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Help Me Please! What Should I Do?
Ive liked this guy for a year and a half. I havent told him yet cause we're close friends and I dont want to lose him as a friend if he doesnt feel the same way. Well today him and I were jokin around and wrestlin. Well he ended having me pinned where I was on my hands and knees, and he was on top of me with his face mashed against mine. He just stayed like that for a bit before he moved. He flirts with me all the time, and usually goes to the store w/me when I go cause he says he'd feel bad if something happened to me and he werent there. I house sat for 5 days about a month ago and the first night I was gone he texted me late into the night even though he needed to be up early for work the next day. The next day I texted him and was like "same time same place as last night?" I was like yeah! He ended up callin me instead and we were on the phone late again even though he had to be up early again. He called me everyday I house sat cause he said he didnt want me to be bored or lonley
The bad part is, hes engaged. They only see eachother once a week for a couple of hours. Other than that, they talk on the phone a couple times a day. Shes leaving for 4 yrs of college in another city and hes not going with. They dont live together either. They dont plan on geting married for another 4 years. I feel horrible for liking him because hes in a relationship, but hey you cant help who you like right?I have also got to say that I wouldnt do anything with him while he is still in a relationship, its bad enough I feel guilty for just liking him, I couldnt imagine how Id feel if I were the reason theyd broken up.Does it sound like he likes me? Should I tell him how I feel? How should I go about telling him? From what Ive said about his engagement, does it sound like he will get married?
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im going threw the same thing. except the guy i like isnt engaged. haha hes 18 & im 15. anyways i know what your going threw. you like him so much that you want him to be happy. but yet your not happy. its cause yu wanted him to be happy with you. i understand this so much its freaky. like he does like you, jus like the kid i told you about likes me. but yet he has a girlfriend. in your situtation hes engaged. he even told me if i told him i liked him earlier i would be his girlfriend. so best bet is to just be honest with him, lifes not fair so if he breaks up with her for you, what else are you going to do. she sould open her eyes and see to live with him and if she doesnt have that concern to live with him then shes obv not caring as much for him as you do.
well maybe that sounded wack to you.
but hope i helped
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Well, he is engaged, which makes it pretty hard for you to be with him. You have to tell him how you feel. I know you dont want to lose your friendship, but you have to. Since he is always flirting i think its time to tell him that you really lke him, and that you want to be with him, but you cant because of his engagement. See what he says. Then move on with the relationship, or getting over him, whatever he said just remember, he is engaged and its pretty serious. Good luck!
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