I am a Minister / Prophetess , Spiritual Advisor & Christian Counselor . My Advice Column is based on Relationships , Christian issues, Youth / Teen issues , World News and as the Founder of a prison ministry I give advice to families , spouses and friends of the incarcerated using biblical principals as the foundation to provide a Word of Wisdom , a Word of Knowledge, a Word of Prophesy
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I used to be best friends with this guy, Mike, who is two years older than me. He had a HUGE crush on me, but I never felt the same way about him... so we never actually went out. Now, he has a girlfriend who is 15, while he is 18, and she hates me. She talks a lot of crap about me and calls me names. I have tried talking to both of them about it. Mike said he would talk to her, but it hasnt helped. Its now getting to the point where she is harassing me and saying really mean, hurtful, embarassing stuff. I dont know what else to do, and Im not sure why she is saying all this about me. I have never talked to the girl, and i have never talked about her... but for some reason she thinks i have. I told both her and Mike that I didnt. What else can I do? (link)
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Perhaps mike's girlfriend is acting out of jealousy because she knows he have a crush on you and this is why she is attacking you indirectly, I would encourage you to try telling mike once more about talking to his girlfriend about this; and if he is reluctant to do so I advice you to cut off your communication with him, because if he refuse to communicate with her about the trouble she is causing perhaps he could be the human viper in this whole ordeal .
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my dad left my mom about 3 years ago.. I don't hang out with him or anything.. and when I see my friends with their dads having a good time..I always get jealous and wished i had a dad to have a good time with..I also watch shows and get jealous to..what can I do to not get jealous of people cause they have a dad and I don't? It ain't no way I'm spending time with my father.. I don't like him.. (link)
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The first thing you need to do is forgive your father no matter what has happen,this is the key to your emotional healing as I review you question & comments it sounds like this . . .
someone having an overwhelming desire for chocolate cake but have an equal overwhelming refusal to bake or purchase one and then become jealous of others because they have chocolate cake at home .
You may be wondering how do I forgive my father, you can start by asking God to forgive you for the unforgiveness in your heart toward you dad, and then work toward building a relationship with him and you can do this by writing him a letter ; and if he has a birthday coming up send him a birthday card etc.
in my closing you must forgive your father so you can be healed .
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How do you ask a guy whether or not he has a girlfriend, with out just coming directly out and saying it? (link)
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Actually there is no better way to do it without asking the guy directly, however the key is timing and tact, asking this question at an appropriate time and with tact not only will provide you with the answer but also his emotional response will be flourishing .
Example of timing & tact : perhaps during the time you all are dialoguing about things close to your heart like family or something going on with each of you personally etc; after he begins to open up this is your opportunity to get your answer by responding like ..
Do your Girlfriend if you have one supports you in this area or in your decision to do such and such
ps. forgive me for not making my answer brief as I should. however I am a Minister and Spiritual Advisor first which provides me with much to say .
God Bless You ~
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Hey! School will be starting soon and I want to start off a new year, fresh, organized, and fun. Mostly organized. Any tips? (link)
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Sweetie the best tips are 3 words in your paragraph
1. Fresh
2. Organized
3. Fun
You start your year doing these three things, don't wait for friends and class mates to start it off .
Example Methaphor :
If everyone around you is cold and you come with a warm temperature, guess what everyone around you becomes warm because you changed the atmosphere with your temperature .
God Bless You through out your journey !
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