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What comes first? I am Sarah. I have been around since 4.14.88, meaning I am an Aries. Brandon and I have been together since 7.12.04 and got engaged 12.15.04. We live in a beautiful house in Tehachapi, Ca with our three cats; Zoe, Mallie, and Sophie. I somehow graduated class of 2005 with a 3.9 GPA. I plan to become a cosmetologist and plan on attending school next fall in Paso Robles, Ca. I would like to open a salon and a clothing boutique. I sound so creative and put together.
Updates:
-We are getting married May 24th!
- I am pregnant. The baby is due December 18th!
♥ Sarah

advice

ok i like this guy... alot, i mean i have never ever felt this way about any one.... what do i dooooo?

pleez help, ill rate 5's



lone confuzed lover

Dear Lover,
You are becoming a strong women. You can handle a silly boy. This is how I look at it. If you like someone and never tell them, you will never know what could have been. I say that you should speak up before it is too late. Think about it. What do you really have to lose? He might even be interested and if he's not then get over him. No boy is worth any fuss unless he is willing to fuss over you. You can do it girl and you are no chicken. Good luck.
♥ Miss Moo

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i need to know is right...is it right to get your cat declawed...i rate 5's

Dear Declawed,
That all depends on the cat's owner. I have 3 cats and I could not bare to see them declawed. Declawing is against the law in some parts of the country. Reason, is because cat's use there claws for survival when they are in the wild. Without claws, cat's could not protect themselves from other animals or climb very well. It might protect your furniture to get your cat declawed but I believe that it's not worth it. If your cat ran loose, you would want to know that it could protect itself. Your choice. ♥ Miss Moo

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ok. i say labels should be between a soup can and its wrapper. im NOT A GOTH and im NOT PUNK! i hate labels. and i wish theyd stop. how do i get people to see im not a goth or anything,but keep my style of clothing and stuff. please dont say dont worry abt what people think. even my own friends call me emo

--thx

Dear Labeled,
Your never going to get people to change and sometimes it does matter what people think, or you wouldn't be here, right? Do you know who you are? That is really all that matters. People think that you are goth? So what. Let them think what they want. When you see someone walking around your school, you perceive them of being a certain type, right? He is a jock. She is a prep. They are geeks. You get the picture. As humans we label people so that we get a better perspective of who we are. You have found that you are not goth, punk, or emo. If it bothers you, then next time someone labels you, tell them who you really are. Good luck. ♥ Miss Moo

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Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!

i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it

Dear Abercrombie,
The truth. I love Abercrombie and it's sister company Hollister. I would recommend those stores to anyone. I have found that the reason people hate them so much is because Abercrombie/Hollister's prices are so damn high. Most people hate things that they cannot have. Go ahead and go Christmas shopping. I really don't think that anyone will judge you for it. Just plan on dropping a few hundred. Quick tip: Go directly to the back where the sales are. That way you can pick up cheaper/cute items before you handle the most expensive of merchandise. Happy Holidays. ♥ Miss Moo

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Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.

always- scared.confused.

Dear Scared,
You are so young. I feel for you, Sweetheart. I started having sex when I was 16, and I know at times that it can get a little overwhelming; Making sure protection is being used, pregnancy scares, and so much more. First and for most, let me reasure you that you should not feel ashamed for being sexually active. You are a human being and you used protection. I recommend going to the nearest drug store with a trusted friend or adult and buying an early pregnancy test. Having done that you will have faster results and less drama if you find out that you are not pregnant. If you are pregnant, please build up enough courage to inform your boyfriend and parents. You are going to have a lot of growing up to do in such a short period of time and telling them starts that process. If you are adult enough to have sex, you have to be adult enough to deal with the consequences. I also recommend that you later on tell a parent that you are sexually active. Doing so might result in getting a form of birth control in which will help reduce the risk of pregnancy. Please be true to yourself and to everyone else. Please update me. Good luck to you. ♥ Miss Moo

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ok my dad does weed and i just know my mom does it too. and well they are always saying how much they hate people that do drugs and here they do it. well i hear that if your parents smoke and stuff well the kids are liable to start and well i smoke ciggaretts and my parents dont know about it. my point is will i start doing drugs since they do? an help will work thanks jennie

Dear Weed,
The apple does not fall far from the tree. Atleast that is what some people might say. Instead of asking us what we think, why don't you ask yourself? Do you think that you will follow in they're footsteps with drugs? That is a choice that you have to make. It is not left up to chance, you decide. You are the decisions that you have made in the past. Think about it. It's a shame that your parents are doing drugs; but it's an even bigger shame if you don't stop the cycle. I wish you the best of luck. ♥ Miss Moo

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