'Allo.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Tae Kwon Do instructor
Member Since: October 19, 2003
Answers: 55
Last Update: February 26, 2005
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Recently this guy said I have a lot of pubic hair. He said it was abnormal. I didn't think it was. He said it looked like a forest. Now I'm really embarrassed about this. He keeps making fun of me and these other guys were asking if I shave. I'm getting a new bathing suit for this field trip I'm going on and I'm going to get some wax so I can remove this embarrassing black hair from my stomach. I looked at the wax I am going to buy and noticed that you shouldn't remove hair from genital/vaginal areas.
Well I know I'm not going to use a razor sinse it can cause in-grown hairs and comes back thicker and makes skin irritated.
I can't use my depilatory creme at home because you shouldn't use it for pubic ahir.
I tried to look for some wax that removes pubic hair but I can't find any and the trip is coming up in 6 days.
Do I have to shave down there? I don't want to! This one girl said she got a mohawk. Okay? Will it look bad if I get a small swimsuit and don't remove the hair? I don't think I should listen to the guy. But if I use a razor wouldn't the hair poke out of the swimsuit? I'm still buying the regular wax for my stomach and bikini line.
I don't know what to do! If you now of any wax that can remove pubic hair please tell me. (I can't go to a salon to do it!) Thanks! 14 year old girl. (link)
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a razor may leave razor burn or you can scratch yourself if you're not careful. if you really want to, though, then hand peel-able (is that a word? o.O) cold wax would work best. why are you with him anyway? my bf takes me for how i am... i'm kinda hairy every where xP but one question. you're fourteen. my age. why is a dude looking at your pubic hair, anyway????
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If (without knowing) you sleep on sheets that may have semen on them, could you get pregnant? Like, if your brother was jacking off in your bed, and you never knew, is it...like, possible?????????PLZ PLZ tell me!! (link)
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it's not sexual intercourse between you and your brother so unless he raped you in the night or you subconciously allowed him to stick his dick in you, you don't hafta worry.
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What is the meaning of life? (link)
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the meaning of life relies completely on what you make of it. so another person cannot answer that for you.
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I'm 13 years old and I have a 2.5 inch long penis when it gets a boner. If I asked any of you women out there, would you suck it? (link)
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...you're thirteen. and you have........ two and a half inches? a couple things. before you ask such things number one- get older, get married, and ask you wife, number two- what's there to suck?
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i have dis friend dat likes dis otha friend but i waz talkin 2 d phone wit dis friens which it a boy n he waz z lyk sweet talkin me n said he is no worrin bout m otha friend so y d next day he was like i like ya otha friend dat kinda hurt me cuz on d phone he was like we sound like a couple and ya betta gurl den ya otha friend so dat reallu hurt me what should i say 2 dis friend dat is a boy without him tellin all his friendz wha i told him!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????? (link)
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please write back when you learn to talk properly. Welcome to America. NOW SPEAK ENGLISH!!! maybe then you'll get more advice.
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There is this boy in school that I live.He loves me back,but here's the problem.There is another girl in school he loves(she loves him back,too).Even though he said he loves me more,I am still worried that he will dump me 4 her.What do i do?I can't help but 2 love him!! (link)
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...if he really loves you would he make you worry? do you WANT to love someone you have to fret about and question their love?
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I'm gay, is that bad? (link)
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are you a bad person in yourself? no? then why would you think it's bad??? you don't see people hating ME cause i'm ASIAN.
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thanx a lot yes i entered a poem into it and one the contest i was wondering about my peom because lately my friend has been telling me my work sux and is crap (link)
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friend? well... this doesn't seem to be much of a friend if she/he says so. >=o
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Ok this is going to be a semi-novel but I'll try to make sense. I'm 15 and at the beginning of September I met a guy(whom we'll call Bob).We were friends for a little over a month,and around the middle of October we kissed for the first time;he asked me out very soon afterword.our mutual friends had been bugging Bob to ask me out because it was obvious he liked me.He made the announcement to our them that he asked me out and it was understood that we were a couple.so from that day on, tho we never went anywhere(lack of money and transportation played a major role )but we still managed to kiss at every opportunity(including behind the school at lunch)and took every opportunity we could to be together. One day, we were talking and I mentioned that a friend of mine who(that I have known since childhood was jealous)that we're a couple; he says "well you know, i only see us as friends and plus there's this girl i'm interested in.she lives in maryland" and I go "but i'm here.she's there and I'm here" and he goes "well I've known her since july.plus i helped her through a serious breakup..." and I go "so why did you ask me out?why do you kiss me if we're only friends?" he goes "I don't know" so we weren't talking much for about a week and then suddenly we started up with our old routines. We have been doing this everyday since. My friends tell me that I need to get rid of him. Should I? Thanks… (link)
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if he can't answer why he kissed you or perhaps even acted like he loved you, then imagine what else he does not know. you have to ask yourself this. do you want to take a heartbreak because this boy thinks that just because that girl is in another state, it won't hurt you? territorials barriers between states are nothing, but he has definetaly crossed the line. does he love you or not? it seems he doesn't know. do you want to be with someone who can't feel for you as you feel for them? i wouldn't.
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My friends and I sometimes make ourselves throw up like if we eat a really big meal and don't want to get fat from it. It's not bad, we're not anorexic or anything, and I know a ton of people who do it. But this one girl at our school found out and is like freaking out about it... how do we let her know it's okay? (link)
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news flash- IT'S NOT OKAY! making yourself throw up lowers your potassium level in your body. without this, you can get seriously ill and die. if you're concerned about your weight- eat light foods! putting your health at risk is NOT okay. think it's no big deal? think again. so think about it... are you doing this so you can look good at your viewing when everyone looks upon your body in the casket wish shame to have known you and your friends???
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Is it just me or are some women/girls SO FUCKIN STUPID? I don't know one single girl who doesn't talk about her own friends behind their back, and the number of girls i know who obsess over makeup is astoundingly large(i'm 13). I'm a girl, most of my friends are girls, but I'm finding that guys are a little bit easier to get along with. Yeah, they're idiots, but they get over arguments easier and don't make a big deal over fights and stuff. And sometimes you need a goofball to make you laugh. I consider my self a feminist, and am trying to ween my friends off of makeup and back-stabbing(it's working :)). So: Do women change as they get older? Get less insane? At all? (link)
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whoa whoa whoa!! don't speak that way! it sounds as if you are saying all girls are like that. i'm your age! i don't talk about my friends behind their back! i don't wear makeup (unless chapstick counts...)! yes, girls like those change! it's called maturity, chica. get to know some girls who aren't like these before you start putting up these questions! just take some time and you will see the answer.
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i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
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for all you know, u can marry him. and it can end up being an abusive relationship if he's practically frickin schitzo! if he hangs with drugs, he is a drug himself. once you try him, you are hooked. don't let it get to you. better safe then sorry, yes?
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This guy at my school has a big crush on me. He's the type who goofs off and tries to get laughs from everybody, so of course he makes it nice and obvious to every single person in my school that he likes me. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy. But I really don't like him back. I can understand, I've been in his situation, but when I was told the guy didn't like me, I shut up. And I hadn't said anything before that. But it's real torture, and you should have heard the whole class laughing at me when the teacher unwittingly picked us for partners on a long project. It's awful. I've presented this to him, and I can tell he's trying, but he can't stop, even though I kind of swallowed my crush when this happened to me. This might even be something that would relate to us not getting along as an item, plus I'm not ready for a b/f. But nevermind. Anybody have some advice about how to make him hold off? or something??? (link)
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if he really likes you, then he would also respect you, yes? then if you need time before this whole thing and are unready for a boyfriend, he would respect your decisions. relationships are built on trust, honesty, and respect.
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Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do (link)
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you keep on saying "like". this is an old quote, but one that helped my friend out of a relationship that would've been a sexual abusive relationship- "don't wait for the one you can live with. wait for the one you can't live without." if you only "like" them, don't even think of it. the only one you will truly love is the one God has destined for you. or Buddha. or.... whatever deity you worship.
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Hi..you answered my question about my ex watching me. You said that I should flaunt it and make him realize what he's lost is far better than what he has now. And I was just wondering, if you had any ideas on how I should flaunt it? hehe. Thanks.
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flaunt? whoever told you to do that is a major bitch... have you ever had this kind of thing flaunted in your face? it's not happy. tears and pain only come of this. don't flaunt it, just let it be.
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I'm very confused. I have major crushes with 3 guys. One I've known since second grade. two of the mentioned males are in eighth grade, the other in sixth. I'm in seventh. What do I do? (link)
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if they were to die, which one would you commit suicide over?
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I have been going out with this boy on and off since january 11th 2003 and we have broken up 5 times .Each time I dumped him but we always got back together within like a week. At first he was obssessed with me but somehow it all changed and i became obssessed with him . Recently he has been changing and ignoring me and finally he dumped me for the first time and really hurt me because I felt like I was madly in love with him and would marry him. I thought he felt the same way but he said that lately it felt like I was more of a friend to him then a girlfriend. Now during our whole relationship he has also on and off liked his first girlfriend and went out with her for two days before dumping her one time when we had broken up. So after Iam starting to kinda get over him and thinking of the good things of why were over (like no more heartbreaks) he calls me up and says hes completley over his first girlfriend and hints he wants to go back out with me but im not sure i should i mean i still like him but will i just be going back to the old heartbreak ? Our relationship has been down hill ever since he realized he still liked his old girlfriend. To make matters worse my best friend said she wont be my friend anymore if we get back together because my boyfriend said he is just going to keep dumping me for his 1st girlfreind and then getting back together with me and she can't stand seeing me hurt.To get back together or not? What is your advice? (link)
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that bastard! get rid of him! out the door he goes! get the broom! he's obviously not taking relationships seriously if he does this kinda stuff. i think your best friend is right. listen to her. there's a reason why she's your best friend.
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I met a guy in a chat room....We have a lot in common and a lot of the same interests. I am 15 and he is 37...he looks way younger. I have been hanging out with him after school and at the mall. I want to date him. I am very attracted to him and he is SO nice and sweet to me. He takes me to lunch, etc. Should I get involved with him even though we have a huge age difference? I don't think it makes a difference. (link)
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damn.... he's only a few years short of being your DAD'S age!!! get a grip. would this work out? if you married him, would you want to be a widow earlier than anyone else??? love can stand age, but sometimes it cannot withstand time.
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If you're too shy to ask someone out in person is it creepy to write them a note? (link)
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haha... i did that in second grade. watch out. they can get scared and even... BUM BUM BUM!!! show their friend! *scream echoes through the air* you want no proof. talk in person or through another person. but a note is a no-no.
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Everybody in my school has already had like 10 boy/girl friends... I've had none. Thats right... zip, zero, zilch! They all say how great it is to be hooked up, and they always have someone to dance with at activity nite. I have nobody!
Sincerely,
BoyCrazy (link)
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damn, girl! having a boyfriend isn't just for having one! maybe some people at school do that. just for the heck. but it will become nothing! take your time. make sure that when you find someone, it's what you really want. other people might soon be on the floor crying all around you about a breakup, but you can be standing hard as a rock. you don't need a boyfriend if you're still this immature, as to want one just because everyone else is doin it. wait until you know what love is.
"What did i know, what did i know, of love's painful austares?"
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