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i dont know what to do this boy really likes this gurl and i really like him he said i was cute but i feel so weird when i am away from him i think this migth be the real thing am i in love i need help?
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aww i know how you feel. Ask him how he feels about you, and of course tell him how YOU feel about him. If things don't change ask the girl he likes if she likes him, and if she doesn't have her convince him to like you. sorry its hte best i can give u lol and good luck.
-->>>>>>> to answer to your feedback, yes we should be friends! IM me tomorrow! or should i say today (Wed.) not right now bc im goin to bed..my sn is blando877 and hopefully we live in the same city lol.


Ok.. I have a really good friend named jake. he and I talked a lot last year and almost got together. Well a couple of weeks ago i hooked up with him and did *stuff* . well he sed that he really cares about me n never wants to see me sad and that if nethin happened he'd kill some1 over me.. and blah blah blah. but at the same time he likes this otha girl. he doesnt like me like that i guess, but i have liked him on and off for 5 years. he is like one of my best friends, and i mean, he says im pretty, and im nice, and all this other stuff but yet he doesnt like me. I dunno wat to do. I wanna give up but I never can. Do you think i will ever have a chance with him, or if he even does rilly care about me? I wanna give up but i dunno wat to do!!!!! (link)
flirt w/ him and MAKE him like you!!! Flirt so he knows you like him and get to know him like even more, people change all the time. forget about the other girl because I'm sure you're better than her! good luck and sorry its not much.


ive known this guy for about 5 years and hes my best friend. i never used to think i had feelings for him until now. but things are getting confusing now, when we hang out he'll do things like put his arm around me or cuddle and i dont know what to think. im starting to feel things for him but i have no idea what he feels about me. i dont know if i should ignore these feelings because i dont want to ruin the friendship we have. any advice would be helpful. (link)
Just start flirting with him a lot until he knows you like him, and until you get an idea he likes you. Smile at him a lot. Call him maybe..plan some times for you two to hang out!!
Hopeeee I helped!!!!!!


ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we just remained the greatest friends. he was soo adorable. he would do anything to make me happy. then soon i really dont know what happened. one night he askeed me who i liked. bc in my profile it had said "single, but completely in love with him" so of course i thought he was kidding bc the only person i told i love you to was him. so i just thought he wanted to be like reasured that i liked him. so then i said i tell you everyday who i love..its you. and hes like i love you too. and i would do anything for you. and you treat me really good and i just want to make you happy. so i thought ok maybe hes going to ask me out. and then all of a sudden he just says. but i dont think it will work out. i know. complete shocker. but he was like i love our friendship we have and i dont know what i would do if we broke up. so i think we should remain great friends. of course hearing that. i was hurt. cause as many times as he told me he loved me. i guess he really didnt mean it like i did. but i cryed alot then. cause i knew things werent going to be the same. and i couldnt believe he actually told me i love you but we need to be friends. but heres the point. now we barely talk, and when we do he just teases me. and i use to think it was cute. now its just completely annoying. and he just doesnt get it that i dont like it.and its defintaly not the same anymore. were not as good friends as before. and i want to change that completely. i want him to be able to talk to me about everything again, and be the one he can joke with, and stuff. i love him to death. as friends of course. and i really need his friendship. but he just seems to not give it to me. and i really need help to get him back as being at least a regualr friend again. anything will help.rank 5 for any advice (link)
awwwwww that is SO sweet. I think what I would do is just start out how you did in the beginning..like I mean start talking to him more and become friends if it is still possible. If its notttt possible for you two to become friends again and if you really can't talk to him like if he won't talk to you or anything, have one of his best friends tell him how you feel about him and convince him to become friends with you again. Or tell him that you don't want to not be friends, and that you want to hang out more and more! ALSO if that works out, take it on from there and maybe you can start flirting with him again. Then you can win him back. This is just what I would do but I hope it helps a lot..if you need anything else on this just ask!


Sometimes I randomly pee a little in my pants. It\'s not like I have to go or anything, and I\'m not laughing or being tickled or anything. It just sort of comes out. It\'s not a lot, but sometimes if I look I can see a tiny wet spot on my pants. I don\'t have to go to the bathroom often and I can hold it for a reasonable amount of time. It\'s just so random and hasn\'t always happened to me, so I\'m just afraid I might randomly have an actual accident and wet my pants in school or something. Is this normal? (link)
it mite not be pee it could be discharge and thats completely normal and im guessing your a girl or i wouldnt of said that


ok i like this kid right hes totally hot~~~ He knos i like him so it became weird so we decide to be friends w/e in the whole deal! but i wanna be more than friends. does any body have tips or ways i can get to like me????????????????

ps ..... no smart ass comments. i am not ugly either! (link)
WOW same deal with me. butttttt the kid likes me back lol. The only thing you can really do to get him to like you, is flirting. This advice i got from someone else, she said just smile at hime a lot because guys love it when you smile at them, and just play around with him. not physically hahaha sorry.
hope I helped and good luck.


ok well im a female and i'm 15 and i have been going out with this kid since june, and well we were like best friends before we started going out and he's like really shy, so when we started going out, we never really hung out and didnt talk on the phone because he doesn't like to, he's never had a girlfriend before and we still haven't hung out and i meet him on the track team, and now we are back at track and he won't talk to me, and like two days before track started again he told me that he didn't really like me as much as he used to, but didn't want to break up, and i still really like him and i think he still likes me but is afraid to like talk/hang out with me. i try to call him and like talk to him and stuff but he just blows it off like its no big deal, what do i do to make him talk to me, and work this whole situation out,please help mee! thankss (link)
No offense but if he blows off calling you back and stuff, I don't think he's worth it. But since you say you realllllllly like him I know how you feel.......and I think you should just tell him in person how you feel. Tell him everything is fine and he doesn't need to be so shy around you. and find out exactly how much he likes you or not. Maybe ask him if you should be better off being friends, and if that happens and you two break up and you move on to a different guy..make him jelous lol then he will want you back.
Sorry for sounding mean at the beginning lol good luck!!!


Okay I like this boy named Peter who lives a town away, and we've been talking alot and he likes me too, the problem is, my sorta friend Marisa dated him and they didnt break up too long ago. I only see her in one class at school and we dont talk that much. but i still feel bad if we were to go out. I dont want her to hate me, especially since shes always saying all this bad stuff about him and she doesnt even know we talk so im in a really bad position.

( but also i dont feel as bad because my best friend was dating this boy name Kevin last year and Kevin broke up with my best friend and the very same day Kevin started Dating Marisa.. and my best friend is better friends with Marisa then I am)

so if Marisa could do it to my best friend.. then why should i feel bad ya know?

I dont know.. any advice? (link)
I think you should just talk to her, and make sure it's okay with her if you went out with him. Ask her how she feels about it and that you don't want her to hate you. Like you asked on that, if Marisa did it to your best friend then you SHOULDN'T feel bad, and if she ends up hating you for dating him then don't say it in a mean way, but kind of tell her that she was being hypocrtical. I mean if she did it to someone, and got mad when it was done to her it's really true..so ask her about it!
Hope I helpeeed.


My bf is awesome. I like hims so much, but the thing is, we run out of things to talk about, so we stick to saying flirtatious things on text. When we talk on the phone, I always feel pressured to keep the conversation going because whenever there is a silence, he always says he has to go. But after we hang up, he always texts me saying how much he misses me and likes me. Does anybody know anything I could say that is flirtatious? Thank you so much.
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hey this is always a problem for everyone. all you have to do is like ask him what he's doing for new years, or what hes doing this weekend. also you could say things like hows your family and if he plays any sports ask how they're going and when his next games are. I'm sure you could think of more things i just thought of those from the top of my head but i hope i helped!!!!




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