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Dating for a few weeks then MIA randomly?


Question Posted Monday July 21 2014, 2:23 am

So I've been dating this guy for just over a month, seeing each other at least once a week, and texting or calling in between. We've had a few makeout sessions, but nothing further, because we both wanted to wait a bit to get to know each other before jumping into bed (he brought that up first actually). Things were going really well in my opinion, I've never gone on more than 1-2 dates with one guy if I wasn't really into him, let alone more than 5 in a few weeks.

We last saw each other last Sunday. I went out of town for the week and got back this Sunday. I texted him Thursday asking how he was doing. Nothing. No big deal, he knew I was away. I texted again yesterday (Sunday) morning asking if he was available to see each other a specific day this week. Still nothing.

Am I over-thinking this?
I'm undecided whether to be worried or pissed off...
Should I call tomorrow if I still haven't heard back from him?

OR am I missing something? Do people really just not answer you anymore in hopes that you "get the hint". What happened to common courtesy of "no longer interested" or "chosen to pursue someone else" or just something!?

f/24


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luchia94 answered Monday July 21 2014, 11:31 am:
You should call him and ask him why he hasn't contacted you in the time you said. However,if you notice something fishy about his explanation,don't go out with him again. And if he doesn't answer,it only shows his true face. Unfortunately,there is no common courtesy anymore,they just ignore you and hope you'll go away. But such boys are immature,and seeing as you seem to be a serious girl when it cones to relationships,it's best to let them go. They are not deserving of you. Whatever you decide to do,I wish you luck.

Best wishes,
Luchia94

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