell good?
Please help. I know its gross but thats why I need help!!!
beleave it or not many women smell less than plezent doun there by the end of a day. people notice their own sent more than otheres as they are self conchous about it. your exsesive sweating sounds like you have something called over active apeocrine glands but i would nead to know your genrel diat to be more sure and give you advice on overcomeing it.
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I was just woken up by a very werd dream about this guy in my class.I am 13 and so is he.he is always whispering in my ears "Me and you tonight during class."Well yestared he tolled me that he had a desire for me and I had a desire for him. I said no and he said we could use a condum if I wanted.During a video about birth in science class.well I just had a dream that I was pregant with his baby.I love this boy but I am afaid that he only wants to have sex with me. Or get me pregant.Do you think he likes me and wants me to get pregant with his baby.I am confused can people help me.please.
it's perfectly normal for someone of your age weather they're a boy or girl to have disiers for the opersit sex. also to become atracted to their personality. however 13 is to yung to have inticorce. your boddy isn't reddy to hold a child and your vagina is narower and not yet fully divelopt. it doesn't sound to me like you're in a relationship with this boy and it's never a good idear to have sex with someone casularly. you've got a long time yet to fined love and have children. when you do fined love the person wont just want sex.
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Just recently, I started letting my nails grow out past my fingers. I accidentally pressed down on my nail and the nail bent. I also noticed that all of my nails do that and it sometimes causes them to break. Is this normal? And is there anything I can to prevent it?
it's normel for a nale to bend if you put presher on them but to strengthen them like the anser before this says eat plentty of fruit and vedge as well as some dairry. there's products you can buy at a lot of cosmetic stors that are ment to strengthen your nales.
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My last menstrual cycle was november 18, 2011. I gave not got anything yet but today I saw white, yellowish, hard creamy discharge on my underwear. My cycle is crazy. October 4 I had my period then I had sex oct 12 without protection so I dunno if im having hormonal balance or is it really pregnancy? I have also experience spotting. Please let me know. Thanks
noone who reads this could tell if you're pregnant. the only way to no for sure is to take eather a home test or go to your doctors for a test. but don't worry too much because women from the age they start to menstirate till they have had a child can hav a uneaven menstiration patten. though i say don't worry the sooner u fined out for sure the sooner u can choose what to do next
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I'm a junior in highschool, during the school week I take my best friend Jessica to school and home ai dont charge her gas money. At the beginning of the school year we would hang out on weekends and basically every chance we got so I didn't mind giving her a free ride. but, recently she has only talked to me when it's convenient for her. She doesn't text me on weekends, like i'll text her on friday and ask if she wants to hang out and she'll never reply but then she'll reply to my text messages that involve her getting to school that following monday. Right now, where on christmas break I haven't hung out with her once! i've texted her so many times and she doesn't reply, i'll get on twitter and see her tweets. If thats not being used, then I don't know what used is. When we go back to school, I want to tell her either you give me gas money or no ride for you, but I don't want to be harsh about it. I've been thinking this through and I honestly dont want to give her a ride period but since we have the same first period and the same last period it's kind of hard to get out of that. How can I tell her from now on I want gas money without being rude? and how can I confront her about how I am tired of her using me again without being rude?
she doesn't sound like a best frend to me. as i always say try talking to her but if that doesn't work you've got to think about what's best for you. tell her how u feal. that u feal used and like she doesn't want to b frends with u for u. sometimes we've just got to pore out our hearts and hope for the best but if we don't let people know how we feal they wont change the way they act and we'll go on fealling rotten.
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i have a couple of friends who hang out with this guy i like they know i like him i feel jealous and hurt cuz they have a lot of fun with him and he talks to them and pays more attention than he does to me theres nothing romantic going on but still they get to hang out with him and i dont and im the one that likes him what do i do?
it can b hard for people to see the person they are atracted to spendding time with their frends but those feallings aren't nesaserry. it's posible that the feallings u hav for this boy afect how u behave around him and that's y he's not as relaxed around u.
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Can you get pregnent if he cums in your ass with out pulling sperm
spurm must penatrate a egg for u to get pregnant. the only way for this to happen is for the spurm to travel through the fulopean tubes wich are entered through your vagina. however anal sex can still transmit std's and there is a higher risk of bacteareal infections so it is advisable to use a condon wen haveing anal and aural sex as well as vaginal sex
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I'm having a hard time deciding wether or not my boyfriend is too controlling or if I'm my own worst enemy causing my problems. The problem is that I'm torn. On one hand, y boyfriend is super sweet, he's a stand up guy - one of the few, and I trust and love him. On the other, he's got a very strong personality and has non violent anger issues - his words not mine. He gets mad and annoyed over every little thing. It was never directed at me at first but after the first few months it started and now I feel like I'm always doing things so delicately, trying not to annoy him. And even when he misinterprets situations and gets annoyed with me for no reason, he never apologizes because he thinks he is always right. That's how he is and to me those are signs of a controlling person. He's very smart but dare I ever disagree or say something that he doesn't think is smart, he won't fail to point it out and make me feel bad. Again, not good.
Bu then returning to the good stuff he is sweet and does nice things for me and treats me well. Just that I want to go out and I like to dance and he doesn't anymore even though he did when we met and he repeats that he goes for me he continues to see friends and so social things for me but then when we do go he gets bored/mad and even though there's a reason for it (he has back issues and is in pain) it jus ends up putting me down. But then when I go without him with his friends it bothers him too even though he rarely admits it because he says that he was once able to do those things too but now he just can't anymore. We are both 20 and too young to stop having funbut he acts like he is 28. I don't know what to do because I loved him from way before he was like this and now I have this guy that swears were going to end up together and is amazing to me except for the fact that I am always tryi g to please him because his anger is inappropriate... Advice?
people often get short tempered with the ones they love. however it can be really hard for the people on the reseaving end of a bad temper. from what you have sed i don't think the situation is your fault. i surgest sitting doun with him and talking about how u both feal. if he starts makeing you unhappy it may b time to considder if the relationship is rite for u boath
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Okay so im writting a story where the main characters have a child. He is a little boy and i cant seem to name him. So does anyone have any suggestions.
The name has to have:
- four part (first, two middles, last)
- one of the middle names has to be celeste
- and the last name is richards
Id prefer a long first name but anything works. THANKS!!!
benvoleo (ben for short) anton selis richards
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16 f
Haven't had sex.. >.<
Well, I don't know what the problem is, but it seems like it's always sore in the back of my vagina, almost to my bottom. I guess the part that may be difficult to clean sometimes? I don't know how to describe it..well.
It sometimes get's really irritated back there, and I have no clue why. It doesn't really burn it's just uncomfortable. My mother's a nurse and she tends to have problems with yeast..and I believe I've had that to..but I use the cream for it like she says.. it does help, but not always. It doesn't really itch, it's just slightly irritated.
I do shave down there, but I don't shave completely everything. I think it could be that when it the hair grows back in, it could irritate it? I'm not quite sure..but I'm getting tired of it.
I don't think I need to go to the doctor, I feel fine. I have my periods & nothing really bothers me.. I'm not sexually active. ;3 I don't know if I don't clean well enough or not? I try my best to.. I'm a germaphobe like my mom. haha
Could this be a real problem? My mom hasn't felt I should get checked out, and I really wouldn't like to go.. DX I hate my doctor.
Does anyone have the same problem? What could I do to clear this up? Any ideas?
Thank you :S!
it may well b the hair growing back. it's just like on your legs wen the hair grows back and is prickaly but of corce it's a lot more sensitive on and around your vagina. why not try not shaveing for a wile and seeing if the irritation fades. if not the doctor might be a good idear. in moast surgerrys if you request to c a difrent doctor in advance it can b aranged.
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