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I love life, I love my Husband and I love to help people! Thus the reason why I feel compelled i am here on this Earth!
I am starting my own business. Because i want to be a stay at home mother one day! Just got married 10/2005. Extremely happy! He is truly my soul mate!
I have had many experiences in my life both positive and negative. i have had many people tell me that i am very wise for my age. I only hope that i can leave this world knowing that i did the best that i could and helped people.

We are all human- Sometimes we just have to be reminded of that!- kchafin
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sooo
i wash my face almost everyday
and i use biore
the green scrub one
and my face has gotten greasier and its really gross
and idk what to do/use!
whats a good product for it so i dont have a greasy face!!
help! (link)
i used to get minimal breakouts with my monthly visitor and i have sensitive skin- i started using sensitive face wash by oil of olay and i also use the oil of olay regenerist serum i haven't had a pimple in 6 months i love the regenerist serum. Be careful what you put on your skin because it could make things worse. i would suggest products such as Neutrogena- clinique- dove- or oil of olay.

Also in the meantime try Bare Minerals Make up for a great coverup and an all natural makeup.

www.bareminerals.com


ok so i was getting to know this kid named sam right yeh he broke up with girl friend a while ago and his ex was just macking on my best friend victor so then me and sam get to know each other for about like give or like take a like month so then like we should text each other saying i love you and all thats lovey dovey shit so then i find out that he leds me on for like two weeks and not only does his ex like hate me but he is now hokking back up with tahts tupid slut only because she fucked him and doesnt want him macking on other girls but she can mack on other guys UGHHHHHHH I FUCKIN HATE HER AND I REALLY LIKES HIM BUT HE IS SUCH A SICK PUPPY so like i met this guy named derik to and like were friends and all but ughhh i dont know what to do with sam that stupid fagg HELP PLEASEEE (link)
You don't need that LOSER! Life is too short to worry about such petty stuff. You will find someone that is perfect for you and will love you- not use you! This person will love you unconditionally and will be there for you to wipe your tears when you are sad and to calm you when you are mad. I know you might feel awful right now and angry but it will pass. you will have people come and people go in and out of your life and someone that acts like this is just not worth it!


my b/f jordan was put in a mental hospital Thursday morning. he told his guidence counselor that he thought the best way to keep him mom and dad from fighting is to kill himself. his mom and dad are dicorced going on 6 yrs now. he has been in that place for 5 days now. everyone knows not to trust the governmeant. he knows that so he wont take the pills and medication that they are giving him. they think he is paranoid because of that. he says that he thinks someone is out to get him. when he looks at people he can see a glowing light around there heads. they have labled him as schitzoefrinik. sorry i don't know how to spell it. they say he thinks he hears voices.

i don't know what to do. if he does kill himslef im gona kill myself because i don't want to be alone. i love him to death and i dont want to lose him! i am not family so i can talk to him on the phone or go see him. i think about him all the time. what do i do with my life while he is in there? i only 14 and we have been dating since i was 11. he is now 16 and i don't have a clue as what to do right now. i miss him so much. please help me (link)
It sounds to me from your entry that maybe your boyfriend does need help. At the least needs to talk with professionals that can help him sort thru what he is going through. You have to be there for him! do not encourage his suicidal thoughts by letting him know you are thinking of it as well. He is going thru a very hard time right now and he needs to feel that someone understands him. Sounds like you 2 have a wonderful relationship- so if you love him then be positive for him. Noone can control your destiny but YOU! Be smart! Talk to your family and/or friends about this- do not feel that you are alone because i assure you - you are not. Remember you always have GOD! He loves you and he will be there for you no matter what! Prayer changes lives!!

Best wishes and please you are way too young to be so sad! Believe me it will get a lot better sometimes you have to go to the deepest depths of sorrows to see the light! But trust me!! The light is ALWAYS there!!! ALWAYS! Take it from someone who has seen A LOT of sorrow! :)


My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 5 months. he broke it off, and i'm heart broken! its been atleast a month, {the whole reason he did it in the first place was because he told me that he loved me, i kinda sorta freaked out because i didn't want him to just be joking with me and then i tell him that i'm in love with him and he says i was jking.} but i am in love with himm!! i didn't realize this until we ended it. we still "date" but we're just not official. like we do everything we did while we were dating but, we're just not official. all of his friends tell me that he acts like he wants me back, and i've heard it from like everyone. but he doesnt' really talk to his friends about me like you know i do to my friends about him, so i'm just confused on what to do....

i really really really really really want him back but i'm not sure like what i should do? (link)
I hate to stereotype but too often guys are scared of the "C" word (commitment). Definately if you guys have a great friendship- talk to him! because if this guy is your one and only true love then you don't want to let him go. Believe me you will know if he is your one and only. But just incase you have any doubts i'll tell you what my mom told me (yes my mom)She asked me the most important question of my live!
"Think of tomorrow and what if for some reason something happened and you could never-ever see this guy again" " How would that feel?" Well you answer that question and you KNOW what to do!

If the answer is however the opposite of what you expect- then keep a wonderful friendship and MOVE on- you owe that to him and yourself!


i run 5 days a week for 15-20 minutes each day. that may not seem like a lot, but coming off an ankle injury & asthma im trying to go slow. by the end of running, i am sweating, so i am trying, but does anyone think thats not enough?? i only eat 3 meals anyway, im just trying to not gain weight since i cant play a sport this year. is there any other exercises i can do?? i've been doing sit ups/6 inches & i use a stationary bike. what are your opinions??

thanks!! (link)
Dear Running
I really love kickboxing. I also took Karate. These are two really great sports that work out your entire body. Plus if you get into the right type of martial arts it will also promote a healthy mind- body- and spirit.

Also- if you just had an ankle injury i might would try another form of exercise than running. I fear that running would only add insult to that injury. please make sure to always protect your ankle until it completely heals!

Happy Healing!


I have some acne on my face and I need a really good foundation or concealer or any other product that will help hide the acne well and will always work. So, any suggestions?
Thanks. =D (link)
Girlfriend! You need to try Bare Minerals make up! I bought it for my wedding day and fell in love with it. It is an all natural make up which is great espically for sensitive skin. (like me) It feels really light on your skin too. It is a wonderful product i would suggest this to anyone. You may find it expensive at first, but trust me i have bought 1 kit and used it for a full year and still have plenty left. BELIEVE ME it is worth it! Besides if you don't like you can send it back and get a refund! Check it out!!

www.bareminerals.com



ok, so me and my girls six month is on thanksgiving, shes gonna be at her aunts, so when she comes home, shes gonna see me sitting at her front steps with 6 white roses and a necklace/ring(dont know which to get) for her. anyother ideas? (link)
That sounds great! It is very nice to have someone simply appreciate you the way that you describe. I say go with the necklace that way you don't have to know her size.

Good Luck on your love!




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