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Q: hi im 14 and going out with my bf for about 6 months i like him a lot and things arr getting heavier weve made out and now he wants me to give him a handjob im not sure if i want to go that far yet like touching his penis should i just tell him that i dont want to sexual things yet?
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okay well if he really cares about you then he should understand that you arent ready or dont feel comfortable doing that stuff yet. So yes i think you should tell him how you feel. Remember dont do stuff that you arent ready for or comfortable doing just because that would make him happy, because later you might regret it.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: ok i am kevin burkett i am 13 years old me and my gf have been going out for 1 year and a half.
she has these two friends and they are guys they both like her and recently she told me she liked one of them but she still loved me and it took me a while to get over it cause this is not the first serious thing that has happend. and i am trying to get them to stop talking she want stop i have asked her multible times and she want give them up. she said they are her friends and that that she is not going to stop talking to them.
do you think that it is wrong for me to try to get her to stop talking to them?
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okay well i am 13/f and i think that you shouldnt really ask her to stop talking to them because they are her friends. just think of how you would react if she told you that you cant talk to your friends anymore. Give her some timee, and think that she did pick you and is going out with you not her friend.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: Ok.. Well, I like this girl see... She used to like me, but I'm not sure if she still does or not... Anyway. How do I know if she still likes me, WITHOUT asking her? I mean, I think I MIGHT be inlove with her but... I don't want to love her and her not love me back...
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flirt a little, and see how she reacts. Let her know that you have a good time around her, then soon ask her! i am a girl and i think i would be flattered if a guy had the guts to do that. But dont take it personally if she says no, some girls arent just ready or just likes you as a friend. But give her some time to think about it also.
hope this helps
and good luck :]
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Q: I have these weird, redish colored bumps on my chest. At first I just thought it was acne, so I medicated it like I would if I had any zits on my face (masks, astringent etc), but it didn't work. The bumps only got bigger, and they won't go away. I've tried popping them, but when I do it really, really hurts. Every time I succeed in popping one it just gets redder and swells up and hurts. They look like zits but they're harder and once again don't go away. SO my question is, is this acne?
Should I go see a dermitoligist?
What else could it be?
It's really annoying and unattractive so I really want a solution. Thanks!
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its probably acne, but if i were i would see a dermitoligist just in case. but if it is ancne dont pop it or it will just get worse, put hot compresses on it, put soap and water on it, and also if it is acne as your doctor about diffrin, i really worked for me. but while you are waiting to go to the dermitoligist try to put some cover- up, or some kind of make up over it. just make sure you wash it off later in the day.
hope i helped:]
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Q: I want my hair cut and i wantit to be "emo/Punk-ish" and i am gonna add some colors too it as well but im not sure how i should cut it...and i haven't seen anything i like either so i thought i would just ask to see what u guys would say. BTW im 16 & female.
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you could cut it really short.
ive seen hair that is kind of diagnole, like shorter in the back then a little longer in the front. http://www.just-hairstyles.com/haircut-pictures.htm
or you could just have it like resting on your shoulders. but to tell you the truth i think that long hair could be also punky. either long or short.
hope i helped :]
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Q: Theres this guy that tried to get with me last year, but I was "kinda" in a "relationship." haha
Anyways, he's a senior now, and im a sophomore, so there's kind of an age difference... Never been with a guy that much older than me.
Anyways, I kinda wanna hook up with him (butttt just like kissing not sex!!) because hes so hot hes so frickin hottt =]]
But I'm not really sure how to, because we don't have any classes (we had one last yearr) but yea so I don't see him so how could I get to hook up with him?!
THANKS!
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try to talk to him in the hallways if you pass him, or try to talk to him on aim or something. first i would kind of catch up before asking to hook up though
hope i helped and hope everything works out :]
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Q: Okay so i have 2 friends who live down the street from me, their names are eva and gabby, and they arent friends with eachother., evas mom lives here, but her dad lives in another town, and this summer, she decided she was gonna live there with him, and go to school in that town, so when she would come back home for a couple days each month this summer, i would hangout with her each day that she'd be here. Now my other friend, Gabby shes been home the whole summer, hanging out with neighborhood kids, and stuff, but we've only hungout maybe 6 times the whole summer, i dont know; the problem is, gabby keeps asking me to hangout before school starts [3 days] and i just feel like, i dont really feel like hanging out with her, and i dont know why? so i make up excuses not to, and the thing -i dont get is, if eva comes back to town, im gonna want to hangout with her. so i dont understand why i wanna hangout with eva, but not gabby? is there any reasons you guys think it could be?
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Well you might be nervous that if you hang out with gabby, then you might like her as a friend, and then eva might not like it. or you might be afraid you might without knowing replace eva for gabby.
if i were you i would give gabby a chance, but i would be careful that i am treating both friends equally. you never know gabby might be pretty fun to hang out with
hope i helped :]
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Q: 15/F
my grandma is ruining my life and my family! we went to a baseball game, and we weren't back till late. like 11. [oh by the way, she lives with us] anyways, we come home and there is cop cars in our driveway. if were gone too long, she says shes scared and calls the cops. shes done this multiple times. i cant stand it. im not going to stop living my life for her. its just not right. shes so freaking stubborn its like shes a little kid.
what can i do to make it better?
im not putting her in a nursing home.
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Shes probably doing that stuff because she loves and cares about you and your family so much, and doesnt want to lose you guys.
ask her why she gets so nervous, and you could always ask her what might help her feel less nervous. for ex. try calling her if you know you are going to be a little late, and tell her where you are
hope this helps :]
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Q: whats a good quote about talking to an old friend? like i just talked to an old friend and i realized how much i changed, i need a quote for my profile about it
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1." friends forever you promised. friends til the end. but then we fell apart. and i thought it was the end. but then you came back. i changed in a way. best friends forever the promise will always stay." by-ME (sorry its not really a quote.)
2. try this site
http://www.friendship.com.au/quotes/
hope this helps :]
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Q: I am thirteen and want a job can you give me one?
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well i could give you some ideas you could....
1.start a babysitting service with just you or you and your friends.
2.volenteer at the animal shelter
3.take care of pets when your neighboors, or the people you know are leaving and need someone to care for their pets while there gone.
hope these help good luck :]
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Q: everytime this guy that im really close with.. i guess bf/gf.. doesnt answer i always get extremely freaked out that something happened to him. to the point where im crying. and its always on the weekends when i try to talk to him (text or call) and he wont answer at all. and i dont know what to do.
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you probably react that way because you care about him so much. but in a relationship that you want to last, you have to trust the person, and give him a tiny bit of space. im sure he has a reasonable answer for not answering. what might help is to entertain yourself. hang out with some friends, watch a movie, go shopping. there is plenty to do. and make sure that you arent replacing your friends for your boyfriend.
hope everything works out :]
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Q: almost 15/f
I go to a boarding school, I just got here like 2 days ago...
and the thing is- i'm already feeling homesick. Everyone here already knows eachother and I'm practically the only freshman!
I'm not preppy or shallow or anything but EVERYONE ELSE IS!!!! that's what makes me so uncomfortable with the people here.
any advice about how to not feel homesick is appreciated.
all the guys here are gay, but the ones who aren't gay are taken.
:(
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well it usually tough on the first couple of days. just hang in there. what might help is to make your dorm feel more like home, if you miss your parents there prob just a phone call, email, letter away. and with the friends, just continue being yourself and soon you will find true friends. you will find a place to fit in without having to be someone your not.
hope i helped, and hope you feel better :]
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Q: This question is just to get opinions:
If someone you knew told you that they cut themselves, what would your first reaction be? Would you think they were crazy, would you try to help them, would you be scared of them, or what?
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well i would probably not think that they would be exactly "crazy" but that person might just have some problems, or just depressed. everyone has diffrent ways of handling things, and this person is handling it in not such a good way. i would help them, even if they say they dont need it. they dont realize it but they know that they need help. i might feel a little weird around them. it depends on how well i i know the person
hope this answers your quest :]
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Q: Recently I haven't exactly had the best eating habits. Randomly, i'll crave really bad food (like poptars, popcorn, etc.) and there's nothing i can do to stop it. Also, at each meal i eat a whole bunch now, because i'm so hungry. I don't want to starve myself. I'm not sure if this is the cause, but my stomach has gotten really big. Well, not humoungous, but i used to have a flat somach. What are some really good excercises to get rid of tummy fat?
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Well umm, taking a daily jog might help. you even could make up your own exercises, or watch those work out videos.
watch your appetite, i also heard try not to eat after 8 o clock. (but im not sure how much that would help.) i would find a place where you dont have that much furniture and have room, on a mat or carpet.
some exersises i do are.............
1. lift my head up, down, left right
2. spread out my arms and lean on one side, then the other.
3.roll your arms back and forward, combo
4. sit ups/crunches
5. lay on the floor and try to reach your toes.
6. if you have a barre or a steady chair try to face the barre, grab your knee and try to make and arabesque. (only if you could, if it hurts dont do it :])
7. do the butterfly stretch- sit on the floor and put your feet against each other, so your knees are close to the floor, then if you can try to put your head down
8.run daily
these are some of the exercises you could try to do that might help.
hope i helped :]
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Q: Well I only use acne treatments form the doctor and those ones are like..oily? So it's hard to wash off and i cant' really scrub it off cuz, you know, it's bad for my skin.
Can anyone list some effective ways to wash/remove my medicine from my face properly?
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just putting some soap and water on your face should work. :]
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Q: i was wondering when i will get my period (4 the first time)because i have this clear/white discharge in my underwear...but i dont have any cramps
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Well not everybody gets cramps so you might be one of those people who dont get cramps. and if you are 13 it should be coming pretty soon. and discharge is a sign that you might be getting it pretty soon.
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Q: I'm on my school's newspaper and I have to interview the fall play director. What kind of questions should I ask him? Not just the basic 'When is it? What is it about?' etc., but something that high schoolers will want to read and then want to go to the play. Thanks!
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you could ask
how many auditions youve had?
how long it took you guys for it to happen?
have you ever lost your patience and thought of ending the play?
do you have any sort of passion for this play?
Could you tell us the main plot in this play?
Who is going to be in it?
Who would you reccomend to see this play?
something like that. hope this helps :]
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Q: So..wat are some healthy snacks that won't make you get hungrier after you eat them??
16/F * Skyla *
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crackers
carrots
celary
those healthy fruit bars
cheese
hope these help :]
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Q: Hey, I saw that one AIM question that you answered
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511783
and I tried to do that. View-> friendly names
but it doesn't work for me... Instead of seeing my friends screennames on the window, I'd like to rename them so I see their names instead. How do I do this?? I'm confused
I'm not the same person who asked the question.
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okay well i have aim 6.1 and to see the friendly names make sure that you saved the name when you add the screen name. you could check by left clicking the mouse where you want to put the persons name in and then you should see edit buddy, then click that, then you put in the persons name where it says nickname.
or if you have a diffrent kind of aim thing then go try to go to people and then click view buddy list by then click display name.
it kind of depends on what kind of aim you have
if you tell me what kind i might could help
if none of these things work i would suggest to go on aim.com and try to look it up.
hope i helped :]
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Q: on aim, how do you get it to show up as the person's name when they are messaging you, instead of their screen name, in the window?
help is GREATLY appreciated!
thank you!
sara.
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okay go to view that should be on the top of your list, and click friendly names. and then it should change it for you :]
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bio
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hi, my name is emily i am 14 years old and in 8th grade
i love hanging out with my friends,good with little kids, shopping,boys, cheerleading, dancing, music, fashion, eating haha, and giving advice :]
I also really enjoy going to my beach house, especially when i bring my 3 bffs.
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Gender: Female Age: 13 Member Since: July 11, 2007 Answers: 105 Last Update: August 19, 2008 Visitors: 7603
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