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ask me anything thats what i`m here for! don`t hold back..i`m very straightfoward and honest giving my advice. it might not be the best or maybe you dont like it but sometimes people need to hear the truth once in their life. so rate me whatever you like. my name is alexxa my friends call my lex or lav and i`m 13 years old. i`m going into my 8th grade year at school and with that comes a lot of drama. i have the most best; best friend in the world! her name is julia and we are inseperable. i`m not exactely sure what "clique" i`m in, but most of my friends are pretty cool. im sort of a prep but i don`t like to get dressed up too often..jeans and a tank is good enough for me. my favorite stores are aeropostle and american eagle. i play basketball, softball, soccer, and run track and corss country. i`m don`t play an instrument because i`m not cordinated enought to. i`m really irish so dont diss the green. i live in south buffalo, new york where almost everyone is irish and if your not your well..not cool. i`m also polish, and scotish. i`m sort of a music whore but whatever..i love greenday, the click five, fall out boy, all-american rejects, and lifehouse, gwen stefeni, will smith, DMT,. some of my favorite songs are: just the girl, be my escape, cool, wake me up when september ends, american idoit, sugar we're going down, drop it like its hot, and golddigger. i love to travel also, i`ve been to sao paulo, brazil -laguna beach, california -hong kong, china and a bunch of other places. i`d love to go to ireland, paris, wales, england, and york someday. i love getting questions in my inbox so go ahead and ask. i`m better with the lovelife, friendships advisory but ask me anything you`d like. i perfer longer questions to short ones but will answer any if you just ask. i love decriptive questions..takes a load off my back. they are easier to answer too..so please if you need advice..ask me. [Attention Columnists..if you are rad and add me as one of your favs..i`ll return the compliment =D] if you need to im me, my screename is ixi l0ve y0u x0o. EVERYONE PLEASE PRAY FOR THE PEOPLE IN NEW ORLEANS AND ALL THE OTHER PLACES HURRICANE KATRINA HIT! THEY NEED YOUR PRAYERS!--->xOxO

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okay, theres this guy i like we just started talking online today.. but anyway he suddenly just imed me out of the blue and was just talking! I didnt understand why all of a sudden he wanted to talk to me.. but yeah. At school tuesday I want to say something to him but I dont know what.. what should i say?

dear asker♥ you don`t have to say anything special..if he IMed you out of the clear blue he must like you, so just be you. maybe think about what he likes and just start the conversation off talking about something likr homework and stuff like that. remember to just be yourself. hope i helped a bit.

`drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice
-->xOxO Alexxa♥

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Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?

dear asker♥ my friend has the same problem but i know, you just don`t want to tell her. try offering her ice breakers and mint gum a lot..also next time she tells you, you have bad breath..smell your breath and say .."mm..my breath dosen`t smell" maybe she`ll smell her own and realize it`s her breath that smells. hope i helped a bit.

drop one in my inbox next
time you need some advice
--->xOxO Alexxa♥

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okay so i am 10 going on 11 and ive had about id say 8 bfs in my lifetime. right now i am dating this one guy named josh. hes really nice funny and cute and i want to have sex with him. i was wondering the best type of condom that i can use.thanks love always
ashley

dear asker, i`m not sure but you shouldn`t be thinking about that you are wayy to young and if your boyfriend is pressuring you you shouldn`t be with him.

xOxO; Alexxa

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I've been trying to get my layout for myspace to work for the past couple of hours and have had no luck. I used http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/reborn_3_2.htm to make my layout and when I preview you it looks right but when I put it into the "about me" section it doesn't come out the same. The size of the tables seem to change. The tables on the right with the "Latest Blog Entry", "about me", "friends" etc. sections turn really small. Does anyone know how I could possibly this and get the tables alligned properly?
Thank to everyone that helps!

dear asker♥after a while it will go away..but it may be the layout..here is a great site where i always get my layouts from they are all perfectly aligned:
www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?page=1
hope i helped a bit. feel free to ask me questions whenever you need help..here is my myspace:
www.myspace.com/_beautiful_disaster_xO
xOxO; Alexxa♥

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Ok im ging to the mall tommorw, I wear jeans size 10 slim and I shop at Abercrombie kids or Old Navy, if i went into Abercrombie and Fitch or Hollister or American Eagle, would i be able to find jeans that fit me?

dear asker♥ no, i dont think they would fit, they would be a bit too big.. i wear a size 16 slim jeans and that is a bit too big, sorry. try aeropostale though they have smaller sizes. hope i helped. feel free to ask me questions whenever you need advice on something.

xOxO; Alexxa♥

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ok so theres a kid at my school that picks on other people because they cant spell good. hes all like.. you'll never meet anyone if you cant spell.. but we know its not true but no one will stand up to him. what should we do?

dear asker♥ first off that seems like a really stupid way to bully people..because they can`t spell? and yes, you are right. you can meet people w/o knowing how to spell great [look at me..i suck!]..did you try taking to a teacher [yeah i seems a really lame and oldfashioned way, but heck! it works!], if not try that..also try to convince some people to stand up to him ["some" as in a group]..well i hope i helped somewhat. feel free to ask me questions anytime you need advice.

xOxO; Alexxa♥

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ok well..i was wondering if u can help on something ...well im going out with this guy who i relle like but is the total opisite of me because he's like gangster and stuff and im not and everyone thinks that im gross for going out with him and they will always be like eww him hes ugly that kid and it gets really annoying and it makes me not want to be with him and dump him because everyone keeps bothering me over it and i dont no what to do ..do you know?

dear asker♥ dont listen to everybody else, they`ll always say stuff whether negivtive or postive, you can`t stop them. the one bit of advise that i can give you is to listen to your heart, not them. if you like him..why dump him because others don`t? are they going out with him? no, you are so it`s your voice that matters. if you don`t like him, i mean you really don`t like him[not because of what everyone says] then dump him, by all means. but really, you shouldn`t listen to everybody because its not about them. its about YOU & HIM. hope i helped. feel free to ask me questions whenever you please.

lyls xOxO; Alexxa♥

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my friends gf broke up with him and hes really depressed and shes such a bitch to him was and still is im like forget about her u can do some much better hes like no i cant! im like watever yea u can i dont knw wat to tell him

dear asker♥ i suggest you try to get him out a little more, show him he can do better..seeing is believing. he sounds like he won`t get better till he`s got someone new in his life [his much better]. well i hope i helped somewhat. feel free to ask me a question anytime.

xOxO; Alexxa♥

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I hate being shy... How can i overcome this?? I mean i just started HS and i dont want people to think of me as the "shy" one.... HOW do you Become NOT shy! if you help automatic 5

dear asker♥ try to speak your mind..if something is bothering you speak up! and if you have something on your mind..dont be afraid to tell someone. i know its hard to change your ways entering hs and all but just try thats all, you'll never know what could happen if you dont try. i hope i helped a bit.

dont be afraid to leave me
a question in the inbox `
xOxO Alexxa ♥

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i really like this guy and i cant tell him.. how should i be able to tell him how i feel without scaring him away?

dear asker♥ as long as this person isn`t dating anyone i doubt he`d be scared away to know someone likes him..but just in case..try to become "friends" with him, you know hang out with him and talk about stuff you can talk about with your "best friends" if he wants to be friends with you..just tell him how you feel, i`m sure he wouldn`t be scraed away if you are friends. hope i helped.

don`t be afraid to leave
a question in the inbox`
xOxO Alexxa ♥♥

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Okay, well i straighten my hair alot because i have like thick wavy hair, that takes like a long time to straighten,so its like dried and frizzy, and like ends are like fried off everywhere. is there anything i can use on my hair to make it healthier again? And my hair also grows VERY slow, is ther anything to make it grow faster?

i'll rate 5's

Dear Asker, I have the same problem; my hair is very wavy and very thick..and i striaghten my hair a lot also to make it easier to handle..i recently got advise from a hair stylist so this is what i do now and my hair has been getting healthier. try using a thick conditionder[ i suggest TRESemme Pro Vitamin B5 & Aloe Remoisturizing Conditioner] in the shower right after you get out..rinse some of it out, not so theres leftover conditiondor on your hands when you run them through your hair but so it feels as if its damp. then when you get out comb out your hair so theres no tangles then use a type of styling gel in your hair..then blow dry it straight..this might take a while but it works better than dry hair straightning..then if you have any use a type of hair shine [i suggest CITRE SHINE -Shine Mist Spray Laminator] to top it off..it makes it shine a little more a much healthier look just don`t layer it on all over like hairspray. Hope I helped a bit. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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Whats a good way to impress a guy? I need details people i rate high.

Dear Asker, to impress a guy..find out what he likes try to show interests in his favorite things such as his fav sport fav show fav football player..those types of things..then get prepared [go and make sure you know enough about what he like to have a conversation with him] then just talk to him, bring up some of his fav topics. other than that.. just be yourself! hope i helped a bit! xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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Well, I was wondering if there was a code for myspace that made everything centered and in a line like this. - - - - - - - - But like flipped right side up, if you get what I mean? Because I dont want all my interests and picture on the side, I want it all lined up from the very top. If you dont get what I mean, just picture a stack of blocks.

Dear Asker, I dont know how to get all your pictures lined up but here are some HTML codes that will help you & other people [included: centering]:
[*] to center= [center] text or whatever you want centered[/center]
[*] to bold= [b] text [/b]
[*] to italic= [i] text[/i]
[*] underline= [u] text [/u]
[*] to link= [a href="http://www.myspace.com"]what you want your link to say[/a]

READ THIS IF YOU ARE GOING TO USE THESE!!
__replace all the [ with < -AND- all the ] with > if i put it normaly it work make the code work. IM me if you dont understand this at ixi l0v3 y0u x0o ..Sorry if I couldnt explain it that well..hope I helped someone. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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What exactly is flirting? How do you flirt? How can you tell if someone's flirting with you? I'm 14/f, and I'm a real nerd so I don't know what goes on around.

Dear Asker, Flirting is when you get guys attentions by doing something that turns them on. Such as batting your eyelashes, giggling a lot, complementing the guy, and "hanging" on to the guy [always around him]. Most of the time it`s sort of obvisous if someone is flirting with you because you see that they are trying to get your attention. If someone is flirtinf with you you will most likely know from what I described flirting was above. Hope I helped somewhat. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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I really hate being single...but i am kinda nervous and scared to ask someone out..

Does you have any tips on how i can get over this.

PLEASE HELP!

Dear Asker, the only tips I would have are think oof the advantages of being single..[*] you can always say yes if someone asks you out [*] you dont have that "responsibility" of being with someone..you can party your ass off if you feel like it and go crazy and have some fun with the boys without getting in "trouble" think of those things..eventually you`ll get over this feeling. Hope i helped a bit. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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I am having a new friend over today, and I would like some ideas on what we can do. I have DDR so that is one thing, but besides that all I can really think of is tv. I am a female/16 if it helps! Thanks!

Dear Asker, here is a list of things you could do with your friend.
[*] Talk/Gossip [in a good way!! lol]
[*] Magazine quizzes [those are always fun]
[*] Listen to some new CDS and such.
[*] Give eachother make-overs.
[*] Computer
[*] Movies with popcorn
[*] play a sport

--bascially anything you do with your other friends when you hang out. Hope I helped a bit. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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ok sry this is so long but i need help

i went out with this one guy for like 2 years and he was my first kiss, first make out and everything and i broke it off with him about 2 months ago

well i have a new boyfriend now and im crazy about him but i still kinda have feelings for my ex-boyfriend i told my friends about it and they said it was normal to not forget ur first love they said what iwas feeling was just memories and

i dont have real feelings for him anymore??
r they right what do u guyz think???


i'll rate high!

Dear Asker, I think their advise is excellent. It is normal to have feelings toward someone who you liked for so long, I'm not sure if you have real feelings for him or not, just wait a while [say about 2 more months]if you still have feelings towrd your ex..it might be real but also realize that those feelings may just be friendly feelings, like you care about him. I hope I helped somewhat. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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ok this is gonna sound gross but i get REALLY bad pit stains and they are so embarassing! does any1 know any deoterant that gets rid of them besides secret b/c im alergic to that and dove b/c it doesnt work either...!

i'll rate all 5's to good answers!

Dear Asker, Its not gross. It happens to practicially everyone at some point during their lives. I would suggest using bod-heat activated DEGREE. It glides on clear and if you dont put too much on you won't get deodorant makes. I use it in Shower Clean. The good thing is it is an anti-perspirant(helps you noy sweat) and deodorant(helps you not "smell". Hope I helped in someway; xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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Ok, Im 14/f and im goin into a new skool this year and its not liek my old skool where i had 2 waer a uniform. I really dont kno what 2 wear the frist day. Im not a prep or punk or goth. I really dont have a certain style. Can u help?
Thnx!

Dear Asker, Yes. I had the same problem when I moved to Brazil, I went to an american school there but I was attending a catholic school with a uniform dress code so i didnt really know what to wear either. My suggestion is for you to wear what you wear going out with friends, and such. Most people dont have a "style" either, they just have different so called "style flings" where they are into one thing at one time and then that changes. Just be yourself, wear what you think is "you". Hope I helped a bit. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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what is a good women deatarent (sp) that leaves you dry for atleast a couple of hours and keeps odor away? thank you

Dear Asker, I use body-heat activated DEGREE in shower clean..its an anti-perspirant & deodorant and its invisble solid (goes on clear). If not, DEGREE i would suggest using a SECRET brand. Hope I helped somehow; xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]

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