Hey i am female, 14, and im going into high school next year. I am not experienced in many ways, but i am mature. I dont sugarcoat things, and i am bold and tell it like it is. If you want my advice, let me know! xoxo
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Anyone have any good flirting tips? :]
Haha, I know I probobly sound really stupid for asking, but I don't really have any good ones, except I guess smiling? Haha. Help me out :] (link)
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well one thing is
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-Physically
-and just make eye contact, count to three, then look away.
-look them up and down then do a cute smile, like you approve or think hes hot
-when you walk by, turn your head to him to show he really turns heads
-another good way to get a guys attention is to get closer to him, if he's at a table don't sit at the other end or across from him, plant yourself in the seat right next to him, scoot closer even. if hes standing just stand a bit closer to him while you talk than you would normally.
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/192
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
sorry its long but i hope i helped!
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when i get turned on i feel like im about to pee
then randomly this white stuff will come out
idk but its wierd to me??
and only my vaginia will randomly itch
not all the time or everyday or anything
but when it does it like itches ill have to it it or cross my legs or ometime stick my finger in a itch it (link)
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I know how you feel, i used to feel the same way. Its not weird, its normal, it will go away
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i like this guy a lot, and i have liked him for a really long time. The problem is, i don't know how to approach him! I've talked to him before, but I don't know how to do it again. Like, i don't know how to start talking to him or stuff. And i'm really nervous to talk to him. I don't have him in any of my classes, but I see him around school a couple of times. What can i do to help me be less nervous, and what should i say when i first talk to him? Also, should i start talking to him when he's alone, or when he's with other people? And should i go talk to him by myself, or bring my friends with me?
Or, should i just email him or something?
I would really appreciate it if you would answer my questions.
Thanks :)
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When you see him give him a playful smile and say hey and give him a wink if you are brave enough. When hes with a group, talk to the whole group but focus on him, and when hes alone just bring up a sport he likes, or ask what kind of music he likes, and make him a mix of the music he likes, or ask him to make you one. Then you will have a lot of stuff to talk about. I know it seems impossible, but once you do, it will come naturally.
hope i helped!
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ooook so there is this guy. i met him in 2006 and ever since, he's all i've thought of. everything in my life i do to impress him or whatnot. hes one of my close friends and he knows i used to like him, although im sure he knows i still do. whenever im with him i just feel...happy. i feel like life is perfect and like i never want to go home. and when im not with him, i feel crappy. i feel self-conscious, depressed, etc. did i mention he goes to another school and i only see him like once every 3 weeks? so, as you can expect thats a lot of time feeling depressed and crappy.
i want my life to move on. usually about once a month i try to get a life of my own and make other friends and try not thinking about him. but it never works and im beginning to think it never will. so this is where i turn to advicenators. i need help. im sick of feeling depressed, im sick of not having my own life, im sick of my crappy friends who never want to talk about real-life problems, im just sick of the life i claim to live.
any thoughts? (link)
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You should try making other friends, girls and guys, and call/im/text the guy you like and ask to hang out. I like a guy from another school and see him once a week because my dads teaching him electric guitar, but theres no time to flirt. So i always call him and im him, and now were close. Just do what i did, and make plans with a bunch of people, and ask him to come along. Flirt with him alot, be close to him, and make eye contact.
Hope i helped! :]
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In my past question(the really really long one, sorry if it had many shortcut words, i had to because of the length), I forgot to say my age and gender: 13/f
For a 13yr old, I think deep in these situations, so please don't tell me I'm too young.
I asked about how i might feel towards my close friend and the difference between that feeling and the feeling i have towards my current bf.
Typing that long question and seeing how people replied helped me realized much more.
They replied how my bf, "Shiro", cares for me much more than my close friend, "Kuro".
I agreed.
But I also typed another question before: How can I tell if it's love and not just really REALLY like?
People replied how i can tell, how it's selfless, and how you can tell if he's all you think about.
I agreed.
Until someone replied a list of feelings.
I realized how my palms sweat, heart races, voice and eyes caught, want to be with him, loving his hugs, heart skipping a beat, pardoning his faults, and willing to give things was how I usually felt towards "Shiro".
But it said it's just just like, lust, luck, loneliness, loyalty, low confidence, pity, infatuation, friendship, and charity.
And I realized how my heart aches when he's sad, how I cry for his pain, how he sees my heart, how i accept his faults, and how I would give him everything was how I felt towards "Kuro".
And it said it's love.
I remember how I decided to be "Kuro"'s friend because nobody wanted to be with him.
I got more attached to him, noticing how everyone says they think he's annoying yet I don't, and how I tell people how it's messed up when they make fun of him.
Now it's like saying "Shiro" loves/likes me much more than "Kuro", yet it's stilling saying the things I've done for "Kuro" makes me love him more than "Shiro".
This was the reply with the list of feelings, tell me if it's true or not, and if it's true, does that mean I love "Kuro" much more than I love "Shiro", even though "Shiro" loves me more than "Kuro"? If so, what do I do?:
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them.
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because he kisses you or holds your hand?
It isn't love, its low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes you heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship.
Do you tell them everyday that they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give your favorite things to them?
It isn't love, its charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry their pain even though your strong?
Than it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinded incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and keeps you there?
Than it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Would you give them your heart, your life and your death?
Then it's love.
Sorry if I'm hard to deal with >.<
but please do help me understand! thank you (= (link)
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Hey its me again, i answered you're last question. Well like i said, i think shiro loves you, and kuro likes you. I dont know how you feel, noone can tell you or us that, but you should never leave the one you love, for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one THEY love. I cant tell you how you feel, and neither does the things the person who left the list did, even though it was very good. I think you are in love with shiro, but you love kuro. Theres a difference. Being in love with someone is like "i love you with all my heart. I want to be with you". Loving someone is like a friend or a brother, but you love kuro, but like a brother, but you also really like him. I know this is confusing, but i tried.
Hope i helped, and didnt confuse you more! :]
P.S. i like that you dont have as many shortcutted words :]
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[sorry, but it had to be a long, detailed story to show why i'm confused]
i have this thing
i try to luk for things i can look forward to
can b my crazy friends
can b a fun thing in class
and mostly i find sum1 to kinda like for sorta lyk a goal
so
7th grade of 07, 2nd semester, math class
we were getting new seats
i was placed in a corner desk and next to me is, let's call him "Kuro".
we soon started to talk to each other
helped each other w/ da math, sumtyms even make fun of da teacher(not in a very mean way, jst playing around)
he wasn't rly sum1 u'd find cute,
but i decided to start to lyk him
anyway
even jst a little to make math class more to luk forward to
i found out dat he didnt hav any close frends
so i tried to treat him as a frend as best as i cud
i found out he had a myspace
but he sed he nvr goes online
i told him i'm always on, and no one ever is
so i forced him to go online
soon at school, he stopped trying to hang out w/ da guys and started hanging out at da table where me and my frends were
i got to noe him better soon enough
i both realized we're both kinda evil, in a childish way (he's worst doh haha)
i also realized dat i'm da only one who talks to him on myspace and he still goes online
i was da only one who cud actually continue on his weirdly violent, 'intellegent' conversations
unlike everyone else who jst says 'we dnt care(in a play way) hahaha nah jk'
he was lyk da exact opposite of me, so we got along
he soon put me #4 on his top friends
i started to lyk him a little more
he soon started telling me his secrets, and i was da only one dat noes about dem
i started to lyk him even more
but den soon he tells me he likes this girl dat was third on his top friends(his 1st nd 2nd wer his sisters)
i was disappointed, so i tried to give up on him
but den i was still luking forward to math class even doh he liked sum1 else
also wen i realized he was going to play an instrument for da 8th grd of 07 grad, i found myself begging for sum1 to take me, jst so i cud talk to him for 1 more extra day before summer
da day after da grad day he told me he stopped lyking da girl
i was strangely really happy
but wen i asked him who he liked now, he sed he dusnt lyk anyone ryt now, i was unordinarily disappointed
wen 8th grd started, i cudnt believe how much i wanted to b in da same classes as him
and on da classes we were both in, i cudnt believe how much i wanted to sit nxt to him
later on, i told da truth on me liking him to my closest frends
dey told me how ugly he was(not in a mean way, but jst in a compared, rlynotdeyrtype thing, rlly not cute and cool is kinda true >_ (link)
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Okay, well i know how you feel. Advice, dont use as much im speak. Well I know you really like Kuro, but i just dont think it would work out. I mean it has been a long time, and you have a bf. He lost a good thing, and he could hurt you in the future. As for shiro, he seems like a really good guy. I say dont give up shiro for kuro because he has liked a lot of girls your close with and just started to like you. He changed who he liked many times. Shiro seems like he only liked you, unlike kuro liking your friends.
Another thing, dont try to make him stop liking your friends. I mean, it makes it harder for you to stop liking him. If he got a gf, one of your close friends, it would be wrong to like him, it would hurt your friend, and bf. I hope my advice helped!
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Ive liked this guy for a year and a half. I havent told him yet cause we're close friends and I dont want to lose him as a friend if he doesnt feel the same way. Well today him and I were jokin around and wrestlin. Well he ended having me pinned where I was on my hands and knees, and he was on top of me with his face mashed against mine. He just stayed like that for a bit before he moved. He flirts with me all the time, and usually goes to the store w/me when I go cause he says he'd feel bad if something happened to me and he werent there. I house sat for 5 days about a month ago and the first night I was gone he texted me late into the night even though he needed to be up early for work the next day. The next day I texted him and was like "same time same place as last night?" I was like yeah! He ended up callin me instead and we were on the phone late again even though he had to be up early again. He called me everyday I house sat cause he said he didnt want me to be bored or lonley
The bad part is, hes engaged. They only see eachother once a week for a couple of hours. Other than that, they talk on the phone a couple times a day. Shes leaving for 4 yrs of college in another city and hes not going with. They dont live together either. They dont plan on geting married for another 4 years. I feel horrible for liking him because hes in a relationship, but hey you cant help who you like right?I have also got to say that I wouldnt do anything with him while he is still in a relationship, its bad enough I feel guilty for just liking him, I couldnt imagine how Id feel if I were the reason theyd broken up.Does it sound like he likes me? Should I tell him how I feel? How should I go about telling him? From what Ive said about his engagement, does it sound like he will get married? (link)
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Well, he is engaged, which makes it pretty hard for you to be with him. You have to tell him how you feel. I know you dont want to lose your friendship, but you have to. Since he is always flirting i think its time to tell him that you really lke him, and that you want to be with him, but you cant because of his engagement. See what he says. Then move on with the relationship, or getting over him, whatever he said just remember, he is engaged and its pretty serious. Good luck!
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