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Hey! Okay my i've been reallly upset lately because I have a crush on this boy named Jason and he likes my best friend, Gina. All the guys like her and it really sucks for me because Jason is the ONLY boy I like, and I like him so much. Well, i'll say to Gina you're so lucky the one person I like likes you, and she says haha. She doesn't even try to make me feel better about it. I also see him hugging her all the time and it makes me upset, and when we all hang out he doesn't pay attention to me because Ginas always there. I'll also invite Gina over and she'll say "Oh well this person asked me to hang out first so I can't." She does that to me and my two other best friends alot (who are also her best friends). Shes also inviting this one girl everywhere we go and this girl is cool and everything but it's just annoying because I miss just me, Gina, Carly, and Sarah [ our other two best friends ] always haning out, but we can't do that anymore because all these boys come whenever we invite Gina since they all like her. I also get in alot of fights with Gina because she acts like shes the queen. What should I do?! Gina is really annoying me lately but I don't want anything to come between our friendship because i've been friends with her since first grade! [ I'm 14 by the way ]. Don't say talk to her about it because that never works. Thanks!

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i hate to say it but thats the only way you can get across to anyone realy tell it how it is to her dont twist the story to be nice just tell it how you feel you should talk to your other friends at the same time and maybe you will all agree but you have to rtake note that you have probly ganged as well every one dose and if your friendship means the same to her as it means to you then shell help make time for you and your friends. me and my friends have a day of the wekk were every tusedays after school we all (girls)go to get a coffie or milkshake together and we dont bring any boys and no matter what we dont miss out on it unless its real important you should organise somthing like that with your friends and open up to your friends about every thing it helps if you talk to them.
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okay at the tip of my boobs like where A baby sucks from them I sometimes get stuff there (I dont know what to call it) I quess skin its like I can pick at it and it comes off I just truly dont know what the deal is and what it even is and if it's normal so someone please tell me its so hard to explain?
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its hard to give you advice on weatha its normal go see a doctor it may be serious or it may not


okay theres this guy and my friend has known him for a while well one weeekend i went out with him and my friend that he was supposed to hook up with but it didnt work out so we started talking and the later on he told me he had feelings for me and i told him the same and we have cute lil names for each other and he tells my friend to tell me that he misses me and stuff well he went to some party the other night and the next day i talked to him and asked him about it and he said he didnt go with a date or anything like that and he was trying to prove to me that he did nothing well today some girl he met told me they did stuff and he did stuff with other girls so idk what to do were not together so should i care or let it go please help!!

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i say talk to him about it these girls maybe streaching the truth. theres realy not munch you can do because you arnt to gether but it herts still you should look at what he means to you and how he feels about you plus there is no restricton if you arbnt together maybe he just dosent know how you feel talk to him and deside whats going to happen because its unfear on you if he dose this you etha have to be together or move on good luck hope it all goes well
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Does anybody know anything about Julius Caeser. Cuz i have question on my worksheet and it says why do you think the book is called Julius Caeser and not Brutus Cassius sense he is the tragic hero in the story. (link)
may you should ask somone else on this one because im not quite shore but im shore the must be a reason for it somthings just happen and there is no ansow
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me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!! (link)
you need to ask your self the same queston do you rrealy want to do this with him. all realatonships end for a reason or we just grow apart think about why you broke up and how is getting back to gether going to help u?maybe you should talk to him about ti you may think you like him alot or it just could be you miss being with him ether way you need to think abpout what you want and wether its the right thing for you good luck.
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Alright so heres the whole story. 2 years ago there was this guy that just moved to our town in like- april. I liked him sooo much the DAY he got here. He was cute and just so sweet. Well, i'm a twin and my twin didn't really like him so i never really told her that i liked him. But he wasn't in any of my classes so i never got to talk to him much execept outside of school or in the hallways. But my twin was in ALL of his classes, and since he was new her math teacher paired her up with him when we had to get with parterns or something. They got really close. And he started to like my sister. A couple of days later he asked her out and of course she said yes! I was crushed. I still really liked him a lot. i never talked to her about it. but they broke up like 3 months later because he liked someone else. He sorta cheated on her with this other girl my sister hates now. My sister and him don't even talk to each other anymore. BUt me and him are really close. Well, we were last year. I can tell my sister hates it whenever she sees me talking to him. One day after school my sister told me that he called her my name. He thought that i was her and started to sit next to her. She told him it was her and i could tell he felt really embarassed. I still like him a lot. I can't help it. He always can make me laugh and he is the hottest guy i ever met in person. My twin isnt only my sister, she's my best friend. He is always on my mind and but i feel that im betraying my sister. And the worst new yet, is he's moving at teh end of this year! and i never had my chance, i no he will never like me and i don't even have a chance but i cant stop dreaming about him and thinking about him. All i hear is his name in the hallways. But now he doesn't even talk to me. Since school just started. We used to be so close i dont no why. I really need help!


By the way: i already told her that i liked him and stuff like that- she seemed kinda upset but she tried no to show it but i no her, she was. But it's like me and him aren't friends anymore, we dont even talk any more! :[
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your sister seems important to you and you seem to be realy close do you realy wan to be with this guy that has hert your sister and has hert you alrady this guy dosnt seem like he has made your life any better there realy isnt much you can do this guy oviouly isnt a good friend if he isnt talking to you and if he is moving there isnt much he is going to be wanting out of a girl right noew but the biggest queston you need to ask your self is are you realy going to jep your sisters trust and friendship over a bot just think about it i have a feeling youll make the right choice.
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ok my friend is a goth which i have no prob but everytime i hang w/ her,her goth friends come over and give me shity looks because im a "normal" person what should i do (link)
you should explain to you friend how you feel about her friends and explain how it makes you feel if she is a real friend shell understand and help you in a sutlle way
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Warning this is going to be long. OK well I really need advice. Im 13-f and I have a boyfriend that I dont really like anymore but hes like crazy over me and I like these two other guys one is in my science class and hes really funny and he flirts somtimes and then the guy in my student council class is really nice and funny too. So what I want to know is how can I break up with my boyfriend if im really sensitive and who to pick of who I really like more so please help and please no mean coments like this doesnt make any sense or learn how to spell if I spelled anything wrong so someone please give me a serious answer!!! Thanx! (link)
well for starters you need to explain to your boyfriend that you just dont think you are ready to be in a realatonship that always works say you dont think it is fare on him if u stay together.then about the two other guys maybe you shouldnt pick or get to serious with ether of them you will have just jumped out of a relationship do you want to jump right in to another right away you should stick to being good friends with both,then just see were it goes you dont want to rush it to somthing you realy dont want be in the same situaton a few weeks,mths from now just take things slow itll all work out.
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i have been dancing ballet for about 12 years. i love it. it always gives me something to do and it keeps me in shape. about a month ago i was in a horrific car accident. the car flipped over in a ditch and killed the driver. who was my best friend. i broke my back and now i am parilized from my waist down. i will never be able to walk again. i will never dance again. that is what hurts the most. no i dont feel sorry for myself because i know what happend to my friend casey. i miss her so much and i just feel like there was more that i could have done to keep her from loosing control of the car. and i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 7 months. he comes to see me everyday and he occaisonally brings me flowers. i am 17 and he asked me to marry him. of course i told him yes. and we are getting married next year in august. i will not be able to have children .. and ladies you all know thats the worst feeling in the world. my fiance wants to adopt. and i am all for it. i just wouldnt be a regular mom that can hold her kids. that upsets me so much. i dont know what to do. (link)
it must be hard for you but things happen for a reason and if you do adopt your kid/s will love you weather you can walk dance and do everthing that other mums can.but that will love you for you you shouldnt think that there was somthing else you should have done because its not yourfolt and your man oviously loves you and care for you alot just look at the positives coming up and not the bad things that have happened good luck hope i have helped
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okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.

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-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
-we DO love eachother (link)
i dont know the risks but there not high in your situation because you are both fresh so i could say i think you dshould probly go speek to your doctor and ask about the risks and how you can get tested and stuff like that good luck
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Hi i need some help ive been going out with this girl for about 2 years i really do love her and care about her but the problem isnt really me or her her dad hasn never liked me but the rest of the family does ive helped him several times with things hes needed and no thanks have been given not even a show of apreciation. the begining of this week she was talking to me and her dad walks in al pissed of and he starts yelling and half wway threw the conv. i heard him talking about me i was on the phone with her and he knew it. its like he did it to get to me. so i asked her to put me on the phone with him i said if you got something to say to me say it to my face and then he said somethings he shouldnt and i said somethings i shouldnt. the wthings is me and her broke up cause i personalyy dotn thinks its gonna work out if me and her dad dont get along cause i understand that he needs to be a part of her family and im almost 100%percent positive that me and him will not be able to work it out becaus ehe will raise his voice and im not one to baxck down can u please help? anything i could do anyway for us to still be together or her be able to be freinds with me? i really do care about her and she really cares about me (link)
you should try sitting down with her and her dad askh him whats wrong and how you can help make things between you a little better(you and him)if he dose start to yell just take it i know you say that your not like that but the bottem line is that it seems he has made his mined up and the only way you can make things better for you and her is to listen to what he has to say then deside what is best all round with the three of you good luck
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ok, my best friend and i have known each other since we were 2. we're actually a lot more like sisters, because we know everything about each other. we're now sophomores in high school, and she has yet to make one friend of her own. every friend she has was because i was friends with them first, which isnt a problem, but she needs to seriously be able to make her own friends. we have EVERY class together, and she just tags along. i never get a break from her. i cant stand her attitude, and if i hadnt have known her my whole life i probably wouldnt choose to be friends with her. she judges everyone and is just plain mean. i honestly need to get away from her but i cant, and i cant talk to her because shell just go crying to MY friends and try to get them to be on her side. what the hecks and i supposed to do!?!? (link)
you should try talking to her maybe if you put it in a suttle way she wont be as hert.Your friends will understand why you did this if you just explain the matter to them.Your friend will be heert but soon will get over it and will understand why you did it as well just dont be harsh about it and youll do fine.justb tell her you need your own time space to your self sometimes good luck hoope all goes well
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