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One of my best friends used to have this "thing" with this guy. They seemed perfect for each other. But he stopped talking to her and pretty much dumped her, even though they weren't dating. She still has really strong feelings for him and I was there for her throughout the entire time. Now, I'm beginning to like this guy, and well he likes me too. My friend suspects something is up and I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt her in any way. But I think I really like this guy, and he really seems into me too, but I know my friend would be devastated if I started dating him. Like I said I don't know what to do. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Do I tell her that I like him or not? What do I do about this guy? Do I pursue a relationship or what? I really need some advice! Please help!

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OK since she really liked him and it seemed llike he liked her too and then just "dumped" her i would say dont do anything with him.It seems like he's just a player.Having a friend is so much better than just have a boyfriend for a couple of months or so.You can still talk to the guy but dont go out with him.He could do the same thing to you as he did your friend and then you wouldnt have aboyfriend or that friend anymore.Seems like the risk of losing her is to great to take.There are tons of guys find two that are good friends and maybe you and your friend could double date .

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ok well there is this guy and his name is Josh..we have liked each other a lot for a while..and he asked me out and of course i said yes..well we went out for a day then he broke up with me and claimed that he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Well after that he stopped talking to me. And i do not know why he did this because we only went out for a day and it shouldn't be awkward at all really!! and i want to know..how do i get him to talk to me? because im not the type to go up and talk to him if he doesnt want to talk to me! people say he still likes me and he didnt break up with me cuz he didnt like me or ne thing..he just didnt want his relationship with me to end like his other g/f's did (they went out for 9 months and then never talked after) so how do i get him to talk to me?

I think you should go up to him and talk about it.Hes most likely gonna respond to you unless hes just mean and rude. And in that case you dont need him.Start out just by like saying Hey in the hallways and just the usual conversation "hey whats up? ect"If this doesnt work try to figure out why he wont talk to you. Cause yall only went out for one day i dont think there could be a reason not to talk to just because your kinda his ex.

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I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...

I think he likes yall.and you should go to the movies with him .Guys like short girls cause it makes them feel all big and muscular cause they can pick you up and stuff.hmm gets on my nerves when guys just randomly pick me up or stand over me and are like hows the weather down there but thats just me.ok Any whose like i said he likes you and you like him . take a chance go out with him i mean whats the worst that could happen ? It doesnt work out and so yall are just friends again? Doesnt seem like such a bad risk to take.

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ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do?

ok well i think you should keep being friends with him and all but maybe u could get a different friend ask him if he likes you but dont make it obvious that thats what your getting her to do. like get her to ask him if he likes like 5 other girls and u be in the group of girls thats shes asking about. and if he says no just act like you didnt even no your friend was asking him that.

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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

OK well lots of my friends are cutters unforntentally. I think you should stop. since you cant talk to your parents about it you should really talk to like one of your good friends they will help you over come it .The reason most people cut is to get rid of there anger/sadness i dont see how it helps but if you could cheer up your life it would probably make it easier to stop cutting . if you need to talk to me about this conntact me through yahoo-insanlykrazie76313
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