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Q: okay so about 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend decided to go on a break and ever since then i've been rediculously horny. i tried masturbating but i was so dry and nothing could work. i figured i was so dry because i got my period twice this month. is it normal that even after stimulating yourself and being really horny you're still really dry?
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As far as your period: if your cycle is normally like clockwork, you should see a doctor if it continues to be irregular.
Sounds like you need to be introduced to LUBRICANT!!!
A water-based lubricant is great for masturbation, and any sex act for that matter. There are also silicone based lubricants out there, but they stay on your skin until scrubbed off, so i recommend water based. ID has a great kind out there called Pleasure, but any water based lubricant will work just find. Just stay away from KY if you can: it was originally created for medical exams, not for sexual acts.
I recommend a trip to your local "novelty shop" for masturbation toys, such as vibrators, dildos and "bullets". Always just remember: Lube up and wash everything afterwards, hands and toys!
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Q: okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the floor, and we changed positions to where i was on the top. After "doing it" for a while, he hit a certain spot kinda up near my butt and it hurt really bad, and i started sweating and then i got light headed and then my vision started fading out, and i could only here light muffled sounds. my boyfriend was yelling but it sounded like he was far away and it lasted for like 3 minutes and then went away. Is this normal? has this ever happened to anyone before? thanks. please don't tell me i need to see a doctor because as of right now thats not a possiblity.
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Is there any possibility you could have an STD? If not, it sounds like he simply hit a bad spot---perhaps hit your cervix? Unless the symptoms continued, it was likely that since the blood was flowing less to your head and more to your naughties, then just like vertigo, you just got a little dizzy from izzie here. If you continue to have pain during sexual intercourse as well as the other symptoms, you HAVE to have yourself checked by a doctor. You can't play with your health. If the symptoms do not reoccur, then write it off and go on. Always make sure to communicate during sex---if it hurts, let him know!
you asked if there was an std that has that symptom---many STDs will cause pain during intercourse. It sounds like you just got bumped the wrong way though, truthfully, and it was your body's response to the flash of pain. If it doesn't happen again, just forget about it.
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Q: can you get pregnant if you have sex in a pool??
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Anytime you have unprotected sex, you can get pregnant, period.
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Q: Me and my girlfriend have been having mutual masturbation since ive been going out with her (2 years ago). She says it feels good when i cum on her belly. Will she somehow get pregnant? And also she says, when she squirts it hurts a bit and when i finger her and when i take my fingers out i see a bit of blood. is there soemthing rong with her? Gimme and advice you can and also some tips on mutual masturbation!! thnx!
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In regards to getting her pregnant: It's highly unlikely, just always make sure that you don't shoot your load too close to her vaginal area, because there is always a chance that you could get her knocked up if you do. Also, watch out for drippage!! Wash your hands well after you cum before you put your fingers in or near her vaginal area.
I don't believe there is anything wrong with your girlfriend. Make sure that you both communicate openly; if it hurts, let her know it's okay to say so.
The best tool you can use in your sex life is communication. Talk dirty and don't hold back! We're all individuals on what we like and what we don't---if you are both vocal and responsive, you'll have a dynamite time together.
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Q: ok so me and my boyfriend want to have sex. i of coarse want to use a condom and hes fine with that. I just wanted to know as much information i can on what to do before hand to prevent anything bad. Like where can i find information on the pill and what types of tests do they do on you to check for stds. i also wanted to know where i can go to get on the pill with out my mom knowing. Im 19 f if that helps
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Check out your local health department: most have programs that offer free birth control and yearly exams for women your age. It's a good idea to have yourself STD tested after every partner, of course. You can have this done at your local health department or your family doctor. Planned Parenthood is a good source of information about birth control as well.
There are many options out there; find what suits you best.
At 19 you have almost no problem going somewhere without your mom finding out as long as you can go to the appointment alone or with a friend.
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Q: me and my boyfriend had sex and the condom broke and he already blew in it but the day after i started my period is ther still a chance that im pregnant?
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It is very unlikely that you are pregnant if you started your menstrual cycle. If your cycle is normal then it's highly likely that you are not pregnant. HOWEVER, if your bleeding is much lighter than normal and stops after only a few hours, then get a pregnancy test: This could be "spotting", which occurs during implantation, 1-7 days after conception.
When in doubt, get a test.
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Q: ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad???
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Um, have you ever heard of BLOODBORNE PATHOGENS? I think you need to ask yourself these questions first: How long have you been in a relationship with this person? Do you know that this person isn't a carrier of any bloodborne disease?
Perhaps if you want to pleasure your partner orally during her menstral cycle, you should consider using a dental dam or some saran wrap.
Safety first!
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This column is all about sex and relationships. I started it on the advice of a friend, who insists it should be my job to encourage people in their sexual endevours. ;) Ask anything- NOTHING is off limits!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: alabama Occupation: gov. Age: 23 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: April 24, 2007 Answers: 27 Last Update: February 12, 2011 Visitors: 4325
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