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On St. Patrick's Day it is my birthday. My family was planning to go to New York (I live in the Tri-state area so it's pretty close) to see the St. Patrick's Day parade (my brother is marching in it). The only problem is in my science class we will be disecting a heart. Even though it's kinda gross I really wanted to be there for it. So now I have to chose to either go to a parade tomorrow or on my birthday. What should I do? I honestly have no idea.

go to the parade tomorrow and disect the heart on your bday

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Okay well there is this guy and I like him ALOT and I mean we talk all the time but everytime we talk he asks me to do stuff with him and I say yes but when it comes to the point im not ready and if i say no im a total loser and i like him but i think he is using me

*Please help!*

dont agree to that no matter how hot he is.. if your in a relationship with him its different but if you just give it up to him and all he wants is a piece of ass.. dont let yourself get to that point.. tell him that your not like that. wait til your ready..

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ok heres the thing...i went out w/ this guy (we are both 13) and he broke up w/ me a week later because he said it felt akward because we were really good friends before that. ok so ever since then ive gone 3 places w/ him...the mall twice and the movies. ok at the mall the first time...he held my hand but we arent going out...ok at the movie he held my hand once then let go then put his arm round me and the held my hand again after that. ok and then tonight i went to the mall w/ him and some other guys and he held my hand again and started huggin me a lot but he tells everyone we are jus friends...does that make any sense? i mean he broke up w/ me and i didnt like him anymore but now i like him again because of all this but its gonna make me sad if he doesnt like me and i dont think he does but all mine and his friends say he does. how can i know why he keeps doing this?!?! sry its so long! ill rate good! thanx

well your only 13.. not to sound like im degrading you. this most likely isnt love. if it bothers you that he only wants to be your friend and hes holding your hand.. tell him to stop. tell him that you have no problem being his friend but when he does sweet things like hold your hand and puts his arm around you that it makes you feel like theres something more there and if thats not what he wants then you dont want him to do that because you dont want to feel like theres something else out there for you two.
goodluck--lovemucho

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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou

you shouldnt be so into what a guy thinks about you. my advice to you is to be alone until you are completely independent. when you know for sure that you dont need a guy to make you happy.. thats the time when you should get one. guys are great but if you cant handle just being you then you have a problem. you shouldnt change yourself to make some guy happy. leave yourself how you are and get comfortable in your skin if a guy that matters comes along he'll fall for you without you having to be barbie. at age 15 boyfriends are just something to have on the side.. they are not your whole life and as selfish as it sounds the only person you need to worry about is you. so fuck other people you are beautiful make yourself believe that and dont change yourself for anybody okay!
goodluck--lovemucho

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which part of the egg has protein or the most protein?

it's the white part.. for sure everyone that said yellow is fucking retarded so dont listen to them.. the yolk actually has the most fat too.

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i like my hair curly (waves not spirals) but i always burn myself using hot rollers and can't stand sleeping in soft rollers. can ne1 recommend and hair products or shampoos? i have just-above-shoulder length hair blond, a itsy bit wavy in the back,blonde. hope u can help. i will rate 5 for any good products. ♥

just use the hot rollers and dont burn yourself.. otherwise got2b has a great curling spray.. so id try that.. or if you can find any bedhead products that do curling i would recommend that too..

--lovemucho--goodluck--

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i just won a coke contest for a lot of coke from my coke lid. how do i get my prize??

look on the inside of the wrapper.. normally the details are printed inside.. if you threw it away.. well sucks for you better luck next time

--lovemucho--goodluck--

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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused..

I dont know how old you are, but if you are talking about sex i would recommend not unless you are truly in love with this guy. I know i sound like a mother but seriously if you give yourself up to him and it doesnt work out .. hell your screwed.. other stuff like oral.. go for it as long as you are comfortable with the fact he could have been with other girls. yeah normally guys like it when girls start things so just start kissing him and move in for the kill.. hell love it no worries man
lovemucho--goodluck

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