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Dear advicenators,
Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
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oh my goodness! you may think that, but if you do tell the police(which is most deff the right answer!) they will call CPS(child protective services) and come and make random house checks, and also there are hotlines that you can call for this kind of stuff! and your right, being suicidal is deff not the way to go! all it does is make things worse. also, if you have any relitaves that you could talk to, that would be of major help also!
please dont let this continue! take action!
*i really hope i helped* and if you ever need someone to talk to just IM me at...
sweetas suga0007
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This year, i got put into the earliest lunch period at school- i eat lunch at 10:30 am. because of this, i stopped eating breakfast, so that i'm hungry at lunch. but then, since i eat so early, i am starving my the time school is out. by dinner, i'm not very hungry, and i get hungry around 930ish. i hate my eating schedule- its so screwed up and i know it can't be good for my body. any ideas? (link)
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well start making yourself eat at normal times and your body will then get back onto a normal schedule!! hope i helped!!
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LAUREN I LOVE YOU (link)
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i love you too jeniel!! you are soo sweet!! and we soo have to hang out again this summer! that was so much fun!! and you have to get your shirt back! haha!
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me? (link)
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omg! no way, you deffinately need to keep trying to contact your ex! bc if you dont a whole bunch of legal messes could come up! lol and i am sure that you dont want that! i think that it is your decision on whether or not you want to keep the baby, but remember all the hardships that will come wiht it... and jsut keep insisting to everyone what is true and call your boyfriends parents and ask to talk to him that way.
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Lauren... DO YOU HAVE SIX QUARTERS?!?!?!?!?! :-[
hahaha i loooooooove you! ...goodtimes (link)
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haha omfg best times!! haha nope i dont have six quarters, lets ask her oo and her and that chick too!! haha! longest movie everr, i wonder why?? lol!!
love u bunches gurly!
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you rock our nubs!!! we (link)
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haha heckk yes i do!! lol i love yall nubsters (bianca and miranda) to death!! hehe! IGC this year is gonna be the bestest everr!! lol!
mwahh!
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two guys tried to rape my gf when we were walking from a party. so i was in a fight with them, i knew it was a stupid move; i was out matched and out numbered, but i had to. well i manage to take one down and the other i guess just give up, but i took a good few hits, my ribs and face is like bruised up, and now my gf feels really bad about it, like it was her fault, how can i make her feel less guilty, and tell her that i dont care about a few hits in exchange for her safty? shes really sad and i that hurts more then any physical injury (link)
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aww!! thats the cutest thing!! i am very proud of you for doing that!! well, depending on how long its been since this happened she could be really depressed that she was about to be raped... but otherwise, as soon as your feeling better i bet that she will too!! and if not then you may want to tell an adult just to be on the safe side.
**and to try and cheer her up- take her out to see a chick flick and to dinner at her fav restraunt! im sure shed love that**
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HEYY gorgeous do you have any gum hint hint?? do you knwo who this is.. (link)
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heyy cheninnnnn!!! whats up gurly!?? youre so cute!haha actually i do have gum! haha what happened to you buyin me some?? hehe jk!!
love yah!!
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Does anyone know any websites where I can download mp3s for free or really cheap?
Thanks (link)
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well i use itunes bc i have a mini ipod and those are $1 a and limewire also im pretty sure?
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do foster homes keep brothers and sisters together (link)
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usually they try to i think?
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ok.. so the other day i was masterbating (using a dildo) and like.. i started to bleed.. and i was in some pain.. is it possible that i lost my virginity to a dildo?? i mean.. i don't guess that's a problem cause it's gunna happen sooner or later, but is that what happened?
15/f/virgin (link)
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haha nooo...u have to have sex to do that but u just popped ur cherry
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Hey guys um I weight 128 and I am 13 I have been trying to loose some weight. But I never can how is the fastest why to loose weight like 10 in a week or 2 please tell thinks (link)
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well first of all your weight doestn really count for a whole lot...its your BMI that counts, bc i dont weigh 95 lbs either, but i have a very low BMI, because i am a gymnast, and am stronger than more then half the guys in my grade! lol! and secondly, its not healthy to try and lose that much weight in one or 2 weeks. start off by working out at a gym, getting a personal trainer even, and see where it goes from there and if you still really want to go on a diet, then i reccomend finding a nutritionist so that you can do this the healthy way, and not skip food groups completely!
good luck to you! hope i helped!
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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks! (link)
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well...hollister is cheaper than abercrombie, umm platos closet(its in like euless or something?) um nordstrom rack or even abercrombie sale bc i have gotten skirts and shorts from there for $6. you just have to go at the right time of the year. hope i helped!
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The last time I had sex was like a month and a half ago with this boy I really loved.. I really don't NEED sex and I know that, but in my city girls spread rumors and all that. I wanna hook up with a guy I'm not in a relationship with, but I don't want to listen to people's shit.. What should I do? (link)
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well...i recommend that u dont pay attention to what other people think if you really like him...but i mean if your version of "hooking up" is having sex hten ipersonally dont think that its the best idea in the first place...lol sry
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what do you get if you mix a apple with snapple
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haha i have no idea?!! lol um snaappppllee? hha a
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Whats Crackin ma'? haha... o well I think its funny lol. Anyways, you are the best EVER!! You have no idea and I am so sorry your foot is hurt but it is gonna get better soon so we can party at camp! (link)
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aww thank you miranda!! and yea im deff going to camp no freaking matter what!! lol even if all i get to do is the handstand contest!and win it all this year!! haha!! love you too!! and yes you are a retart! haha not retard...retart!! lol
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i was just wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a birthday party :-/ nothing to extrodinary,it's just with a couple of friends.
thanx for any ideas :-D (link)
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aww how funn!! with a small group you could go get your nails and hair done and then go out to eat and go to a movie and then have a small sleepover!! thatd be soo much fun!!
*HAPPY BIRTHDAY!*
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Honestly, do you think its too babyish to have a pinata and play the limbo at my Luau thenned sweet 16?
Any suggestions or websites for decorating? thank you all..fives for decent answers (link)
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of course not!! i think that those are like the funnest games everr!! lol!
decorating ideas- give everyone a lei; have fresh hibiscus as your table centerpieces; have grassskirts around the tables; serve like the fun frozen drinks (jsut buy the kind in the can in the freezer section at the grocery store); umm put up a tiki hut as like a dance floor or a serving table; etc...
*hope i helped and have a happy birthday!!*
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My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks! (link)
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go to puppynames.com they have a ton there!
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k so I'm just now babysitting and I really don't want to just sit on the couch and watch tv the whole time because I remember being a kid and loving the babysitters who were a lot of fun... only problem is I don't have any cool games to play with the kids! any suggestions or experiences that might be helpful?
ps: if you know of any games that 4-7 yr olds would like that would be helpful! Thanks!! (link)
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well you may want to ask the kids what they want to do first and depending on how old you are, if you are 16 then you could take them to a moive or to a park, but if you are not that old yet then you could maybe play go fish or play house or barbies or somethign with them! lol and if theyre boys then maybe you could play catch with them with a baesball, basketball, beach ball, football etc? hope i helped!! and good luck with the babysitting!
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