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My features: I have skinny arms, an ok six-pack, muscular thighs and calves. I play soccer and I was wondering, what is a healthy way to gain weight so I can have muscular arms? I've heard that by eating a lot of meat I gain weight. Is this true? (link)
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yes eating lots of protein, such as meat will help as long as you work out at the same time. Not just your arms but your whole body. If you go to a gym, you could ask someone that works there to give you some tips on which machines to use.
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When a guy tells friend that he thinks you are too innocent what the hell does that even mean?
My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future? (link)
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it means that he thinks you're maybe a little unadventurous, but more importantly probably that he would feel like he was corrupting you if he tried anything.
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My bestfriend says Im naive in relationships (link)
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it means that you don't really understand what happens in real relatioships, how they work and such.
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Iam 19, pursueing bachelors degree in engineering,my personality is not upto the mark.i weigh around 47kg height is 164 cm...tell me what is a must in increasing my weight to around 65.i don't to have any medications, but i want it the healthy way... (link)
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eat things like meant and bread, things which are high in calories. but you can excersise at the same time as long as the number of calories you're eating is higher than the number you're burning.
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On my left big toe, there seems to be another nail growing on top of my original nail, starting about halfway up the nail and it ends near the top of the nail. I didn't hurt my toe or anything. I was wondering if this was normal? My dad said it was just my toe nail shedding and growing a new one..but I've never seen this happen to me before. Is my original nail going to fall off or something? Help!
ps. There's no pain or strange coloring or anything so I don't think anything is infected. Let me know what you think I should do! (link)
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I've never heard of it but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen to lots of people. If you're worried or just curious as to what it is, book an appointment with a chiropodist.
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Hi,My name is Taylor. I Have a friend named Kristina.We're both in the 6th grade in middle school.(and p.s i asked this q for her.) There's this boy Kristina likes.She tries to talk to him but he keeps ignoring her and walks away.He talks and likes everyone else,but not her.Does that mean the boy likes her?What should she do?? -Taylor (link)
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em, it pretty much means the opposite. he doesn't like her; guys will play hard to get but that involves actually talking to the girl to start with. I think she should forget about him and move on, and if he does develope feelings for her, he'll be the one chasing her.
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Today, me, my fiance and my best friends (2 of them) decided that it seemed like a good night to drink. Long story short, we called another really good friend (Lets call him John) and invited him to drink with us. We all got nice and drunk and everything was going awesome. Friend number 1 and John were once in a relationship (2 years ago), it didn't end well..But they decided that they were both willing to give it another shot.. They made plans the next day (without consulting me) and Friend 1 was(is) staying at my place for a couple days and I had plans to hang out with her, so I was pretty upset about her making plans to leave and be with him. I was upset, BUT, I said "Go hang out with John.. It doesn't really matter" Then she got upset and started crying.. which made John really upset.. 1 went and sat by herself for a while and John went with her.. He came back to me, my fiance and friend 2. He blamed her being upset on me and was very angry.. enough to call me bad names and insult me very deeply. I know he was drunk.. and we all were.. but I don't know if I want to forgive him. We've been friends for 5ish years, and I've always considered him one of my best friends..but what he said was really messed up. He grabbed me by the collar and I punched him because I was scared he was going to hurt me (On top of that he was shouting the f* word at my fiance and telling her to stay out of it in a wrong matter, which pissed me off). He didn't hit me(I don't know if it's because I hit him or not) but he got mad enough to say he was leaving and stomped away. He came back to apologize, but while he was apologizing he continued to call me names (He was pretty calm, but it was still pretty messed up).
I'm really mad at him.. and I don't know what to do. I know it must be hard to give advice in a situation you don't know so much about.. But I'm totally at a loss. We both probably over-reacted.. but I still can't believe he would say these things about me... What should I do? What would you do? (link)
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people overreact when it involves partners or the opposite sex in general and when you're friends it means they know the things to say that will truly hurt you. people do say things they don't mean when they've been drinking but there is usually something deeper rising to the top as weel. what i mean is that it doesn't come from nowhere. i would suggest that you speak to him, i know thats lame advice but its the only thing to do. a friendship of 5 years isn't worth being thrown away over something like this. also make sure he appoligises to your ex, let him know that was out of order. Maybe what you said did upset number one so ask why and you should probably apoligise for that. Pretty much - TALK to EACH OTHER!!!!
hope it works out
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How do I become a magazine or photoshoot or computer model? Not the kind where you walk down the runway? I'm a 13 yearold girl who is pretty and has a nice body, I'm only about 5'3 though. I live in the Boston, cape Cod area of Massachusetts. (link)
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you definitely have to be older to be a model, unless you want to be a child model which in that case your body doesn't matter in the slightest. you're only 5'3 because you are 13! you just have to sent applications and photos of yourself to employers, anything that you want to do just sent a sort of resume to them and if the like you they'll get back to you.
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I've been wearing the same clothes since I was in middle school and I am now a senior in high school. I've always worn baggy sweatshirts, sweat pants, ugly sneakers or old boots. I also wear a lot of black. I basically scare people away and I actually had someone call me a bum. At first, I couldn't possibly care less, but now it's got me thinking that this must be the reason why I have a low self-esteem about my physical appearance. I want to change the way I dress and my overall physical appearance for this new school year, but I have no idea how to do that.
Basically, I have short dark, dark brown hair with matching eyes and I have a sort of hourglass figure. I'm 5'2' and weight about 125 lbs. I can't really say what styles I'm interested in because I love them all and I'm so used to wearing dark clothes, particularly black, so... What can I do to show people that I'm not entirely a loner and wouldn't mind making some new friends? (link)
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you can start out with small changes, like try wearing jeans - black if you want, that's fine - and tops that accentuate your small waist. by that i mean tops which get tighter at your waist or just under the bust. if you don't feel comfortable enough with your body at the moment try a simple t-shirt that's say blue or green or something. take small steps away from the baggy clothes and ingest some colour into your outfit. Your still allowed to wear black, it flatters everyone and goes with anything. if your glasses bother you, get some new ones or maybe try contacts. you could try highlights in your hair, soften your apperance.
if you do any of this, make sure the changes aren't to drastic and you stay true to yourself.
with regard to making friends just be yourself and be friendly. start up a conversation with someone you sit next to in class, it can be about the work you're doing or complement their apperance - anything!
make sure you enjoy the last of high school.
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how do a raise the bar with my girlfriend, how do we get to the next level. (link)
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that depends where you are at the moment, we need more information
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I'm 22/f - boyfriend is 24
I was in the U.S. and my bf was with me there. About a week ago, I left and traveled to visit my family about 7000 miles away from him. I will go back to him in 2 months. A couple of days ago he told me that he feels left and unloved because I left to go on this family vacation thing.
But here's the thing:
1. He encouraged me to go on a vacation and spend it with my family.
2. He's making no effort to Skype with me.
3. He's making me feel very bad for wanting to spend time with my family.
Some have told me that he's just missing me and this is the early difficult stage where he misses my presence next to him, my hand in his, etc. What do you think? I am ready to give more info if needed.
Thanks for your time! (link)
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it could be tha5t he's just missing you, and it most likely is. however, it could also be - and i'm being painfully honest here, but it happenen to a friend of mine - that he is feeling quilty for doing something he shouldn't have and is trying to convince himself that its your fault because you "abandoned" him.
the best thing you can do, and i know this is what everyone always says, but talk to him, if you're away for two months, you better get used to talking about serious things over the phone.
Good luck and i hope he does just miss you
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I'm shy and it bothers me. I'm not shy around ppl I'm comfortable with. I get quiet when I'm tired or annoyed. also if I'm not comfortable with u. I feel like I bore certain ppl. Yet they don't know me really and I just don't open up. It's hard to. So any advice (link)
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i was exactly the same, still am sometimes. it's okay to be quiet, some people like not having to talk all the time. however if it bothers you, when you hear someone saying something that you have an opinion on or agree with, say so. it only takes a word or two for someone else to start a conversation with you and then you will get to know them, even if its only a little. after all, how can you get to know new people if you won't talk to them because you don't know them? bite the bullet and start talking!
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Do you have any good ideas for a talent show performance for a person who cant sing, dance, or play a musical instrument? (link)
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magic, comedy, impressionist, anything you can do, that you other people can't.
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Ive been really shy in front of my ex lately... He is supa hot. We broke up 2 years ago.
Even though I know he doesn't like me and I dont like him, I try to look hot and stick my boobs out wheneva he walks past me or stands around where I'm standing. We dont talk much anymore. And sometimes I just wish we could be friends and have something to say to each other when we see each other at school or at the mall...Obviously im a girl...He really likes girls with good looks and big boobs...
BTW im 14...so is he
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its completely natural to want to look good in front of an ex, show him what he's missing so to speak. If you went out i'm presuming that you used to talk to each other, so just start talking. if you want to be friends, make it happen! the conversation just has to start with a hello. maybe a how are you, what have you been up to. try it, i'm sure he'll be glad he can talk to you again.
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Ok! So, I'm a HUGE Twilight fan. I read all the books and just saw the breaking dawn part one trailer. So do u know if renesmee will be in part one and two of breaking dawn or just part two? (link)
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at the very end of part 1, i think, i'm pretty sure it ends with the birth. As in part 2 starts at the end of Jacobs part of the book.
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so i have a boyfriend lets call him timothy and my bestfriend lets call him lloyd, they are also best friends. but timothy is jealous of how well i get along with lloyd and how well we know each other. i just dont know what to do i have tried to explain that i have known lloyd longer but he is still jealous. any advice? (link)
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Even though your friendship with lloyd is completely innocent, see it from timothy's perspective, if the tables were turned you would probably feel the same. So, just try and include timothy, like if there's a private joke between you and lloyd, explain it to tim or try and avoid making it infront of him. Maybe try having more time where it's just you and your boyfriend, without any friends around. You shouldn't change because friends are just as if not more important that boyfriends but you could maybe try and tone down the closeness when timothy is with you.
hope this helps x
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what is the factor that prevent illegal sex (link)
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It's the law because they're trying to prevent young girls becoming pregnant or getting any STDs.
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My parents got divorced when I was in second grade. I'm a sophomore in high school now, & their divorce has never really phased me. I didn't mind it. I live with my mom & I don't see my dad that often anymore.
For the past week or two, my dad has been in every single one of my dreams. They're weird dreams though. It's like I'm hallucinating. It's the most random things & they're really trippy. My questions is... what does it mean? It weirds me out. Does anybody know what could be causing it? (link)
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dreams can be a load of rubbish, like you've been thinking of random things during the day and they all merge together when you fall asleep, however, they can also be your subconsious trying to tell you something. In this case I think it's the latter. You miss your father. If this is the case, get in touch with him and see if you can meet up or even just give him a call.
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I am easily influenced by the others who show their personality that i think is cool or okay to "be like that". and i dont want to be like this forever. i want to change it. i want to have own disposition without the influence or confusion on what to show or not. or what to be. help me. (link)
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I'm not sure what age you are but this could just be because you're young and don't fully know who you are. It could also be that you're not completely comfortable with those around you so you don't feel you can be yourself.
whatever the reason though, and I know this is easier said than done but you just have to be yourself. Don't think about how you should react, just react. If you over-think it that's when you start acting like other people because you see how they've acting or heard what they've said. So yeah, bottom line is, stop thinking so much.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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okay, you need to sit him down and just come straight out and tell him you saw the facebook thing, or if you're not comfortable saying that tell him someone told you about it which is true. if he doesn't tell you, then you need to tell him that you don't trust him because a relationship cannot survive if there is no trust, trust me on that. it might be that he only hid it because he realised it was wrong and didn't want to fight with you so just thought that if he deleted it then it would all be fine, you never know but you have to talk about this.
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