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Q: I really like this guy.. but see he has a girlfriend. I know he doesnt like me, but I want him too! lol, well duh. But how can I get him to like me?! See, my name is Acasia and he calls me Asia. Well today it rained, and I was writing my name with my finger on the window, and he said "acasia" and I was like yeah? and He goes "your name is so pretty" I was like really? and he goes "yeah it is" See, hes SOO sweet! What can I do to for him to notice me? I mean he cuddles with all these other girls.. so I dont see how it wouldnt be a problem for me to flirt with him a little.
Sorry its so long!!
IF you give me good answers I will give you a 5!
1 for no good answers.

well you should flirt i'm going through the same thing sortof. he flirts with you so it means he's interested he just has a girlfriend. the pretty name is a defintly great compliment (your name is pretty) and a flirt. so flirt with him don't get to attached yet wait until our sure he likes you and that he breaks up wit hhis girlfriend. i'm sure you will get him eventually or find someone else. keep your eyes open and look for new guys also for the time being. but always keep a place in your heart for him noone likes to be ignored or forgotten becuase they are not liked by you. so just keep your eyes ope nyou might not know who likes you.

Q: okay so i have this computer that i used to use and now i want to use it but the internet doesnt work.. the last time i used it which was maybe in marchish, the internet worked fine but now it doesnt work.. the internet plug is in the computer so what might be wrong?

umm go to the help thing that should be on your computer. it should help maybe it doesn't help me. so go to where ever the main computer is or where ever the internet leads to the plug and it should work. i have a blue plug hidden by the molding around my house for the internet once i followed it and found out the main connection was unplugged so if you have a pc look for the interenet wire and follow it to check it out. other wise go back to thehelp on the start menu hope it helps :)

Q: I have been going out with is cute guy 4 about 2 weeks. But when we were friendz I liked him better than now. He is so serious now. He never talks to me, calls me, & sometimes ignores me! It makes me feel ugly! :( I am getting very mad at him. I don't know why he is like this. I mean I want the old guy that I used to know that would cut up and laugh and everything! Not a guy who completely ignores me!! Please Help! (PLEASE No smarts!) 13/F

hmmm i think you should tell him about this and sit him down and say what's wrong? if he says nothing why? say i just been noticing you been acting very different how? you just havent been your slef your a little uieter. if it doesn't work there is some one lot better for both of you :)

Q: when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

serum works you can search online to see in a store like cvs or somethingor you can do what i do lol. take your time when straightening really make usure its straight hold it there for a few more seconds or straighten like twice or three times and bring a little brush it might help if you get knots or whatever. and you can also just my hairspray and put a little in your hair just to hold the friz down and you can (don't sdo at the same time as hair spray or right after) put lotion in your hands and rub in as normal then run your fingers theough your hair it ill make it smoother hope i helped. :)

Q: I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice!

he likes you a lot. keepe flirting and get him to realize how you like him if you get the nerve tell him that he's a really great guy and maybe tell him you like him on aim. don't just come out and say I LIKE YOU but whe nhe says something sweet be like awa thanks you just make me like you more or something that is obvious so he get's the picture.

Q: Okay. How are you supposed to get rid of under-eye bags?? I hope no one will answer with the word "sleep" because I get plenty. More than enough. And I conceal the bags everyday with concealer. And it might be genetic/stress-related/hereditary, I KNOW. Just tell me how, without purchasing anything, can I get rid of the bags under my eyes?

you should put on powder over the conclealer to if your in a rush :)

Q: ok i am 14/f and i really like this guy!! but he likes one of my best friends!!and she is always braging about it and she knows i like him and she says she dosent like him like that!! but i dont know what to do!! please help ill rate 5's for good answers!!!

like "ispeakspanish" said DO NOT TELL HIM. but just casually flirt and maybe he will like you. in a conversation bring up love and stuff say something about him likeing anyone else. and ask what he wants in a girl. if its like you your good and just make him like you more.

Q: let me start out with i have a boyfriend...heres the story...my boyfrined an me have been brokenup an togther alot of times..an know we are back togteher but scence this is a new school year there are new boys...an there is this one boy anthony that i like an he likes me ..well i didnt find out that he liked me until i started to date my ex that is my boyfirned aagain....please help me should i dump my boyfrined an go out with anthony?????..HELP ME !!! i do like my boyfrined alot but i do like anthony!!!

-tasha

well i would stay with my boyfriend and see how things turn out wit hanthony maybe he's a total jerk but like hang out with anthony one day (just as friends) and see if he's cool then decide by whose better to hang out with.
i'm going through the same thing only i'm in anthony's position:\. so just hang out with anthony and compare to your boyfriend. your young you have plenty of time to fall in love go for the one you realllllly want.

Q: I ordered a belt buckle off belt mania last Tuesday night. The address of the site is in Flordia and I live in Missouri. It said it was Priory (Priority?) Mail Shipping. When should it get here? And also, does UPS or Fed-Ex ship on Columbus Day? I rate high! Thanks a bunch.

it means that it sould get there soon like its middle class regular shipping time is 5-9 days probably and depending on what company you used you can tracdk it. i did that with my lap top and a pair of shoes :)

Q: right now i feel awful.my best friend nicki she totally has a friend named matt(hawttie). She is crushing on him so am i. All of us no that including him. He also has the nerve to ask me if he could makeout with nicki. what a jerk now i feel bad because i think she is doing stuff behinde my back.
now i think she is mad at me she won't answer my AIM she nos how i feel and if he ever liked me i can not go out with him because my friend nicki denied him because of me. at least that wat she acted like.

confront her and be like your not making out wit hhim right?

but anyway you two should not worry about things like guys don't let them get in the way you will find someone better.

Q: Right. I want an MP3 player, but the one I want says it is only compatible with USB 2.0 (or 'backwards' with USB 1.1). What on earth does that mean in English? And will this be OK on my PC, as my PC is now like 4 years old and a Windows 98.
Thanks!

it will be fine it just means you have to have a usb driv your speakers on your pc is probably in one. its usb plug is a plug and usb port is the out let sort of thing.

Q: k, here is the worst moment of my entire life. it is something I would say every single girl dreads happening. I was about 13 and was at the local six flags water park, my best friend and I were hanging out with some guys we liked and the day was going pretty good. all of a sudden the guy I was crushing on (steve) turns to me and is like "hey! do you wanna go down the intertube slides with me?" I was so excited I jumped right off but as I stood my best friend was like "omg turn around" so I turned and looked and she mouthed "blood" to me... see I was on my period, I thought I was gonna be fine I had changed like 2 hours ago but I guess not cuz my whole frickin butt was covered in blood! I was embarassed, but luckily the guys were cool with it they said "oh its okay, we understand-just go change and then we'll head out" so I quickly wrapped a towel round me and headed off to the bathroom. as im walking away I hear steve go "huh, I have chew on my arm.." (all the guys chewed, which now I realize is totally disgusting, I don't know why I was even wasting my time) anyways one of the other guys go "dude that's not chew that's her blood!!!" steve freaked and ran into a pool to wash it off, I think I hid in the bathroom for an hour, until my friend came and got me telling me that the boys had leave and that we should go. I was mortified, that is something a teenage girl should never have to go through!

How do i get over this.... i mean theses guy r very judgmentally wat can i tell them to not make fun of me??? I dont ever want to see theses guys again im 'scared' to confrint themill rate 5!!!!

lol don't worry so much poop happens lol.
soon you will be able to laug hit off i mean its going to be rough but just pretend like nothing big happened. its a normal thing. and if they do talk about it to you just say its not as bad as whe nso and so got it.
if you can't think of a mpore embarrassing story use mine:

7th grade i ran the mile i was pretty good at it for once. i was jsut getting used to the clicks and stuff but that's not the point. all day i felt as if my butt was wet after running the mile (i had gym 1st period) and i was getting self consiouc so after 8th period (i knew i gotten my period by the way) i ran to my locker and jumped on the bus by the time i got home and went upstairs to changed my pad i found out i gotten my period really bad. i meab white underwear turned read bad i was wearing jeans that day and you oculd totally see wetness. my butt all read.

i pretended like nothing happened but then later on not that much later mind you i was laughing about it with my friends. hoping noone noticed.

so if that doesn't work with the story thing laug hit off it works.

Q: sry if this is long but ok so like the thing is my parents got divoreced 3 years ago and now i have a step bro and step sis. All of a sudden i think i am to fat even though i no i am way skinny and i want to become belimic. Also i just dont see a point in living i mean u always go to school and work what is the point in it? please help me what should i do?

you think your fat: so does like every person on the plantent don't worry about it you know your skinny and that's all that matters. but if you are seriously thinking about being bellimic don't i mean its kinda gross and actually would make you gian wieght. instead try exerscieing or go on a healty diet like cut down on snacks you would lose wieght or not gain any.

and step brother and step sister: it sucks but now you have a bigger family and more peopole too look out for you and look out for them. you may not realize it now but they will always look out for you even if they're like five now they'll grow up eventually. and look on the positives of haveing them like if their nice or funny or fun to be with instead of negatives it helps get past on the little annoying things they do.

and about life: make everyday have a purpose. see a good movie or something. make you life a living motion picture movie lol. it sounds wierd but you should try to make youe life interesting go out find someone to love, or just do the dumbest things with your friends. your young people exoect you to do dumb things. but don;t take it personally when they say how annoying teenagers are trust me or if you get in trouble trust me because the truth is they want to be like that agian. you wil l never grow out of adolesence if you don't enjoy it. rest up on the weekends when you can and the ntry to make every little thing as fun as possible.

and about divorce: hey now you have a bigger family and more presents for b-days lol. you will stay in touch wit hboth parents.

Q: does anyone know what it means to be "idle" on aim? i'm totally confused by that! lol thanks...

lol it means the yhaven't bee ntalking to anyone in a while like they forgot to put an away message up or that they did and been away for 10 minutes minumum theres a way on prefrences so you can't see it.

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