i have a friend. she has had a hard time lately and she has made bad decisions. she told me everything she has done. now she says that she feels like im judging her becouse of what she said. so she doesnt want to tell me stuff and i think she is a suicide risk and if i tell someone now i will never know if it comes up again becouse im the only person she has told but if she wont talk to me becouse she thinks im judging her i wont know anyways. but she did tell me she was goin to do it the other day so i talked her out of it. but i dont know if im sopposed to tell someone now or try to talk her out of it everytime. i rate for GOOD answers
No matter what, you need to go tell someone. You need to get your friend help. I know it sounds bad, but you need to risk your friendship to save her life. People are going think your judging them on something that you think. But get her help, and let me know how it goes!
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Hey i am having a problem with this guy that i really like alot. He says that he really likes me and all and we date. Then he brakes up with me and he tells me that he needs to think about things. Everyone has told me that he is messing around with this other girl. I know that they are friends and i know that they are always together. But this past weekend everything got worse. I told him and everyone else that i wasnt going to listen to anyone i didnt know. But,everytime i asked him about it, he would ignore the question. Well as of monday night me and him are not together. Now everytime he tells me that he is going to call me or come see me or anything when it comes time to he changes his mind. I just dont know if i should try and move on or try and hope that me and him will get back together and all the rumors and stuff with stop.
-dont know what to do
Well if he's going to do that to you, you need to find someone better. You shouldn't listen to everyone else, I learned that the hard way. If he's going to ignore the question, then it seems to me as if he's trying to hide something from you. I hope everything works out!
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i have a problem w/a friend of mine, and i don't know who to go to. i think she has a serious problem w/lying. she has lied to me a lot of times, but mostly about trivial things. still it hurts when she lies, which is probably why most of our other friends dont talk to her anymore. sometimes it doesn't even seem like she knows she's lying. do you think she actually has a problem? plus, she likes to send fake pictures to guys she meets online. i don't think that's right, cuz they dont even know who they are really talking to! it's like a 65 year old man talking to her and telling her he's 17. just recently, she started spreading rumors that aren't even true, and she expects me to be okay w/that because they supposedly are! what do you think i should do??? should i dump her as a friend or what?
-distressed in iowa
Have you tried talking to her? If she keeps doing it after that, then dump her. Sooner or later she'll realize what went wrong, hopefully she'll be able to get help for it. If not, then you're better off without her.
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I have this friend, and i really like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he feels the same way about me. He talks to me sometimes, but out of school like at sport he usually talks to me. He is kind of rude, he calls me dumass (lol) and tells me to shutup. But he only said that once.
Well if he's going to treat you like that now, then you really dont need to be in a relationship with him. if it was me, i would talk to him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation. I hope everything works out for you!
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Hello my name is jenny and im 14 and i have noticed myself looking at girls.. does that mean theres something wrong with me!? I feel disgusting!! What would you suggest?! Write me back ASAP. Thanks alot.
I dont think there's something wrong with you. Its just you experiencing new things. Dont worry, its normal.
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I have been dancing for 11 years. I am 13 years old. I want to maybe go further with my dancing ... like be in shows or something. Also, How do you get to be in a music video or something like that? LoVe, Tina
I say go for it. Get into auditions. Maybe try out some different dancing if you've been in one certain class. Good luck with your dancing!
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