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hi this is mandi! i put a question out on the activism page like this one! hopefully more people will see it here and be able to help me! i really want to start an organization! im a teenager, and i really want to help the world. im thinking of getting people to donate bible and i can like send them to africa or sumthin. gosh i pray every night the rebels in africa would be stopped...ugh!! i feel the only thing i can do to help those women who are being raped everyday is to pass on the word! please help me! im wondering how to start an organization! please answer--i give good ratings and feedback for good answers--also if you have any questions or more info, please put it on my column! reelbigfishingirl (link)
i would let u use my website for publicity just send somethin 2 my inbox and i'll get back to ya!!


how do u rate somebodie (link)
whan u view da answers you will see some numbers c;ick on 5 for the best and 1 for the worst


hey my best friend likes this kid who soposably likes her. ((yesterday {july 1,2004} me {sarah} and my friend {tara} and 2 guy friends {kyle, david} went to a carnival. now tara likes kyle but david likes tara. sarah thinks that kyle likes her but someone thinks that david likes sarah. when sarah talked to tara about this, tara gets all conceeded when sarah says that she thinks that david likes her and sarah was all like no they both like me. and sarah was like w/e. after sarah left the carnival soposidly. kyle asked her out like 3 times and the last time she said yes. now sarah is really good friends with kyle and she went out with him befor and he broke up with her like 3 days ago but he only did because he diudnt want to ruin there friendship. but see tara and kyle dont even have a friendship but out of all the girls he went out with (3)he broke up with them like 2 to 3 days later because he doesn't like having grl friends. (he told me, i am his best friend) but see sarah kinda still likes kyle and kyle still kinda like sarah more than a friend but they are not going to go out b/c sarah has a man but tara always thinks that she is so OMG when ever she gets a boyfriend (because kyle asked her out) and now david id mad because kyle new that david liked kristen and he doesn't even care soposidly.) how do i keep my friend from thinking she is so "OMG I AM SO COOL"when ever she gets a boyfriend and how do i get her from being so conceeded about boys and her self. (also she thinks she has these big DD boobs and it is from padding) (link)
send me something that is a little more clear
and i'll be happy to help


on saturday im going to one of my friends house... to go meet her boyfriend and at first it was just something where like him and 3 of her friends were going but one of the people going made it into this big thing where alot more people are going. im really weird about going because there are going to e 2 guys from our school... they both are good friends with the girl that made it into a big thing... so she's gunna be the center of attetion i know it... and im gunna feel left out... also me and that girl arent very straight... theres this other girl that all of a sudden shes good friends with her and i am to its just it pisses me off that shes gunna go with the other girl and those 2 guys and leave who ever else to get paired up into groups... the girl's house... the girl that owns the house her boyfriends coming and im scared of meeting him... and my mom might say no! and im not a good swimmer and were gunna be going in the canal... and i havent told anybody that part of the story but i dk... there are way too many problems and i really wunna go but its getting me pissed even thinking about all im gunna have to do. i hate it when people leave me out and go into groups and stuff because it just pisses me off and makes me feel bad! (link)
u need to decide whhat u want more........... the party or not bein POed


i need serious help! my friend gets mad extremely easyly! And she doesnt want to be friends w/ my other beset friends! Just b'cuz she calls her fattie like 3 times! SHE CALLS EVERYONE FATTIE, its just a habit! So, i tried to fix things and said "I'll talk to her." and i did!!! then she calls her it ones and is sry, she just forgot. And now *sally* (not real name, using fake name) is mader than ever! And shes sry. but *sally* is still totally pissed! And she wont listen to me when i say that she didnt mean anything by it!
what do i do! they cant stop being friends, it'll totally brake the group!!!
sorry, if its long! (link)
tell your friend to talk to the person she is callin fattie. tell her that ur friend didn't mean anything by it.


I am so sorry. I just had to write a fellow singer. I always feel that me and singers always bond somehow. Good Luck with your singing
Lizzy (link)
i'm a singer and a electric guitar player

**harrisgurls**


i've was a cutter for like 3 months and i decided to quit before i got sent away i've only been clean for a week..i know thats not long...but then i found out my friend killed himslef by cutting and i dont know how to handle that and my other friend has a problem with cutting...and im just really confused..?!?!

is there anything i can do to help my friend...

and how to i let my emotions out without hurting myself....please help!!

-Ababii (link)
to help your friend, you should talk to her/him and say you love them and you don't want them to hurt themselves

music is a great way to let out emotions!


ok well you see i have this friend and well he flirts with me all the time i mean really flirts and him and my brothers are friends and he says he cant do anything witch means he cant have a relationship but then again he asked all these sexual questions and well bascially he wants to have sex and well im still a virgin in every way and i dont want to but hes very persusve and well i tell him no but he still asks and if theres no relationship i cant do that im mean im16 not stupid and i dont beleive in fwbif so what should i do give in or stand my ground. (link)
stand your ground! no mean no!


okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?
(link)
she will eventually thank you for giving her the chance to live... after some therapy.


okay at the end of the year we have a 8th grade dance..and this guy asked me to it just as friends and i said yes because we've always been pretty close..but i found out that he flashed girls twice in the same day..@ school! soo yeah it just disgusted me and i don't want to go with him anymore..but i don't know what to tell him. and thats where the problem enlies.
i rate good. unless your a dumbass about what you write back. thanks. (link)
tell him that you heard about the flashing thing and aren't into those kind of guys OR you could lie and say someone asked you before he did and you don't want to go back on your promise.


I am 15 years old. I enjoy writing, whether it be essays for class, reports, or just stories. Writing is probably the thing that I do best in school. I was wondering if anyone knew of a good college for writing, a college with a well known or successful creative writing class. If anyone can help, the advice would be very much appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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Williams College (MA)
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what are some good truth and dares for when you play truth or dare?? (link)
some questions are

Who is most beautiful person you know (inside and out).
If you could date anyone in the world, who would it be?
Which famous couple throughout history would you like to be a part of?
What is your most romantic dream?
What is your most romantic memory?
If you could kiss anyone in the world, who would it be?
What is the most annoying habit that a romantic partner of yours has ever had?
What is your biggest pet peeve, having to do with a romantic partner?
What is the quality that is most important to you in a romantic partner?
How many times during the day do you think romantic thoughts?
Which relationship appeals to you more, a wild passionate one, or a quiet calm one.

some dares are:
Attempt to stand on your head.
Sing a song in front of people.
Hop around to each person at the party saying, "I'm cupid, and I will help you find love".
Do 3 consecutive cartwheels.
Lead everyone in the chant, "We want food"!


ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now... (link)
your friend is jealous! u have 2 decide between making her happy or making him happy


ok here it is...i moved into a two family house,,,the people downstairs are related to the peopl i lived with upstairs but they have no relation to me...understand? well, the girl downstairs has a baby and a boyfriend. i always had a crush on him but ignored it because i knew it was wrong, but one day we made plans to hang out without everyone else and kept it a secret and thats how it all began and now i have moved out of that house but i continue to see him on the low. i still go to that house because my family still lives there and i am close to this guys daughter and girlfriend, i love him so much and i know how wrong i am! and i always feel bad because im hurting all these ppl around me but no one understands that i really love him! plz no negativity i just need some point of view! i hurt so bad because i am in love with him but i cant keep going like this! i tried breaking it off with him but i just love him so much and i cant turn away and say no to him! (link)
you luv him right.so is he active wit his g/f if so see how far it goes. if not you shouldn't let go.

**jessi**


yeah so i am really good friends with most of the guys i know because i get along with them and i understand them but then there is two of them that i just dont get i like them both and i can not choose because i like them both for different reasons one always goes for my friends becaus ehe thinks im flirting for them and the other one just is like one of my best friends and it is weird liking him but he wont tell me who he likes and he tells me everything can someone help me with this its really bothering me (link)
same thing here!did you ask him directly?


for myspace, i want music but not the music video..does anyone know any really good sites where I can get backround music? (link)
www.MIDI.com
or
go to your Windows media player
and go to the guide and type what you
want the song to be

**jessi**




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