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Alrighty my situation is: making out. I jsut DONT get it. It doesn't come natural for me. So EXACTLY what do you do? Explanations please, because, I feel stupid. And please, don't say "its hard to explain, it comes naturally, once you being you'll know what to do"...not for me. (link)
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Well, make sure you're relaxed. The best thing to do is just DON'T THINK ABOUT IT.
Then, be ready to do it. Don't have tight lips & make it awkward when he wants to put his tongue in your mouth. Part your lips a little & relax them.
Make sure your heads are comfortable. This sounds stupid, but make sure your heads are turned opposite ways; I've seen people try to do it & not get that & it just looks really awkward.
As for the actual making out part, every guy likes it differently. I mean, some like to ram their tongues down your throat & some like you to do that. Some just like it nice & slow. I guess it really depends on the moment. If you're doing it intensely, you're tongues are probably going to be stiff & forceful. If it's slow, you'll probably move it a lot slower in & out & I guess more passionately.
I know you don't want people telling you it comes naturally, but you just have to go with the flow. Don't force it or try too hard. You just have to move it in sync with his, in & out, around, etc.
If all else fails, just let him start & copycat what he does.
Sorry if that wasn't what you were looking for. I also addressed that as a girl making out with a boy so sorry if that's not the case lol.
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I'm 16/F.
I don't like who I am
I don't like how outspoken I am about everything
I want to be the quiet kid no one knows about
I fight with my parents a lot because I disagree on many of their thoughts and actions
It gets me in trouble and I hate it because my uncle is always yelling at me
I don't fit in anywhere really
I don't have a special talent, or anything I can do.
I want to change.
I want to be quiet, and shy. I don't want to talk to anyone a lot, I don't want to give people my opinions. I don't want to trust anyone anymore, it's screwed me over big time. I don't want to laugh at pointless things and I don't want to be the loud obnoxious girl I am. I want to lose weight, I want to look pretty (I don't wear a lot of make up, just eyeliner.) I'm going to get some crazy hair cut or something that symbolizes who I am. I admit it, I listen to emo music and some death metal/hardcore whatever you want to call it. I don't want to be with my family, or have anything to do with my family. I just want to be the quiet kid that does everything for them and doesn't get noticed for it.
If anyone has any ideas on how I can change, mentally/physically or emotionaly I would appriciate it a great deal. Making like losing weight tips or new hair styles (emoish I guess) (link)
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This sounds a lot like what I went through a couple years ago, but it wasn't because I wanted to change, but because I was somewhat cast out & developed a social disorder.
If you just want to get along & not be noticed, start being more reserved & think before you speak. I constantly analyze my thoughts before I say them because I fear that people will think wrong of what I'm saying. So, for example, when you & your parents are fighting, don't say anything. Go to your room or something & just let it out silently [write something, scream into a pillow, etc.] & try not to get into it.
But in the end, you are who you are, & you shouldn't have to change to fit into any stereotype. But if you want to act a certain way because you're unhappy with yourself, just do it. You just have to apply a little self control.
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sorry if this is completely stupid but i'm just wondering..
i heard that if you straiten your hair, over time it will get thinner and thinner, is this true? thanks so much :] (link)
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Maybe, the hair just looks thinner because it's straight. Like, if your hair is curly and poofy, it'll look very thin when you straighten it.
Also, many people straighten their hair so much that it gets fried, in which case it'll be thinner. That usually happens if you straighten wet spots over and over.
But there's nothing in a straightener that makes your hair thin, you can get it cut to look thinner though.
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well i wanna date hott guys and stuff and be coool but i cant because im not pretty eboungh i have acne and im tall and stuff but what can make me look prettyer like what can i do to change what i look like by the end of the summer (link)
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If a guy doesn't notice you because you're "not pretty", fuck him. Seriously. You should NOT change your appearance to get guys to notice you. I mean, there are things you can do to make yourself look nicer, but if a guy doesn't like you based on your looks he's not worth it anyway.
"If he doesn't love you at your worst, he doesn't deserve you at your best."
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okay so on myspace sometimes people have like a word that starts with the same letter as their name like...
SALLY;SWEETHEART orr
KAYLEE KALAMITY
can anyone think of some for bailey =]] (link)
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bailey brutal
bailey bangin
or put the world before bailey.
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My boyfriend n my best friend thinks im anorexic just because i dont eat breakfast nor dinner...i eat lunch...watever is the food in d cafeteria...but sumtimes i jus dont finish everything...like last nite, i only ate half of a piece of a chicken tender n 3 cheesesticks...n after that i was already full....i dont eat that much, sometimes i throw up d food dat i ate....i use to weight 152 which was overweight, so i lessen d amount of food i ate n now im 124...i lost 28 pounds in less than a month...my mom thinks its dangerous, that i have to eat or else im gonna b sick n die...
do u think im turnin anorexic?
my goal is 110, my mom thinks dats too thin so i told her 120, but im gonna go to 110... (link)
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I don't believe you can "turn anorexic".
It's a disorder that you develop without trying, planning, etc. You can't declare yourself anorexic--most people who are truly anorexic don't recognize it as a disorder.
What happened is your stomach has shrunk. Overweight people can sit there & eat huge portions in one sitting, because their stomachs are more expanded. That's why it's so hard to lose weight--your stomach isn't full, so you eat until it is, which expands it. Since you started eating smaller portions, your stomach began shrinking. So now you get full quicker than usual.
It's not like you're sitting there forcing yourself to stop eating because you're so afraid of being overweight. You just get full. Explain that to your mom and friends.
But stop trying to lose weight--it's unhealthy to skip meals. Just eat as normally as you can, & exercise if anything.
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I forget what the flavors were.. but their colors are YELLOW, ORANGE, PINK, OR RED. pick any one of those 4 colors. please dont say something else like "green" because that wont help me at all.. its for this project i have to do in school. thanks for helping! ♥ (link)
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yellow.
red is close though.
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OKay is there anyway to be a preppy scene kid? I so love the scene style and everything. But i also love preppy clothes. I already own tons of Lacoste and Burberry and such. And i dont wanna get rid of them. So I need some help. Thanks and im sorry if this question is so confusing. Oh and if you can help me find some websites with some good scene clothes, that would be most helpful. Cost is no problem.
Thanks
Cody* (link)
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Honestly, I don't think you should worry about fitting into a style.
Wear "scene" one day & "prep" the next--just be yourself!
It doesn't matter, whatever you like & are comfortable in should be okay.
So just wear what you like & don't worry about a style.
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oka i have this friend that stayed over at another friend house and at the middle of the night she had left that friend and sneak out of the house with a boy to have sex with. Should that friend be mad at her for doing that? (link)
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adding to what everyone else said, yes she should.
also with sneaking out, if her parents found out about the girl sneaking out, SHE would get in trouble as well.
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