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bf plays games all the time and does not give me enough time
So i have been dating this guy for about 4 months and for the past month we r doing long distance since he is bck in his home country, though we ll be meeting in 2-3 weeks. skyping before with him was fun .. we talked alot.. we even had some dirty fun n our rela was going awesome even though we played his games as well .. i enjoyed it ... but now it feels weird .. we hardly talk .. he hangs up when he i playing cause his game gets oo intense that he needs to concentrate .. he becomes unresponsive .. our convos r boring ... n he doesnt want to have dirty fun on skype anyone .. recently i asked him if he still into me .. he sai d he is .. but since we r soo far away n he is bored .. he plays his games all the time ... should i be worried .. cause i rll dont like this feeling ... or should i wait for 2-3 weeks n then c how things go when i c him ... or should i have that convo with him again .. cause i end up crying every night ... plus he even stopped resonding to my texts but calls me n talks bout the things i texted him .. do u think m over thinking ... n my over thinking about things i causing me ruin my own rela ... i know its his hobby .. but i do need some attention from him ... n i dont want to be in a rela where i dont feel important .. should i talk to him or no? i m rll confused bout how i should be reacting to this situation ...oh n when we were together .. we would have sex every single day .. n now we dont even do anything is kinda suspicious .. oh n when we had this mini talk .. he did say he doesnt rll like it that much and doesnt wanna do it everyday .. i asked him last night to do things since he havent done it in a week n still he rejected it ... though at the beginning of this long distance we were doing things everyday ... he also said that he thinks we talk alot .. he hardly tlked alot .. he was always playing his games .. n i was on the call doing my things ... m going crazy .. my thinking is all over the place ... n worst part is i wanna have a talk with him but i cant cause listening to his voice rll does relax me n calms he down n then though we talk for 10 mins .. i enjoy is ... but then he hangs up n i get mad cause he need to play his games n leave me in a middle of a convo ... argh .. i dont know how to react bout this or do what .. i think he luvs me .. he hasnt said that for a while .. but having too many serious convos .. could make him lose intrest .. i dont know .. HELP!
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I was in a very similar situation as yours. I won't beat around the bush: you don't need this guy in your life. He is only using you for sex,that much is obvious. You should stop thinking about him altogether and break up. You said you cry every night and that you need his attention which he doesn't give. I tell you from my experience that you're just prolonging the torture. He is immature and won't change. He will always put something before you,be it games or whatever. I dumped my boyfriend because of that,I suggest you do it too. It may be hard on you if you really like this guy but no girl should suffer like that. You should know that you should NEVER settle for less and know what you are worth and what you deserve. There are plenty guys out there who would give you so much more. I hope I made my point although I may have been a little harsh,but there is no nice way of explaining this.
Best wishes,
Luchia94
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