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First of all, I'm a 14 year old girl. I am incredibly sweaty. I swear through t-shirts, sweatshirts, I even manage to get sweat stains on tanktops that don't even touch my armpits! I've tried EVERYTHING from uncented deodorants, clinical strength, stick, roll on, and nothing works. I shower daily and scrub my pits (I've also tried several different soaps). I shave, too (though for a little while I stopped shaving because someone said it traps sweat.... It doesn't) This didn't become a problem until I turned 13 around the middle of my 7th grade year. This doesn't affect any others parts of my body, just underarms. What's wrong with me? What can I do? (link)
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This is not so rare in girls your age. You are most likely being heavily influenced by hormones. Let me try to put this simply. Hormones affect sweat glands in the entire body,but the ones in the armpits are ones that are usually affected most. This can lead to excessive sweating. It shouldn't bother you too much,sweating is a natural way for a body to detox. I take it that from what you've written you maintain your hygiene regularly. This should pass later when your hormones stabilize. If it persists,you can always go see a doctor and maybe ask for an analysis of your hormonal status if they do that where you're from. I hope I helped.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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hey, am just a girl and am confused,
i hate my family for some reasons,
which is in my family they are so
protective, am from a big family
like i live with my dad, my mom
passed away 6 years ago but really i
can say i live in two house one
where my dad is there, and the
next one is where my grandma,
aunt live. and i have a sister which
is in college who everybody loves,
don't get me wrong i love her
too ,but the problem is when she
come everyone acts like i don't
exist anymore especially my aunt
she always makes me feel bad
about my self when she comes she
forgets me. am uncomfertable
around her, she ignores me even
when i say hi like am the adapted
child or something,i hate her for
that, oh... she see her like a
dimond, care for her but when it
comes to me she is just like do that,
and do this she doesn't even care if
am sick, am so tired of this, its so
stupid am a highschool senior and i
don't think that i deserve this and
the other thing is i don' t have
confidence with my self with my
looks evenso everybody says am
beautiful beacuse everybody sees
me as little for the reason that i am
thin, and have a baby face, i don't
have great hair or my hand is rough
everything about me i hate. and she
have everything that i don't have
and my aunt always tell her she is
beautiful but she never tell me that
i am, so thats not hard to guess how
i feel anyway i don't know how to
feel anymore so please help!!! (link)
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Dear,you sound a lot like me. Here's how you could deal with it. You need a distraction. I suggest taking up a sport or gymnastics or whatever interests you. Your family seems very unsupportive but don't let it get you down. I had the case of being worthless to my family if I didn't get an A in school. It went up to the point where they said they will give up on me if I keep getting a B all the time. But thanks to a wonderful friend and some free time activities,I endured it,now I'm on college and studying what I love. Whenever they complain about a grade now,I just calmly tell them to go take one of ny exams if they think they can do better. And they shut up. So stand up for yourself too,dear. It's hard and I've been there but you must not give up. And do find something along the lines of what I've suggested. I hope you'll come out of this as a strong young woman. You have my support.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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I want to meet up with an old friend of mine. We've not spoken or met up in just under a year-however she did say on Facebook on my birthday she misses me.
What's the best thing to arrange to meet up again? Coffee? Meal? I'm unsure and don't want to scare her away as I thought she'd moved on until now! (link)
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I think it's best to meet in a nice café that isn't too crowded and chat over a coffee. You should go for a relaxed atmosphere,both of you will find it easier to talk that way,and I think that what I mentioned would hit the spot. I hope I helped you make a decision.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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So I've been dating this guy for just over a month, seeing each other at least once a week, and texting or calling in between. We've had a few makeout sessions, but nothing further, because we both wanted to wait a bit to get to know each other before jumping into bed (he brought that up first actually). Things were going really well in my opinion, I've never gone on more than 1-2 dates with one guy if I wasn't really into him, let alone more than 5 in a few weeks.
We last saw each other last Sunday. I went out of town for the week and got back this Sunday. I texted him Thursday asking how he was doing. Nothing. No big deal, he knew I was away. I texted again yesterday (Sunday) morning asking if he was available to see each other a specific day this week. Still nothing.
Am I over-thinking this?
I'm undecided whether to be worried or pissed off...
Should I call tomorrow if I still haven't heard back from him?
OR am I missing something? Do people really just not answer you anymore in hopes that you "get the hint". What happened to common courtesy of "no longer interested" or "chosen to pursue someone else" or just something!?
f/24 (link)
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You should call him and ask him why he hasn't contacted you in the time you said. However,if you notice something fishy about his explanation,don't go out with him again. And if he doesn't answer,it only shows his true face. Unfortunately,there is no common courtesy anymore,they just ignore you and hope you'll go away. But such boys are immature,and seeing as you seem to be a serious girl when it cones to relationships,it's best to let them go. They are not deserving of you. Whatever you decide to do,I wish you luck.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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me and my boyfriend cuddled kissed and snuggled this is the first time for us and first he ejaculated half into my anus and my hymen did not break.the second time the same day we tried to ejaculate but the penis did not enter. i don't know whether the semen went into my vagina or not.i got wet in my panties and he too got pre-ejaculation liquid we both did without our clothes.is there any chance to get pregnant? (link)
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For pregnancy to occur,semen actually needs to get discharged deep into the vagina,near the cervix of the uterus. However,there have been rare cases of pregnancy which occurred under the same circumstance you were in. If I were you,I would consult a gynaecologist just in case because what happened could be risky. It's rare,but not impossible.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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I understand you are a medical student. Hopefully, you'll have some advice on this. I'm on a medication that can go to toxic levels in the blood without adequate hydration or in a lot of heat. It can in fact kill in an extreme case. I've dealt with it for over a decade now.
I definitely drink a lot of water which causes too frequent urination and use sunscreen etc. However, I will be at an event for 3 days where the seats face directly into the blazing sun and the heat can be about 40 C. Aside from water and sunscreen do you have any other suggestions to feeling comfortable in this situation that I may not have considered before? Thank You. (link)
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I would suggest that aside from sunscreen and water you could bring a hand fan. Wear clothes made of light material and in colors that are light. I would strongly recommend you to refrain from going to this event but it's your decision. I am still only a student,not a full fledged doctor so I would not take my chances with recommending medicines and such.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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Hi I'm 21 male. My prostate has gotten infected time yo time. Now recently I've noticed that if I push up along my urethra tube a white milky fluid pushes out and the longer I go without doing that it seems like more fluid comes out about a drop or two. It looks like precum to be honest. When I pee there isn't anything like that that I can notice. It does burn a little kinda like pain the the uretha/prostate area hard to pin point it. I read with STDs it's usually a yellow or green pus I havnt seen that yet. It says when ur prostate acts up it leaks and looks like that. Any ideas? (link)
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I'm studying medicine and judging by your symptoms this is most likely another infection. I do not want to scare you but any infection you leave untreated will increase your chances to become unable to have children. Prostate is the weak spot of men,you should not take any changes there likely. My advice is to get that checked out as soon as possible,without delay.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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So i have been dating this guy for about 4 months and for the past month we r doing long distance since he is bck in his home country, though we ll be meeting in 2-3 weeks. skyping before with him was fun .. we talked alot.. we even had some dirty fun n our rela was going awesome even though we played his games as well .. i enjoyed it ... but now it feels weird .. we hardly talk .. he hangs up when he i playing cause his game gets oo intense that he needs to concentrate .. he becomes unresponsive .. our convos r boring ... n he doesnt want to have dirty fun on skype anyone .. recently i asked him if he still into me .. he sai d he is .. but since we r soo far away n he is bored .. he plays his games all the time ... should i be worried .. cause i rll dont like this feeling ... or should i wait for 2-3 weeks n then c how things go when i c him ... or should i have that convo with him again .. cause i end up crying every night ... plus he even stopped resonding to my texts but calls me n talks bout the things i texted him .. do u think m over thinking ... n my over thinking about things i causing me ruin my own rela ... i know its his hobby .. but i do need some attention from him ... n i dont want to be in a rela where i dont feel important .. should i talk to him or no? i m rll confused bout how i should be reacting to this situation ...oh n when we were together .. we would have sex every single day .. n now we dont even do anything is kinda suspicious .. oh n when we had this mini talk .. he did say he doesnt rll like it that much and doesnt wanna do it everyday .. i asked him last night to do things since he havent done it in a week n still he rejected it ... though at the beginning of this long distance we were doing things everyday ... he also said that he thinks we talk alot .. he hardly tlked alot .. he was always playing his games .. n i was on the call doing my things ... m going crazy .. my thinking is all over the place ... n worst part is i wanna have a talk with him but i cant cause listening to his voice rll does relax me n calms he down n then though we talk for 10 mins .. i enjoy is ... but then he hangs up n i get mad cause he need to play his games n leave me in a middle of a convo ... argh .. i dont know how to react bout this or do what .. i think he luvs me .. he hasnt said that for a while .. but having too many serious convos .. could make him lose intrest .. i dont know .. HELP! (link)
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I was in a very similar situation as yours. I won't beat around the bush: you don't need this guy in your life. He is only using you for sex,that much is obvious. You should stop thinking about him altogether and break up. You said you cry every night and that you need his attention which he doesn't give. I tell you from my experience that you're just prolonging the torture. He is immature and won't change. He will always put something before you,be it games or whatever. I dumped my boyfriend because of that,I suggest you do it too. It may be hard on you if you really like this guy but no girl should suffer like that. You should know that you should NEVER settle for less and know what you are worth and what you deserve. There are plenty guys out there who would give you so much more. I hope I made my point although I may have been a little harsh,but there is no nice way of explaining this.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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My "ex best friend" is named Lucy. Well me and her aren't talking anymore. However, she's now friends with a few girls I don't like.
Those girls messaged me today saying all this stuff, telling me to "not talk shit"...? So now I deleted my account. I'm not on any social media, and I am homeschooled. Is there any other way for these girls to find me? They don't know where I live or what school I'm at or anything. We do live in the same town, though. Is there any kind of way they can find me and hurt me or anything if I cut out any connections they can make to me?
P.S. Please don't tell me to call the cops on them or to tell an adult or anything. They haven't threatened me or anything but I just don't want to be contacted by them anymore. (link)
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If you cut out any means of them getting information on you,there shouldn't be any problems. Unless Lucy tells them where you live. I will however still say that if you ever feel unsafe,do tell someone you can trust.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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